lexi

I'm 14 (15 end of next month) and tomorrow around 5 I'm going to a concert with my friends, which ends around 9. There will be crazy traffic though and it's 40 minutes away from where we live. Since it's a popular band too, I might not be getting home until around midnight. Then I have to shower and that takes me about 40 minutes. I'm used to going to bed around 10 and waking up 6:30 for school. I don't know how I'll be able to handle only a few hours of sleep now. Also when I stay up late, the next morning I tend to get sick to my stomach and I end up puking. Don't tell me to not go to the concert because it's something I want to go to really bad. I don't want to miss school either because I started the beginning of September and I hate being behind on school work. Just please tell me how I can fall asleep fast and not be tired when I wake up in the morning for school. I'm not taking any type of pills or whatever either to keep me awake and I'm not drinking coffee because again I'm only 14. So someone please help me out thanks.

I don't really have a big butt either, but I am skinny and have nice legs and hips and stuff. Anyways, I remembered about two months ago I hung out with my crush who's also my best friend (we both like each other though because we've said it lol). He put his hands on my thigh when we were sitting and I don't know if he really rubbed it but I think he went up and down a few times. It was kind of a tight grip I guess you could say it was a tight grip. He'd also put his arms around my hips and stuff a few times, like when we were hanging out I'd walk by and he'd reach his arms out and touch them. I know it means he likes me because like I said, we've told each other. Then today I see my friend getting her thigh touched by her boyfriend just like my crush did to me. Why do guys do it? I'm so confused! Lol

I went to my friends house yesterday and me and our other friend jumped in the pool fully clothed. It didn't have chlorine in it yet though and had a few bugs and leaves at the bottom. I didn't know that you could get sick. Our one friend actually went under the water so most likely got it in his mouth and stuff, but I didn't. I stayed above the water the whole time. It was only my neck and the rest of the bottom of my body in the water. All day today I kind of felt weird, like I was sweating and feel like I have a fever. When I check my temperature (in my mouth) it says I have 98.8 and 98.9, but I think it's broken because even when I don't have a temperature it still says I do. My friend who went under the water seems fine and isn't complaining about feeling sick so why do I? My parents say I look like I could have a fever and when they put their hand on my forehead they say they can't tell. I'm so terrified. Please help.

I'm 14 years old (girl) and I am on summer vacation. I have been bored these past few days because recently it hasn't been the warmest weather for this time of year (70's) so I can't go to the beach or anything like I normally would. That means I have just been sitting on my phone. I want to avoid everything because I'm so addicted to my phone, I haven't gone a day without it. I have no problem being on my iPad's and stuff because I have no social media downloaded and messaging is turned off. I shut off my phone at 10:00 p.m last night and currently 9:35 a.m. I'm struggling so, I really want to turn on my phone and just see all the texts/snapchats/and calls I've missed. I have a group of friends and it's me, 2 guys, and 2 girls. Currently we're all going through a lot right now and lots of drama about me and one of the guys having a thing with each other and one of the girls and the other guy having a thing with each other, etc. Then also some people in our group are going through a lot or acting different. Why I powered my phone off is because if people text me and it doesn't say "delivered" I want them to realize I'm taking a break. Anyways, I just want to do something where I have so much fun and forget I have a phone. I love those days and those people that make me like that. Also, I can't drive so I can't go anywhere. I could go to a friends house but I always end up being on my phone anyways. What can I do to avoid my phone and not use it for at least 2 days minimum?

I only have 9 days left of school and I'm so excited. Life is always better for me during summer. I get so tan, I don't have to worry about school work, I get to spend time with my family, I go on so many vacations, the beach, days just laying in bed and watching youtube, hot weather, grilling, fourth of july, shorts and tanktops, getting my nails done, swimming, going out to eat, kayacking, etc! I'm a freshman and this year was tough but I also enjoyed every minute of it! High school is going by fast. I remember when my teachers were saying "only 200 more days left of school!" and stuff, lol. Who else is excited for summer? What are some of your favorite things to do? What have you been doing while on break? Please go all into detail because seeing all of you excited makes me even more excited!

I only have 9 days left of school and I'm so excited. Life is always better for me during summer. I get so tan, I don't have to worry about school work, I get to spend time with my family, I go on so many vacations, the beach, days just laying in bed and watching youtube, hot weather, grilling, fourth of july, shorts and tanktops, getting my nails done, swimming, going out to eat, kayacking, etc! I'm a freshman and this year was tough but I also enjoyed every minute of it! High school is going by fast. I remember when my teachers were saying "only 200 more days left of school!" and stuff, lol. Who else is excited for summer? What are some of your favorite things to do? Please go all into detail because seeing all of you excited makes me even more excited!

For starters I'm a freshman in high school and I haven'f missed any days so don't worry about my attendance.

Reasons I want to go to school: I have off Monday for Memorial Day so I don't see why there's a point in taking off on a Friday, I have gym class which I love, I hate taking off days, my friends want me there, etc

Reasons I don't want to go to school: I want to have an even longer weekend, I want to stay up late tonight, I want to relax tomorrow, and much more but I can't remember them now.

What do you guys think I should do? Dumb question but it's straight forward. Let me know if it's worth it to miss tomorrow or not.

I'm a 14 year old girl so most of you will blame break outs on my age, but that's not true. I started puberty when I was 12. I never get acne during the summer, only school year. Also, I come from a family with extremely clear skin all through their life. I also eat healthy too. I don't get bad breakouts during the year, just a pimple or two every few months, but during the summer my skin is smooth as a baby's butt. I think it's because I get stressed at school so I touch my face more, but who knows. I also heard the sun helps with acne? Maybe that's why because my family also tans really easily and during the summer I'm practically black, lol. Am I the only one who has clesr skin during the summer and breakouts through the school year, or no?

I feel like messing with them through text. For example I asked them "when's the fourth of july?". What other funny stuff can I ask? Thank you.

I am recovering from a cold. I just got back from the doctors an hour ago and they told me I had no fever and just to keep taking my cold medicine. A few minutes before I went to the doctors my temp was 99.2. Though, when I got home from the doctors I was at 99.2 still. I ignored it but then I took a warm bath which I thought was okay since I don't have a fever. I take my temp right after I get out and it says 99.8 (I know it would raise after I get our of warm water) but then I washed my face for 10-15 seconds with cold water and took my temp right after which jumped to 100.2! Maybe my thermometer is wrong? Same thing happened at school on Thursday. Nurse took my temperature and it was 98.8 but when I got sent home for puking in school, it raised to 99.5. I was fever free for 2 days. Do you think it's because today it was really hot outside? My face feels kind of warm but when I touch it it's fine. What could this be? Should I listen to my doctor who said I'm fine or should I listen to my thermometer? Also my parents said my temp is normal. I don't know what to believe. Thanks

I was fine until I woke up today. I felt more tired than usual but I thought that was because my parents woke me up a few minutes earlier. I then get on the bus to school. I normally am awake by my first period class but today I wasn't. I started feeling sweaty and shaky and asked a friend in my class to take my temperature. She said she thinks I have one. I then go to gym class and ask my friends there if I have a fever, they pretty much said no I don't. I then do gym class with no problem. I get to social studies and I felt this sudden urge of tiredness like I could fall asleep if I close my eyes for a second. I leave to go to English and ask my friends if I have a fever, they tell me I'm burning up and need to go to the nurse. I told my English teacher and she felt my head, telling me I feel warm but no too bad, and that if I feel worse I should tell her and I should go. Normally I wouldv've just told her I feel awful and want to go down to the nurse immediatley, but we were having an important lesson in class so I wanted to stay. I then am supposed to be in study hall but instead go to the nurse where they say I have a 98.8 temperature. I tell them I really do not feel good and want to go home. They called my parents and now I'm home. My temperature went up pretty fast, because it's about an hour later now and I'm at 99.9. I don't have medicine but I will be getting some in a few hours when my parents come back from work. Should I go to school tomorrow if my fever is gone

Sorry for the detailed information I'm about to say. Right when I get to school I have to poop. I always hold it in but then it causes me to feel like I need to pass gas. When I get home and poop I feel better. I'm not scared of pooping at school necessarily, I'm more scared of smelling like poop for the rest of the day. Also, ever since I was little I could never poop sitting down. I always squat with my feet on the seat lol. I don't want people seeing that when they walk by the stalls you know? I also hate going to the bathroom during class so don't tell me to do that. If I spray perfume on me, could that protect me from possibly smelling like poop? One time I did poop at school and my friends told me I didn't smell, and that I smell good like I always do. So please answer these questions.

1) will i smell like poop if i go?

2) what can i do at school about only being able to poop when i squat?

3) can perfume cover up a possible smell?

Thanks

I am honestly so happy it's fantastic! Monday I had school but it was an easy day because I had all my favorite classes that day and we did nothing because of a massive snowstorm coming our way! Tuesday and today we had no school! We have 3+ feet of snow on the ground and a blizzard happening! It looks so beautiful! Tomorrow is Thursday and we most likely will have school but that's okay because we are having parties for some event in our school! Friday we have no school because of some teacher event. I love this because I got my period on Sunday so I didn't really have to worry about it since I wasn't in school! It will then be the weekend and everything will go back to normal. Around 30 days from now I'll also be going on vacation with my entire family for Easter! Ahhhhh I'm honestly so happy! Please tell me how your guys' week has been so far :) details would be great! Thanks.

I'm 14 and nervous because me and my family are going on vacation together from April 15th to the 22nd. Today is March 12th, and I got my period today. Normally every month I get it around this time (somewhere between the 10th-20th). Vacation is 35 days away so I'm scared I'll get it again while on vacation. Please help what do I do? I have everything I need for my period but I just don't want a vacation that's supposed to be fun to turn into something where I have to have cramps, carry pads/tampons around, not go swimming, be moody, worry if I leaked, etc. I can't recschedule either because we want to be on vacation while it's easter break where me my cousins and siblings have no school. One of my sisters might also be on her period around that time since I always get it same time as her or a week before. She's in her mid-20's so she's used to it but I'm 14 and have only had it for 2 years :( please help. Also my periods are about 5 days but I get brown discharge for another day or two.

I can not stop crying right now. I was letting my cat in from outside because he likes walking around a little bit. I thought he was all the way inside so I close the screen door and for like 3 seconds and he screaming in an agonizing pain that I've never heard before. He's fine now, like he conpletely forgot about it. I still feel bad though and I don't think I'll be able to sleep tonight because all I keep thinking about is that sound he made. I feel like such a terrible person. He scratched my foot when the door was closed on his tail because he was trying to grip onto something to pull his way out. My foot was and still is gushing blood. I deserved it thpugh. Hpw can I stop thonking about this? I'm a 14 year old girl and really sensitive.

I'm a 14 year old girl (healthy, 5'2 and 100 pounds) and I have no acne whatsoever, and yes I've already gone through puberty. It started when I was 12. My face is baby smooth, I have gotten pimples on my face but only one at a time and that's every few months. In my family, no one has acne. All my siblings are done with their teenaged years except for one, and he's almost 18. None of my siblings have or had major acne, they had it like me...one pimple every few months. My parents never had acne. My cousins/uncles/aunts/etc don't have it either. I know I won't get breakouts, but how can I prevent any from happening just in case? I drink plenty of water. I eat pretty decent, I go out to restaurant quite often but I always have a few healthy stuff during the day, like peas, salads, apples, etc. I shower nothing less than 2-3 times a day and use a face wash everytime I'm in the shower. I also never touch my face and my hands are never dirty because I wash them. I don't have oily skin either. Do you think I'll be okay? Thanks :)

I'm a 14 year old girl, and I have such a bad attitude. I have a really good personality, I get along with everyone. When I'm mad, it's a whole different story. I notice this problem only with my dad and 2/5 of my siblings. The others I am fine with. I feel bad, because I know this isn't me. It might be because I'm a teenager, and the people I give attitude to normally start the problem first, but I've never seen my friends act the way I do. I have a perfect life too. A beautiful house, loving and close family, happiness, etc. My siblings never had an attitude like I do, according to my parents. I don't realize I'm giving attitude until after it happens. I've tried stopping so many times and focusing on my tone and words but it fails. People view me as an angel, because believe me I really am a good person, I'm good at controlling my anger around everyone except for family. I feel bad for giving attitude to my parents, but mostly my dad because he's such an amazing person and cares for everyone. My mom I normally don't give attitude to, because...well I really don't know. I just never have a reason to I guess. I always apologize for my behavior to everyone I freak out on. My parents say they understand and it's just because of the age I'm at now, they also tell me endlessly I'm an amazing person with such a good heart, and that I'll change eventually, but I want to change now though because they don't deserve to here me raising my voice at them.

(I'm a 14 year old girl for starters, and healthy...103 pounds). Okay so literally 10 minutes ago I was in my last class of the day and five minutes before we were about to leave I felt extremely confused, like I was dreaming. Every sound made me feel like I was asleep. I started shaking and getting light headed, also hot. Then the bell rings and I leave, then tell my friend and I started feeling better. Now I just feel skaky sweaty and cold from what happened. For the past two weeks I have been having gas problems, where I always feel like I have to fart and poop. Today is the 5th day of my period and it's practically over so I doubt my dizziness is from that. Maybe my dizziness came from sitting next to a really hot guy in my last class because I get really nervous around him, and I get nervous that i accidentally farted because of my gasp problem, so maybe it's from that. Who knows. Also, whenever I think about being dizzy, I get dizzy. I dont know what to do. I'm not going to school tomorrow because it's my last day before spring break and I'm too nervous that if i go I will feel dizzy again. Do you guys think this was from nervousness? Cause i felt normal again after I was out side and around my friends. Im fine now but still kind of shaky and warm after what happened. Maybe I have anxiety? Idk. Someone help :(

I'm a 14 year old girl, and let me tell you, this pisses me off more than anything. Seriously, is it necessary to fight over something that won't matter five minutes from now? My sister just started screaming at me for leaving my water bottle on the floor. I picked it up, but are you kidding me? The way she screamed at me is the way you would scream at someone for punching you in the face or something. I've noticed this with other people too. It's not like anyones going to die because of one person forgetting something. Obviously if I left the oven on or something, I could see why someone would be mad, but if you're going to start a huge argument because of something as stupid as a water bottle, you seriously need help and have to go to anger management classes. Just calm down people.

My name is Lexi and my sisters name is Bella. When we were born, my parents would tell us apart because of our ear shapes. Mine were pointier, and my sisters were rounder. My parents then named the twin with the rounder ears Bella, and the one with the pointier ears (me) Lexi. You could see our hospital bracelets on us with our names on them in the picture.

Then we had family photos taken a few weeks later, and me and my sister were wearing shirts with our names on it. The twin with the pointier ears (which was supposed to be me) had a shirt that says Bella. Then the twin with the rounder ears (which was supposed to be my sister) had a shirt that says Lexi.

Now it's 2017, we're 14 years old, and my ears are round and my sisters are pointy. That clearly shows our parents mixed us up since our ears are different from when we were born. I know we didnt change ear shapes because in all of our pictures, one of us always had pointy ears and the other had round.

I dont know what to think, I'm kind of mad and shocked that I'm not really who I am. I mean, shouldn't I be Bella? This is all so frustrating and I'm sorry if you guys are confused too. Please help me on what I should do.