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My boyfriend is allergic to fruits, but can I make him cookies using raw refined coconut oil?

We picked up a stray kitten that had fleas and brought him into the house. He was briefly in the family room before we put him in a box that was on my bed (for two minutes). We have flea bathed him and got him Revolution from the vet. I still see a live flea or two on him after treatment, but I know that they should be killed soon. My dog hasn't been treated yet but she's next.

As for the question, is our house infested with fleas? if it is, I doubt it's a huge infestation, but we want to be safe. What products should we use on the carpet and furniture? Will washing towels and blankets and clothes kill the fleas and eggs and larvae? Thanks so much!

I got a betta, Lucy, two days ago. I had her in a gallon tank with plants and gravel. Just today I got a 5 gallon with a heater, pump, filter, and light. She got horizontal lines on her. Is she like stressed out since I moved her?

I've been rowing for six seasons, three whole years. Well I'm a senior in high school this fall and I've never made it to the Charles or to the SRAAs. In fact, im the only in my grade that has never been. I was looked over again this year when my coach was looking for an alternate. Instead he chose another junior who had only rowed this season. So she's a first season novice and she went to nationals. After hearing this I was in my car at the boathouse parking lot screaming (literally screaming) and crying and I'm pretty sure that everyone saw. I'm now embarrassed to go back in the fall, no matter how bad I want to. Help?

Hi, I'm a junior and I'm 16. I go to an all-girl's Catholic school. Back in October, a really cute, sweet, and perfect guy from the Catholic all-boy's school in my area messaged me on Facebook and was all "hey you're cute, meet me at this weekend's football game." So I did. We'll call this boy "Joe." I instantly liked him and gave him my number. Wait, stupid me, because I already almost had a boyfriend, "Sam." Well, Joe and I liked each other a lot and I fell for him. Sam asked me out shortly after, and we were pretty happy. However, I talked to Joe 24/7. More than I did Sam. Turns out that we both unknowingly signed up for a 3-day trip to Washington, D.C. for a social justice thing. I was talking to him the day before and he asked what my weekend plans were. I said I was going on the trip and he said "no way?! Me too!"

We took a charter to D.C. (We're from Ohio so it took about 8 hours to drive there. We left at midnight on a Saturday morning.) We were to embarrassed to sit together because I had a boyfriend, so we just texted the whole way. Well, when we got there, we went to the first conference and he sat next to me. I accidentally fell asleep on him and woke up holding his hand. We spent a lot of the time walking around. We held hands everywhere and he would kiss my forehead and tell me how much he loved me. On our monument tour, he carried my backpack for me because I was too tired. He carried my heels for me when it hurt to walk in them, and he always would look at me and smile when we weren't next to each other. Needless to say, I broke up with Sam right when we got back. Joe and I were so happy for the next month or so. We talked all the time until around Christmas break. He stopped texting me or messaging me and I got worried because I didn't want to lose him. I would message him a lot and he finally responded by saying he was on vacation and he'd see me when he came back. We never talked after that until about January 10th. I go to the same gym he plays tennis at, so he can't really avoid me. It's almost impossible. Well I texted him on the 10th (when we were both there) and said "Hey, I'm gonna stay after so we can talk. Alright?" He said "sure." But I had to rush out so I texted and explained that I had to leave, and we talked all that night after he said "haha it's alrightttt:)" I saw him three days later and we made out in my car and talked about everything and what happened." We didn't talk after that until this past Thursday, when I asked if he had thought about our relationship or anything. He said "idk.." And I sent him a message, letting him know how I feel. He didn't answer so I sent another and said I'd give him space because I know he wants it. Now I hurt. I can't bear the thought that he's talking to another girl online. I'm almost sure he is and it hurts so badly that I haven't slept or eaten in days. I haven't talked to him since that day and it's hard not to message him when he's online.

Question: How long do I need to give him space for?

Any advice?

What does he want?

Please help me. Thank you in advance.

My boyfriend just got his appendix removed and he hates when I see his scar. I don't mind it at all and I want him to know that. I was wondering if it would be weird for me to kiss his scar while I'm kissing his body right before giving him a *******. Is it suitable? Thanks!

This guy I like, sam, just broke up with his girlfriend and we started talking. we were up until like 1 a.m. texting. We were really flirty and it made me feel soo good. I want him so bad and I want him to be with me. He told me that i was sexy and sweet and fun and energetic. all good things i thought. well today he said "i think we started out on the wrong foot, lets start over." so now he stopped texting back and i told him to be honest with me, it's okay if he doesn't like me. and he said "haha well we're just friends for now(:" i asked if it was gonna stay that way and he said "no clue haha we'll just go with the flow" and i said oh, okay. and he said "we haven't even met dont get mad just let things happen ok? (:" does this mean he doesn't like me? or what? what should i do?

about the scale of life? There's a site where you can look at how big the sun is compared to a bacterium or protozoa or something. Can you helpp me? Thanks so much!

My big brother is graduating from high school tonight and i wanna look really pretty, so I want your opinion! (dont worry the dress is gorgeous in person and looks better on)

Here's the dress: http://www.xoxo.com/dresses/xoxo-draped-side-print...

Here's the shoes: http://www.callitspring.com/us/women/sandals/wedge... (in white)

im short, thats why im wearing heels. i have wavy dirty blonde hair and ill either do a side bun (low) or a side pony. natural makeup and it would look fantastic. well thats what i think. how about you?

Okay well im frustrated because i cant think of the name of this music video...

i think theres a black guy(s) running in the hood/ghetto away from the police. its rap, and he ends up dying in the end by being shot. anyone know? thanks

My tummy hurts, I'm 15 and i row, so I eat healthy. Today we went out to Famous Dave's Bar-b-que and I had a burger. I haven't had that kind of food in a long time. Could that be what's causing my tummy ache? Thanks.

Hmm...not so sure! This one's tough!

Spearmint for me :)

Oprah Winfrey show or Ellen? Why?

Hi, I'm in the Decorating Basics class, and I memorized the Class Buttercream Icing recipe:

1c. shortening

1 lb. powdered sugar

1/4 t. butter flavor

1/4 t. almond flavor

1/2 t. vanilla flavor

1 T. meringue powder

7-8 T. water

Now, I'm making a birthday cake and I need to make black. My teacher said to make chocolate buttercream and then add the black to that. Is this correct, first of all? And second question, how much cocoa powder do I add to this recipe? Thanks so much for all the help!

At a dance, a slow song played and it sounded like it was sung by an african american man, and it was like "1, (something something) 2, (something something), 3, (something something), 4, (something something) 5, (something) and I think in there sonewhere it says like you're the only one for me.. but I might be delusional...idk. please help! Thanks :)

i went to my boyfriends house tonight. his parents were gone and his little sister has a babysitter and she knew i was over. shes our age so didnt care. (15 and 16) anyways. we didnt do anything. we layed down in his bed and just talked and kissed a little. we didnt do anything bad at all and it wasnt even making out. well his friend came over after i left. when my boyfriends parents came home they asked his friend why he didnt come over earlier and he said "because noah had jacky over." im screwed to ****. please help me i dont know what to do. my boyfriend said that his mom and dad didnt punish him, they just dont trust him anymore. i feel like theyre gonna think im a slut too. what should i do? things wont be the same.