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does she want me to forget her?
we met in 99, but our ''relationship'' started only last year in August.. Within two weeks from the start of relationship I had to leave the country for couple of months (work related) Promised to come back within 3 months but i was asked to extend my contract for add. 2 months.Without consulting her i agreed, as it is a right path in my carrier even though I love her. I wrote her about it and she became upset. I called her, explaining all the reasons, but she does not want to hear.. She told me not to call her (used to call her every other day) and not to mention about love unless i mean it and unless i am back home. Since then I sent her 2 sms and brief email and she has not answered... What should I do, continue sending ocasional sms and emails or stop it and let her think and decide if she wants to come back?
3 Antworten
- vor 1 JahrzehntBeste Antwort
I think if she cant respect your decision to futher improve your life she isnt worth the time it takes to send a SMS. Extending you time helps you move up in the long run. She is being selfish and irresponsible. I'd send one more SMS saying this, " I am sorry you can't be happy for me. I will not 'bother' you any more so if you want to talk, you can call or text me. I still love you." And be done with it. (thank God you aren't in the military, what kind of hell would she be putting you through?)
- AlexLv 5vor 1 Jahrzehnt
Maybe she's disappointed that she won't be seeing you again. Maybe she thinks that if you didn't even mention it to her before agreeing to it that you don't really care. It sounds like this is why she's saying not to talk about love unless you mean it and you're at home. If she was upset about it then she must still care for you. I don't think she wants you to forget her. Get in touch with her when you're back home - like she says. In between why not call her instead of sms'ing and sending brief emails - they are easily misunderstood.
- vor 1 Jahrzehnt
i guess u must let her decide if she truely loves u for sure she will reply ! but u must also keep in contact occassionally only ! GOOD LUCK
