Do you think it is foolish to go back to an Ex in the name of Love?

I left my ex- when my daughter was 2 months old- he treated me really bad and its been six years and its been hard but I never settled for unhappiness and he had a lot of problems, he wouldn't get help or change and I wouldn't put my child through that. It would talk a lot for me to be with someone but I'm determined to find that person that will appreciate me. Sometimes time away from things helps you to grow as a person and that in tune helps you to become a better teacher for your child. Not to say that you will never be together ever again but right now I think that you should take this time to heal and review your emotions so you don't make any kind of sudden decisions or react out of impulse. He cant ever make you feel better about what he's done- he can support you in helping you to deal with it better but first he has to Be a better person. Not today and maybe not tomorrow but one day- I wish you the best of luck...

Sometimes when we have to put things in order all sorts of things come out-- evaluating the wrong in a relationship is only part of it. working to make it better now that put things in order---- put your minds to it and go to work.

You shouldn't cut yourself short. If you were in a bad relationship with your Baby's Daddy then honey you need to move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. I have a couple fishing pools we can do it together. You might catch a couple of bad ones but I promise you'll catch the keeper eventually and you won't regret it . Guess what you daughter needs you to be happy not in tears all the time. So do it for your family!

You still love him, you say. If he was abusive to you - don't even think about it. Think about what's best for you and your child and move on.

If it was a matter for strong wills conflicting a lot of the time - go for it. But, remember, if you allow him to disrespect you - the only person you can change is yourself. Sometimes we make our own monsters. Good luck.

well it depends.Because they say that sometimes love is not enoiugh, but to me that means that sometimes it is..

I don't know your whole situation.Maybe you should just simply tell him the things you've put on here.That you want to be with him but it has to be different.You can't just jump in to it because than they think they can get away with the same mistakes they've always made.I just got back with an ex so I understand..I say give him a shot but let him know that he's on a thin line and make sure to stand your ground..

I wish you luck in life and love!!

the joy of the lord will be your straight, please do allow him a 2nd Chance, at least for the sake of your daughter, forget every pains, agony , shame disgrace and every odd things you went through, accept all in good faith for the sake of your daughter," how will you feel when you see your first daughter beging her younger ones to enter their father's house? what will be your happiness if she is all alone in her father's house ( no brother no sister) she might end up living a misserble life in her own father's house, so please allow the father another chance please.

if it is in the name of love then no but if its for any other reason than yes.