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Nicole
Anxiety/Depression or Bipolar Disorder?
The last four months have been a horrible emotional rollercoaster and I have no idea what's happening. I think I've been having panic attacks, but they usually cycle on and off for a day and then I randomly get super happy and calm like I love everything and am going to be okay. Sometimes I'll feel normal, but be randomly jumpy/easy to startle. Other times my thoughts are all over the place and I'm nervous. Yet other times I'm super down and cry nonstop when I'm away from people or not around people that would care (walking across college campus b/c no one would actually stop me to see if I was okay, no one cares). Other times I'm randomly pissed about insignificant things. I keep making jokes about jumping off a cliff or dying without actually meaning I'll act on them, but the thoughts are going through my mind. People say things that upset me and I just shut down and become emotionless or I randomly get overly happy, or I panic, or I worry/cry. I have also felt like my verbal and nonverbal cues have been out of sync. Like I'll be excited about cleaning the freezer at work because I usually do love doing it, and while smiling and feeling excited I say "Great, I'll freeze." in an annoyed voice. I'm not even sure where those words came from? It's so weird! I feel like my life is falling apart. I've always been a happy/smiley and energetic person that can do 50 things in a day, sleep 4 hours, and then do it again the next day without feeling worn out, but now I can't?Pleasehelp
2 AntwortenMental Healthvor 6 JahrenBest guy friend drank for the first time (I think) and it made me anxious?
My best guy friend just turned 21 and had his party at a bar. I'm totally anti-alcohol and he knows that and went along with that principle as well, but now he's legal. He had 5 shots before I left the party and more afterwards. When I saw him take his first drink I almost cried. I had expected him to try a few like maybe 3, where he wouldn't be drunk from them, but he had many more. I'm not really in the "cool crowd" like his other friends and when I said goodbye he seemed overly happy about the party in general and almost mockingly nice? Just really fake I guess and it scared me to death seeing him not quite him. Made me feel like he might normally be fake when talking to me because he acts differently around me. Being sober when everyone else is drinking is really boring and he asked me if I was having fun and believed me when I said yes even though I swear my anxiety was showing and he knows I would've been uncomfortable. I spent the night worrying about him and his girlfriend who wasn't feeling well. I texted him afterwards and he was proud of what he drank. I know it's his 21st, but I'm afraid he'll drink with his girlfriend more now that he's legal. I feel like my whole world is crashing down around me in confusion. I keep telling myself it's his decision, but I feel like he's doing it for the cool crowd friends and not being him. Why does this upset me so much?/Should I just ignore my feelings?
3 AntwortenBeer, Wine & Spiritsvor 7 JahrenHelp finding a college with smart and enthusiastic students?
Hello, I'm currently a freshman at Miami University of Ohio. I chose this school because it was in-state and had decent academics and music. However, I hate it here. I'm a really enthusiastic person who will jump up and down after learning something new. I love to study because the real world connections are so exciting! At Miami, I feel as though no one shares my enthusiasm. My professors talk to me like I'm dumb and don't care to learn. They don't believe me when I say I'm up at 3am practicing my violin and flute because everyone else sleeps instead of practicing. Volunteering is nonexistant because clubs aren't organized. It's just... hard. There's a lack of initiative and dedication. I can't be me and show my nerdy side without being made fun of.
I'm trying to find a school to transfer to, but I can't find one. Hence why I just chose Miami to begin with. A bit about my background:
I have a 30 ACT.
HS GPA was 3.93 unweighted. 4.5 weighted with calc I and calc II transfer credit.
I was president of LEO club and spent so much time planning and coordinating activities (LEO club is a volunteering organization that was the most wonderful experience ever!)
I was an active member of 8 clubs throughout my HS career. These include volunteering, student government, and academic clubs. Active=come to all meetings, participate, be one of the only people to take initiative and follow through.
I ran varsity XC and track every fall and spring.
I play both flute and violin at an above average level.
Played in many ensembles on either instrument afterschool.
I worked a job during my senior year on school nights.
I love every part of my life. I love work (Arby's), I love school, I love volunteering, I love music, I love hardwork, and I love challenging classes. I just love life! My dream is to make a difference in the world. :) I know I can, I just need to find the right path and this isn't it.
I need a school that challenges me. My interest is a double major in music and a science. (Either psych based music, environmental science, or another harder science). However, I can't seem to find strong music and science schools? I also need a medium sized school so I can be close to my profs but still have research options etc. I need a school that I can be proud of and to be with students who want to learn. Help! Please! And thank you in advance!
1 AntwortOther - Educationvor 7 JahrenSmart, but can't find a college for me?
Hello, I'm currently a freshman at Miami University of Ohio. I chose this school because it was in-state and had decent academics and music. However, I hate it here. I'm a really enthusiastic person who will jump up and down after learning something new. I love to study because the real world connections are so exciting! At Miami, I feel as though no one shares my enthusiasm. My professors talk to me like I'm dumb and don't care to learn. They don't believe me when I say I'm up at 3am practicing my violin and flute because everyone else sleeps instead of practicing. Volunteering is nonexistant because clubs aren't organized. It's just... hard. There's a lack of initiative and dedication. I can't be me and show my nerdy side without being made fun of.
I'm trying to find a school to transfer to, but I can't find one. Hence why I just chose Miami to begin with. A bit about my background:
I have a 30 ACT.
HS GPA was 3.93 unweighted. 4.5 weighted with calc I and calc II transfer credit.
I was president of LEO club and spent so much time planning and coordinating activities (LEO club is a volunteering organization that was the most wonderful experience ever!)
I was an active member of 8 clubs throughout my HS career. These include volunteering, student government, and academic clubs. Active=come to all meetings, participate, be one of the only people to take initiative and follow through.
I ran varsity XC and track every fall and spring.
I play both flute and violin at an above average level.
Played in many ensembles on either instrument afterschool.
I worked a job during my senior year on school nights.
I love every part of my life. I love work (Arby's), I love school, I love volunteering, I love music, I love hardwork, and I love challenging classes. I just love life! My dream is to make a difference in the world. :) I know I can, I just need to find the right path and this isn't it.
I need a school that challenges me. My interest is a double major in music and a science. (Either psych based music, environmental science, or another harder science). However, I can't seem to find strong music and science schools? I also need a medium sized school so I can be close to my profs but still have research options etc. I need a school that I can be proud of and to be with students who want to learn. Help! Please! And thank you in advance!
1 AntwortHigher Education (University +)vor 7 JahrenTurning off alarm clock without realizing?
I have a huge problem with turning my alarm off as soon as it sounds without consciously realizing it. I tried putting my clock on the other side of my room with a ton of crap to jump over to get to it, but it still happens. I got my first phone a year ago and used that alarm because I didn't know how to turn it off well yet. ...still turned it off in my sleep. I set multiple alarms at 3 minute increments and that still didn't work, I turned them all off. I don't get enough sleep. I get anywhere from 3-6 on weekdays because of homework, but it happens even when I'm not sleep deprived. I apparently hate getting up early in the mornings. The only thing I haven't tried is clocky, but something tells me my subconscious would still find it and go back to sleep, or I'd turn it off in my sleep before my alarm went off. My parents had to wake me up by yelling "you're going to be late!!" the last 4 years, but I'm in college now. I've already overslept 3 classes and one was a 10-10:55 class! I feel like I'm out of options. I've tried going to bed earlier, but I can't get everything done homework wise before 11pm. :/ Any suggestions and/or explanations? Thanks!
1 AntwortPsychologyvor 8 JahrenCried at work because one of my coworkers was being yelled at by a customer?
I work at Arby's and a few months ago a customer started yelling at me for him getting the wrong sandwich. I thought it was my fault, but I did put in what he ordered correctly and the order was completed correctly, he just ordered the wrong thing. Well he was yelling at me and I felt horrible about it and apologized sincerely and offered to make him the correct sandwich because it was my fault for putting in the wrong order but he kept going off. Then the shift manager came over and tried to calm the guy down but the guy attacked my manager as well! I then tried to turn the attention back on me because I couldn't handle the guy verbally attacking my manager and the guy asked me if "I even graduated" (which hurt because I had just graduated a few weeks prior and am an all A student going to a good college). I broke into silent tears. My boss caught wind of the situation the next day and told me not to let a customer make me cry and to not take what they say personally. He said it in it's not your fault, I'm sorry he hurt you, but with an edge of keep your emotions under control.
Well, again today a customer was upset and blamed it on the assistant manager. The assistant manager tried to explain that the coupon was a buy a sandwich get a free fry and drink, but the guy believed that it was buy a sandwich and get another sandwich, and a fry, and a drink all free (and he'd wanted double the coupon aka 4 sandwiches) The customer got all heated about it and started throwing food and insulting my manager. I'm not an aggressive person at all, and I care a lot about my coworkers, so seeing them unjustly insulted hurt. After the guy left everyone was like what the heck? about the guy and my eyes started tearing up, so I went off to the side and hid my face so no one would see. But of course they noticed. I hate that I can't control my tears, but when someone I care about is verbally attacked I get silently frustrated and hurt like someone just sliced my heart in half. I'm afraid my boss will find out about me crying again and think less of me for it or that others will think I'm overly sensitive. :/ How can I overcome the emotionalness? I tried detaching myself from the situation, but I'm so much of a "see both sides of the situation" person that I can't stay away. It's really embarrassing and I hate the attention of people trying to comfort me when I cry cuz it just makes it worse and harder to unattach. I'm also that annoyingly really happy all the time person and so when I cry I like smile and laugh it off at the same time. Any tips? And what would you think of people who react to those situations like I did?
2 AntwortenPsychologyvor 8 JahrenGift ideas for my boss? (He's the general manager at the Arby's I work at)?
I was hoping to get a card and have every employee sign it and say something that they appreciate about him (his work ethic, kindness, how fun he is, helpful, great multitasker, puts up with being cussed at) just as a random act of appreciation. But I want to put a small gift with it too that wouldn't seem stupid. Any ideas? Thanks in advance!
1 AntwortFood Servicevor 8 JahrenIs it the club presidents job or the officers job to ask/inform the other about a meeting or officers meeting?
Is it the club president's job or the officers job to ask/inform the other about what was discussed at a missed meeting or officers meeting? The officer refused to attend 4+ meetings with the only reason being not wanting to get up 15 minutes earlier in the morning than usual. Is it the president's job to hunt down the officer after a meeting and go over everything that was discussed and catch the officer up on the president's own time, or the officer's responsibility to ask the president/other officers what they missed? The president catches other officers up when they miss for school related reasons or just reiterates things at the next meeting for that officer.
1 AntwortCivic Participationvor 8 JahrenGetting more and more tired over the last year and a half?
I used to have stamina. Now I wake up unrefreshed and I'm less motivated to do the things I love because I just want to lay in bed and rest. I need naps in the afternoon if I'm not too busy for them and the number one thought that goes through my head is how tired I am. Keeping busy helps because I don't have time to think about it, but as soon as I stop I crash. I fall asleep doing hw now and just don't get it done. I'm an all A student and work very hard, but lately I just can't fight it and I'm turning in assignments late and my grades are dropping. I can't perform as well in sports (I run track/cross country) because they make me even more tired. Distance running requires endurance which I've been losing. I'm incredibly negative now. No matter how hard I try I'm always pointing out the negative things. I'm not me anymore. :( I don't know why I'm so tired and why it's getting progressively worse over such a long period of time. I had bloodwork done and I'm supposedly not anemic and nothing is wrong with my thyroid. I've not been practicing my violin or flute because I'm worn out after 3 minutes. Last year I could practice for 3 hours nonstop easily. I don't care about anything anymore, yet I know I do because I'm passionate about them, I just don't have the energy. And I can't think clearly anymore. I have like a brain fog that prevents me from being able to think. Anyone know what could be causing the fatigue? I'm 17.
1 AntwortOther - Healthvor 8 JahrenAsk my guy friend (who's in a relationship) to go to prom with me?
So my best guy friend is a sophomore in college and I'm a senior in high school. I've known him for 4 years. My sophomore year (his senior year) I got asked to prom by a guy and said yes even though I wished I could go with my guy friend. Afterwards my guy friend said he almost asked me to prom because he knew he'd have fun going with me but another guy had beaten him to it so he went with someone else. Junior year I went dateless to prom and it was incredibly depressing sitting at a table alone awkwardly during slow songs because everyone had a date. Senior prom is coming up and if i got asked by a guy I would say no because there's no one I like/am friends with enough to go and have fun. Would it be inappropriate to ask my college guy friend to go with me? He's in a happy relationship with his girlfriend for a year now. I don't want to impose on their relationship, but at the same time I want to have fun at prom and see him for more than 2 hours. I was thinking about asking and saying we woudn't have to match or go anywhere fancy to eat. I never get to see him anymore because he's at college year round and I miss him. :/
2 AntwortenFriendsvor 8 JahrenGradually increasing fatigue?
I'm a 17 year old teenage girl. I'm a very happy person and have always been full of lots of energy..until recently. About a year ago I started falling asleep right after track practice and cramming my hw in during the school day in other classes. I didn't do this after practice the year before and my speed and training didn't increase between the two years. I figured it was just stress/exhaustion from school. However, it stayed over the summer as well. i slept 12 hours and then feel asleep for a 2-3 hour nap in the afternoon. I woke up refreshed for a few hours and then tired again. this year my xc running was affected. I lost the endurance that I've always had and started hating practice because I didn't have the energy. Went to the doctor, not anemic or anything. The bloodwork came back normal. I usually run over the winter for training, but this year I haven't because I don't have the energy. I love hanging out with friends... but I dont have the energy so I avoid it. I can't practice my instruments due to lack of energy which is incredibly concerning because I LOVE music and practicing. My work ethic has dropped at work, I'm usually an enthusiastic and energetic employee, but not lately. I fall asleep without doing homework by accident. I cant stay awake enough to study so I'm going from an all A student to struggling in my classes. Ive failed my last two major tests. I'm incredibly irritable and uncaring which isn't like me either. It just keeps getting worse and idk why!? Help me please! :(
10 AntwortenOther - Healthvor 8 JahrenHorrible fatigue? :( Please help!?
So I'm a 17 year old girl and I have been sooooooo dead tired lately. I have about 2 hours of the day that I'm actually productive and can think clearly. The rest of the time I'm like on the verge of tears because I'm so tired and want to sleep. But sleep doesn't help. Over the summer I got plenty of sleep, tried different lengths of sleeping etc. and nothing worked. I had to take naps just to make it through the day. I got my blood tested and apparently I'm not anemic or having thyroid problems. My diet is the same as it's always been so it's not that. I've felt drained since last spring. All I want to do now is sleep. I've always loved music and running but I've turned away from both because I don't have the energy to practice or go out for a run. I'm also extremely irritable and pissed off at the world all the time. I've NEVER been like that. I'm usually really understanding and patient with people. It's scaring me. :( I'm not "me" anymore and idk why not. I can't seem to find anything that makes sense. Stress isn't it because I was absolutely not stressed over the summer. I'm not depressed either because I love life and the only reason I'm starting to hate life is because of my lack of energy that forces me to fight sleep all afternoon. Does anyone know what this could be??? I'm desperate! I want to be my old self again. :(
2 AntwortenOther - General Health Carevor 8 JahrenAre self motivated people usually shut down by nagging?
I'm very self motivated and have my own schedule on how to get things done in time, but when my parents nag me to practice my violin (when I was planning on practicing in the morning and finishing hw tonight), I end up not wanting to practice either times because I feel like I'm being forced into it. I love music, so it's not that I don't want to practice I just hate that I'm being nagged. Is this typical of self motivated people?
1 AntwortPsychologyvor 8 JahrenWhy do I laugh when I start crying in front of people?
Whenever I get upset to tears and I'm at school or around others I start to laugh and smile a lot automatically but can't stop crying. So it's awkward because I'm crying hysterically but laughing and smiling. It's weird and people don't know how to react. Why do I do this? I figure it's to convince people that I'm okay, but it never works so idk why I still do it? Is there some psychology behind it?
2 AntwortenPsychologyvor 8 JahrenFemale teen, chronic fatigue?
So I'm a 17 yr old female teenager. Starting last spring, I've felt drained all the time. I am involved in a lot of activities so it seemed normal to be tired. Especially during track season. I just figured it was lack of sleep. Well then over the summer, I felt just as tired and I was getting plenty of sleep. I actually started needing 3 hour naps in the afternoons sometimes because I was too drained to make it through the evening. I was getting like 12 hours of sleep a day. When I didn't feel better I thought the naps were the cause, so I made myself stop taking them for a while, but again, it didn't help. Being a runner I got blood tests done. Results showed that I'm not anemic and nothing is wrong with my kidney's etc. Anyone have any idea what it could be? I don't have stamina anymore for anything! :(
1 AntwortOther - Healthvor 9 Jahren