Just Me

boyfriend and I emailed, inst. messaged for hours for months and months -- suddenly our communication has been chopped in half -- he 'is not online' or needs to eat or is cooking or has something else to do ---- if I mention that we are not in touch so much and infer that he is moving on, he turns things around and says I'm paranoid --- then last week he said something about me wanting to cut him loose --- what is the meaning of this from a man's point of view and what should I do?

My bf and I had a difficult week last week --- we were both under a lot of stress and suddenly he says he needs his space ---- he suffers from depression. However, during the same week he told me how understanding I am of this .............

Over the weekend I attempted to explain that he did not need to get defensive with me but to understand that sometimes things which arose from me were not directed at him but were old childhood wounds reopening.

The first communication we've had this week is and I quote

"One of the things you said to me last week was for me to write again when I was ready--I will when I am--OK??"

I responded that was fine --- I thought maybe he just needed space and I was giving him that unconditionally and hopefully he'll find some happiness. He replied 'yes it is and please give it to him.' An additional response to the happiness remark was and I quote again.

"I am trying but it is hard--oh so hard" (he's talking about being happy)

Do you think he is breaking it off with me or his depression is this overwhelming? I eluded to a breakup earlier and he questioned me as to why I always thought the worst. What do I do?

My fella and I have been emailing and IM every evening after work for several hours --- 'til 9 or so. One morning last week I got a message he sent to me in error which was intended for another woman. He was asking her if she had a hot date and to fess up. I called him on that --- not in a fussing way, or a nagging way. His response was that he was taking time off and would be in touch..... The next day, he emailed me and said that he was in a crappy mood and that I didn't deserve that. I agreed (we are both online date with emails only to others). He has been attentive since. Except he began night before last telling me he had a ruff day at work on Monday and signed off at 7:30; last night I got the same thing at 7:00 which is soooooo unusual.

Shall I toss him to the curb and forget it; shall I mention this to him; if so what to say?

I'm in the air about it --- would like to keep things the way they are or were before I was being blown off ------

Please send your best advice ---- thanks

I am so confused. I don't know the difference in these terms.

I have a friend who is a cross dresser, always talks about trannies and I'm not sure how to respond. I want a clear understanding of these terms and how they could impact one's sex life. I am so confused.

We are still in daily contact many emails and IMs .He says that he's planning on seeing me again but never commits to a date or a time. I mentioned it to him today and simply said that I may be in the wrong pew on this --- his response was that he had said he would see me --"how much clearer can I get" he says. Should I just walk away?