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My ex and I broke up in Feb of 2009. I recently found out that he is engaged to a woman with the same first name as I already. Should I tell her that we split up because he cheated, is mentally unstable and screws over everyone he meets? This has nothing to do with revenge, or unresolved feelings. I just want to know if its my duty to warn another woman of his ways?

About a month ago, I got really bad chest pains...It was so bad that it made me sick to my stomach. After a few hours it went away, but my back was hurting really bad. The best way to describe it, is to say that it feels like someone is inside my chest, kicking my back and chest at the same time. Ive taken antacids and regular pain relievers, neither of which help. Its not burning like heartburn, it just hurts! My aunt told me that it might be an ulcer, so I quit eating spicy foods. Now, it seems that no matter what I eat, within a few hours im going to be in pain and vomiting. So there is no specific trigger foods that cause it. I dont know what to stay away from. There is sometimes gas and diarreah associated with the other stuff. Any suggestions? Anyone else have the same problem?

I was seeing a man off and on for years. Eventually he asked me to marry him while he was in Iraq. I of course agreed since he had always been there for me, even when we weren't seeing each other. He wouldn't set a date but kept promising, "next time we talk we will talk about the wedding." The Next time we talked he decided that he wanted to break up with me. He says that he is going to be in Iraq for another year and that he doesnt want me waiting around...also says he wants to focus on his kids and his career...I accepted it and wished him the best of luck.

A couple weeks ago, about 7 months after we broke up, I literally accidently found his myspace. I was looking at it and I noticed that he is married now. Of course Im happy that he is with the mother of his children, but then I notice the dates of her comments and stuff...The dates where she is saying, "I love you too baby!!!" and stuff like that are the same dates that I received emails from him saying, "I cant wait to come back home to you so no one steals you away again. I love you baby. I cant wait til we can finally get married."

What I need to know is if I should forward the emails to his wife to let her know that he is a cheating scumbag...or should I let her find out on her own one day?

It should be an easy decision...but there are two, maybe three children under the age of 5 involved and I dont want them to get hurt...Those children are this man's world...Please help me decide what I should do

I work for a temp agency, meaning I do a different job everyday. On any given day there is no guarantee that I will be given a job...it is just if they have any available. My question is can i still draw unemployment in the state of Virginia if I am employed at the temp service? Keep in mind I dont get a paycheck every week, I get paid min wage on the days they have a job opening...which could only be once or twice a week. Because it is a temp service, and not considered a "real job" will it make me unqualified?

shower and and wash throughly everyday. Yesterday, there was a REALLY bad odor coming from my crotch area. I cant describe the smell any better than to say it was decomposing animal odor. I know that sounds really bad, but the smell was. There is no smell coming from it today...but there is a lot of discharge. Its not an unusual color or anything...I dont have a yeast infection...has this happened to anyone else? anyone have any idea what it could have been?

Its not a yeast infection because Ive tested for it. Its not an STD because me and my husband have both been checked and are STD free.

My step-daughters name is Kaya Jae, but the middle name is to be changed. What else do you think goes with it?

I think I may be pregnant, but it is VERY early on. I have the fatigue, the unusual eating, nausea and the smallest amount of weight gain. Another thing that has been happening is that Im getting dizzy and extremely cold! Its like 80 degrees outside, and im wearing a thick hoodie and im still cold! I know it sounds like a regular cold or even the flu, but im not feeling sick in any other way, just the nausea.

I know i could take a test, but I dont want to waste the money if its negative.

I just want to know if that is a symptom usually conected to pregnancy

I first started beliving about 7 years ago...

My uncle died of cancer, and he died at home. Well a few weeks after his death, me, my mom (his sister) and his stepdaughter were all sitting in the room he died in. There was a big storage trunk that the tv sat on top of in the room, and we heard loud knocks from the inside! There is no way anyone could have gotten in there!

Now, that room has been converted into a bedroom that my sister sleeps in. I was over there visiting and the back door kept opening. No one was up but me, and I locked AND deadbolted the door! It opened 3 times! Then, if my aunt, his wife, is cleaning up and starts complaining and yelling, he will throw pictures off the wall or something off of a shelf near by to make her shut up.

Another story: I was at my friend's house late one night. I kept seeing like a shadow out of the corner of my eye. I kept looking, but there was nothing there.

A few weeks later she tells me her house is haunted, and I just laughed at her. She was telling me that they had seen a Confederate Soldier in the house and there are black shadows and orbs.

I had seen the black shadows in the few weeks prior, then, three days ago, I saw an orb!

Last night at work I saw an old man with a combover, a polo shirt and glasses standing outside the window. Wen I went to the window, there was no sign of him!

So what do yall think? Do yall believe?

Share some of your stories!

I like reading ppls questions, but wen they are all about Miley Cyrus or the Jonas Brothers its boring. Can yall please come up with some different ppl?

I work the graveyard shift at a motel, and it is very slow and boring all night. Well, I had some family issues throughout today, so I didnt get to sleep....Now I keep dozing off...how can I stay awake? Dont suggest coffee, I cant drink it. The only drinks we have in the drink machine are non-caffinated! Last restraint, Im stuck in this room all night and I cant leave!

Its a song by the girl group the Yeah Yeah Yeahs.

Some of the words are:

Pack up, Im straight

My kinds your kind Ill stay the same

Pack up, dont stray, oh say say say, oh say say say

Wait...they dont love you like I love you, wait, they dont love you like I love you

Maps

Im 5'1 and I weigh bout 175lbs. Im just wondering if yall think that is too much? I want to lose some weight, but I dont want to lose my curves. Do yall think Im too fat?

I want to buy a BlackBerry Pearl for T-Mobile. I am willing to pay about $150 for it. Will someone be able to help me? I dont want to use E-Bay. I would prefer to have Red or Blue, but white is okay too