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So my father's dad (my grandfather) has a cousin from his father's side. Now she has a son and he is about to turn 21. In relation he is my uncle. Far distant uncle since his mother is cousins with my grandmother...But is he related to me by blood? Is it Haram for me to get married to him?

To make a long story short, I am madly in love with a friend of mine, who is a guy. He knows how I feel about him but is helpless because he is already going through a lot in life which he has to deal with. I don't really pressure him with my feelings but I have said "I love you" to him a couple of times, accidentally. But he said that he wouldn't want me saying that and told me to kind of conceal my feelings since it makes him feel really bad about us not being together. I tried doing that but just yesterday he kissed me...

I don't know this has happened a few times, we kiss, fight, have our moments the way a gf/bf would do but the thing is... in reality we're not together. I don't want to take advantage and do things with him that make him feel bad. But this is my senior year and he is the best thing that's ever happened to me. Motivation is what I would define him as. Around him I feel like the luckiest girl in the world. We're always there for each other. But my question is why can't we be together. He made me wait a few months now...I am trying very hard not to push him but sometimes I am out of control...

What should I do? ))): And thanks in advance. (:

I like this guy and he says he likes me too...There has been complications going on since he let me step in between him and his girlfriend. But when he told me so, I decided to lay it low and not push him with things and have it all his way so that he can sort things out...I asked him one day what I was to him and he said:

I feel like i can b myself. I think of yu as my secret lover. Like yu are there but no one really knows. Yu have some freak in yu nd i like it. But yu dont show it all the time. I jus b noticing wen yu do bcuz yu bite your lip nd smile. I like it but i dont want to use that to my advantage nd make yu feel uncomfortable by being foward nd try to have sex with yu. Yu may think i dont care but im jus showin the respect that yu deserve. I respect your space nd try not to b all close to yu... all in ya face like im bein hype . I cant say i love yu but i do have feelins for yu. I dont show yu bcuz i kno how i can b. Yu made a whole big deal about this nd with yu tellin me, i noticed it at lunch. Thats why i left nd went to class. Yu have the wrong idea of me. Like i told yu wen we first started to talk about this..... there is alot of stuff yu dont kno about me. Yu should jus ask instead of assuming things like everybody else. I didnt think i would have to tell yu that

Then I had decided to tell him why I started to develop feelings for him in the first place. I explained how he looked so much like my ex that it would cause me to just stare at him, etc...And his reply to that was:

See yu jus messed up... one thing yu should kno about me is...... i dont like to b compared to someone else. Nd for yu to tell me that yu see HIM?..... wen yu stare at ME? Even if yu love me, Yu see someone that im not wen yu look at me nd im not cool wit that. Yu must not b over him if yu still feel that way lookin at me. I kno im not the only guy yu talk to. It may or may not be as serious as yu are wit me but that doesnt matter. We will continue this tomar bcuz i kno yu will have somethin to say

What is he trying to say? What will be his next step? Is he going to stay with his girlfriend? I am confused and it is hurting me a lot...Even my family members are noticing a change in me due to this..Its the first time I have encountered such pain that I have never felt before...I wish I knew what to do. I wish someone was there to help me. If you say anything, know that it will help me in some type of way..Please don't hesitate to share anything. Thanks in advance! (:

I am in a dilemma right now. I am seventeen and a senior in high school. Which would be the best choice I would make for myself in order to make my senior year a memorable one? About emotions and true love...

The first guy: He looks exactly like my ex. Everything about them is the same in looks but personality wise they are opposites. At first I thought I only liked looking at this guy but later when our schedules changed, I realized that I missed him. We started to talk, we do everything that a bf/gf does but we're not together. I am in love with him, but he is confused about how he feels about me.

The second guy: He lives across the street from me. He is mad. He stalks me in a sweet way. But we talk like an hour each day. We barely know each other but he is highly attractive and claims he is in love with me.

The third guy: He is a junior in high school, very smart, adorable, sweet, and always asks me how I am. He is in love with me and it even shows. I feel bad because I am confused and don't know how I feel. He would be the guy to do anything to have me. His friends told me he is having problems because of not being able to be with me.

The fourth guy: My ex. He wants me back and its not the one that this new guy looks like...

In the end, I love the guy that looks like my ex. But there is a guy who wants me and would sacrifice for me...I just don't know what is best for me.. I would be with any one of them but my first choice is the guy I am in love with. Except he doesn't want that. Well not yet...

What should I choose for myself? And remember anything you say here will help me in some type of way. So please don't hesitate to share anything. Thank you in advance! (:

I wrote a letter for a guy I love and in return he says this to me.

"I feel bad for not being able to b together. Yu kno someone else has my heart nd me loving yu will only take that love from her which i cant do. This was my real first love nd im not gonna ruin that. Im not gonna lie to yu..... i made her this promise that she will always have my heart nd i wont break that promise. Yu step in between us bcuz i let it get this far. Yu have made me develop feelins for yu nd it makes me mad bcuz i can see where its goin. Thats why i b mad at yu wen i do. Yu distract me from that nd its a problem.But.......

I kno yu can provide that love bcuz of things like that letter. It really touched nd made me feel bad for not feelin the same way. Yu push buttons of mine that it drives me CRAZY..... but i b had to remember the reality. Im greatful for knowing yu. Besides the way that yu feel personally for me, yu are one of the brightest ppl i kno. Yu care for me more than most of my friends out in the world. I am eternally greatful nd i want to say thank yu for doin so like yu do :-)"

What is going to happen now? What did he mean when he said all this? Is the situation predictable? He will stay with his girlfriend isn't he?

I don't know what to tell him next...Can someone please help me...My heart is in pieces right now ))):

I am just speechless like one minute I am smiling the next minute there's tears running down from my eyes...Our story is complicated....I never knew I would be in a situation like this...

But what is he trying to say?

Thank you in advance! (:

Hey there! This is a poem I wrote and I was wondering how it turned out to be. If you click on the link below you will be able to read it. It will only take you 3 minutes to read. So if you get a chance can you please read it and tell me what you think about it here? Thank you in advance.

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In the beginning of my senior year, I was crushing on a guy in class who reminded me of my ex. Of course then I hadn't felt the need of confessing because I found it only a coincidence. But as soon as my schedule changed, I started to miss him and my grades started to go down because of him not being there.

That's when I started to talk to his best friend and tried to know more about him. I ended up falling in love with him. He came up to me on my birthday telling me that he knew who I liked...

I thought his best friend spilled all the info but it turned out that he had figured it out....We started to talk and even made out a few times which felt really different. Every time I drew back from him I felt pain which I really can't express in words.

We had a little gap in between and when I asked him if we could make us official he said that I was someone so perfect for him to be with, that I was so different and he didn't want me to change for him.

Today I asked him why he makes out with me if he doesn't love me. He tells me that his heart belongs to someone else. I am a bit confused if he means that he is with someone because in the beginning he told me that they were done...

Now I am hurt...I love his honesty but it hurts how everyday I have to sit in English class hearing his voice which sounds so much like my ex, his appearance and personality so similar to him..I love staring at him, talking to him since he makes me smile. But I don't know why this is happening because he told me he would make things official between us.

I don't even know what to do. I tried talking to my ex to see if I had feelings for him but I realized I love this guy who I met just this year...Even though he may not feel the same way about me, I know what I'm feeling. I wish if things were easily predictable and comprehendible...

I don't know what to do now...Because I am once again unable to focus in schoolwork...its just sooo hard for me to forget him, to leave this aside, and move on...So many guys at school are willing to be my boyfriend, to ask me on prom, but I only love this guy....

What should I do?

Back when I used to volunteer at the hospital last summer, there used to be this guy who would always smile at me and say hi each day I would wait for my ride to come.

Then, I didn't know we would end up in the same high school. And soon we started to talk at school and we are pretty great friends. However, last week he told me he had something important to tell me. This is what he said:

I think that you're smart. I think that you determined to achieve your dreams. I think that you're pretty. I love your smile and when you blush. lol I like when you turn your head when we talk because you didn't hear me : ) I like how modest you are. I love how much you care about what I tell you. I like you name Tasfia(Purity). That stuck in my mind since you first told me. I like your voice, it soooo interesting. I like how you cover up, instead of showing others what you have and distracting them from your face and personality. I wonder if we'll still be friends in the future.

I love how consistent you are. I like that you aren't like these worldly girls. I like when you're quiet. I like when you speak. I love the way you carry yourself.

Your silence keeps me curious. I don't like that. I want to know what your thinking about, the same way I openly tell you how I'm feeling.

But two days later when I asked him if he would ever kiss me, he said, "No. I like you, but you're not my type."

Was he just playing around and using me as a backup to say those words and make me fall for him? Why did he do that? I wish I never asked him that question. And he even posted up a new status on his Facebook. 'I hate being away from her.' Who was he talking about? Should I ignore him?

I know that he loves someone else but why did he say those words above, to me! Thanks for taking the time to read this and please don't hesitate to share any suggestions or comments here. Thank you in advance!

Lately, I am not able to sleep right. Every night I start crying for the stupidest things that have happened to me...I don't know. It's as if my past is haunting me. I don't know why I am feeling this way but its making me very weak. I cant put my focus into schoolwork and it is stressing me out. I am acting real strange as my family members have pointed out. Nothing seems right to me and it feels as though something is missing in my life. But I just don't know what that is.

And its people at school that are making me feel this way. Sometimes I feel like running away, screaming so loud but there is no one there...

How would you know when something is a mistake? When you're making a new friend, how would you know that they're not just using you, that they'll always be by your side. What if you're so emotional that you don't see right from wrong? What should be done then?

I used to have a friend who would always be there for me back in the 8th grade. He understood me more than the friends I had since middle school though we only knew each other for a few months. Now during my senior year, I meet someone who is exactly like him. Both in personality as well as character. Was this all a coincidence or was it meant to happen? And yes with my previous friend, I was hurt in the end. Not by him, but just by the way things were...

But now with this new person, I have feelings for him even though I have known him for only 3 months now. I confessed my feelings to him but he told me to wait and know him more. I hope he isn't playing around with me. I am just too emotional currently to be knowing right from wrong. How do I know how he feels? I mean, I asked him but he told me to wait and not rush through things. I just don't know what to do. My emotional life is being affected by this because he's the only thing remaining on my mind at the beginning and end of each and every single day. )):

I would appreciate it if I had gotten some advice on this and remember everything you say will help me. So please don't hesitate to suggest anything. Thanks in advance! (:

(Also: MY old friend was my ex.)

I love to write stories and there are some which are very long almost like novels. I am trying to get them published but I don't know anything about the publishing process. Can someone explain to me how books are published and how I can get mine published?

Thanks in advance! (:

I am unable to access my Yahoo Mail (my inbox) since yesterday. This has happened to me before but only for a matter of hours not an entire day! What should I do? And why is this happening?

How do I fix it?

I used to have an old friend of mine who meant the world to me. He had always been there for me in both good and bad times. I was able to tell myself that someone was there to help me when I needed help back when we used to be in the 8th grade. But after our graduation, things changed. He moved to another part of the state and I was in love with him. But years passed by and now in my senior year I met a guy who looks exactly like him and have so much in common when it comes to interests and personality traits. Why did I meet this new person? Why was my old high school meant to shut down and why was I meant to meet him? Was this all just a coincidence?

Can it be possible for two people to look exactly alike when they aren't related in any way whatsoever? Is it possible that they are so alike that you actually are able to remember and cherish old memories?

If so, why? Why would something like this happen. Would it happen to rectify a current state of confusion or would it be another chance to have those days back?

And is it also possible that we become more than friends as well? Thank you so much for reading this and answering in advance (:

So there is this guy who is a senior just like me. We kissed yesterday. And after that I had asked him what this kiss meant and where it was supposed to lead us. He smiled at me but didn't answer. Just before school was over he told me that I was soon going to be his girlfriend. I asked him when that was going to happen and he said right after he gets himself together.

This put a lot of thought into my mind because we kissed even though we weren't in a relationship and we are both single and in love with each other. What does this mean? Does he have something planned out? What is he about to do? What is going to happen next?

I am really confused and would highly appreciate it if someone were to help me out. Thank you for reading this and remember that every comment and suggestion you mention here will help me out! Thanks in advance! (:

My ex, he was the most special and dearest person in my life. We were the cutest and most romantic couple back in the 8th grade. But after graduation he moved somewhere else thus we had to break up.

Now, I am a senior in high school and I am attending a new school. And here, I met a guy who looks and acts exactly like my ex. They are completely alike. I don't even know how that is possible but it's true. I love talking to him and we are good friends. I have feelings for him and so does he. But I don't know what is holding us from being in a relationship. Plus, I just cant live without him. He is something different. Though I loved my ex this new friend of mine means something more to me. There is something different about him and I wish I knew what I am feeling right now. Is this love? Am I getting a chance to relive those memories? Should I make the first move or wait for him?

I am highly confused and would like some advice. Please don't hesitate to comment or suggest anything because whatever you say will help me. I appreciate you for taking the time and reading this and am hoping that you answer as well. Thanks in advance! (:

This is what my story will be about. I am still working on the plot and it will eventually change as I write but I need help coming up for a name for the kingdom.

A girl who was separated from her family, then soon became a famous dancer in some magical kingdom. She soon realized that she was hated by her co dancers who were really jealous of her. That's when they got to her weakness. Her true love. The prince of that kingdom soon to be king. But one of the co dancers was her true friend and stood out of the group by informing her about their plans and warned the girl. The girl then told her to be a part of them without letting them know that she was helping her. Now this friend of hers had powers that she had absorbed into a pendant for she knew she wasn't going to live long. And she told the girl that she was to be killed but will relive her life. The girl is confused and when the other dancers drown her on the day of her big performance she swims underwater and puts the pendant around her neck.

Many years later, the girl is able to live again due to the pendant and she is a witch. She remembers the girl and tries to trace her family and it turns out that the girl was a ghost herself. And she lives a modern life in the present times and meets a guy in college who looks exactly like the Prince she once loved...

If you feel like you have anything to suggest please don't hesitate. Anything you say will help me. I appreciate it that you're taking the time to read this. Thank you so much in advance! (:

There's this guy I talk to at school but he seems to be acting different every time. One day he is all happy and comes to talk to me. Then suddenly the next day he is upset and down and that's when I go to talk to him. He is around his friends a lot so I can never get to speak to him alone. But yes, he does open up to me.

He is aware of how I am in love with him. And yesterday he was saying how he thinks I am playing around with him. But the ironic part is I feel as though he is playing with me! The thing is we were supposed to be mad at each other right then but I smiled and told him to answer why he thinks so when he gets the chance.

But it has been bothering me a lot. Because at school quite a few people asked me if we were in a relationship and one guy in class told me that I should tell him how I feel about him.

I just don't understand what is between us. But it hurts me to see us not going anywhere further from where we are. I hate doubting him because I love him but I also want to know how he feels as well.

How will I figure that out? Can someone help me? Which step should I take now? Will there be something between us? I am in need of advice and support. So anyone who has anything to answer thank you in advance! (: I appreciate you reading this and giving me an answer. (:

I am a senior in high school and I am also new to my school. But since the month of September I had a huge crush on this guy at school. And on my birthday which was last month, he told me he knew and that I should tell him how I feel. And so I did, but later it turned out he had a girlfriend. Now, I found this out later only when he told me a few weeks ago.

Today he asks me how I feel for him and I tell him that the answer to that question was something he already knew. I told him he shouldn't be taking with me in the first place whilst having a girlfriend. And that's when he says that they had breaken up.

After hearing this I tell him but still you shouldn't be doing that. Its not right because you don't even know me. He told me that it was over between his girlfriend and him. He then asked me out and told me he will give me time.

However, I have all of these doubts running through my mind. Whenever I try emailing him he never replies. I just don't know what to say despite the fact that I love him so much.

What should I do next? I am in desperate need and I would appreciate it if someone was there to help me out. Thanks is advance!

My crush has a girlfriend. I don't want him to break up with her and ask me out because he only met me last month and I don't know what's going on between them either. Plus I told him not to hurt her for me because in life we don't get what we want so its best we make the best out of what we have.

I am a senior in high school and there is a guy who is my friend and whom I'm deeply in love with. Its been a while since we know each other too. Before he would only say Hi and how I was doing. Now he hugs me and touches me on my waist and sort of rubs it quickly with his fingers as he passes by. He does it all the time even when I am sitting down.

But today when I was sitting on my laptop at lunch, he bent down and hugged me. I felt his hand on my waist and his face touched mine. That's when I looked at him and I don't remember what happened afterwards. I just remember staring into his eyes...

But why did our faces touch? And then when I asked him what the hug was for, he touched my chin (the way guys do when they are about to kiss a girl) and smiled at me. And what does this indicate? Had he done that intentionally? Do we have something going on that we're unaware of?

Thanks for reading this in advance! I just need some help with this and if you have any comments or advice please don't hesitate to share it. Thank you! (: