Insatiable

My almost 3 month old male cockatiel has been laying on his mirror that is attached to his door. When the door is open the mirror is horizontal and it looks like a nest. He gets all snug in there and sits for hours. Should i let him or is this bad? We only have him, no other birds/pets and i am a stay at home mom so i spend most of my day with him. We have had him for almost a month and he has come around quite fast to bonding with me and my family. What do you guys think? Will this affect our bonding?

I've seen advertisements for mealworms for cockatiels. I couldn't imagine trying to feed my Tiel live worms. Does anybody do this? Is it healthy for them?

I've been reading up on egg laying and egg binding and stuff i should be prepared for with my tiel Marley who is 10 weeks old. Just wondering when she might start. I'm hoping she is one of those lucky ones that rarely lays since she is our only tiel.

Last night my tiel was sitting on the window sill looking outside (which she normally does) and all of a sudden she just started running back and forth and screaming. I looked outside there were no other birds and no one else out there so i thought maybe she was just seeing her reflection but she has never acting like this in front of a mirror or window before. Anyone else birds do this? She wouldn't calm down so i put her back in her cage so she wouldn't hurt herself.

What can i do? She is always jumping off my hand or shoulder and flopping down to the ground. The pet store cut her wings to short so she cant even glide to the floor. We have had her for about a week and a half. What can i do? I am afraid she will break a wing or leg if she keeps it up.

Ok so I am at my wits end. I live every day wondering what my husband is gonna get mad at me for that day. He is away right now for work and I am thinking of asking for a divorce when he gets home. For the last 6 months he has just been hounding me on how i cause us so many problems, I have taken everything that he has said and I have worked really hard on fixing these problems. Our major one is communication. Well recently I have felt like he just keeps blaming me and not looking in the mirror and seeing that he is part of the problem too. Even his children have noticed that he is just becoming harassing and not very nice. they have told me if it wasn't for there friends they would move with there mom. They are just tired of basically being bullied by him and so am I. I am just so tired of doing everything for our family and just getting yelled at anyway. I would love for him to show some appreciation but I can live with out it, but I can't take constantly being to blame for everything. I know I am not perfect and I do my best to work on my issues but I'm sick of being the only person on this team. I have prayed and prayed and I just feel lost. I am not hoping for a miracle solution from anyone just maybe some ideas. I have suggested marriage therapy on more than one occasion and he keeps telling me I am the one who needs therapy. I'm just so frustrated.

Me and my husband have a great sex life, but I want to do more outside of the bedroom. what can i do in our everyday lives that will make him feel even more appreciated and loved, besides the normal stuff. (saying I love you, making a special meal,etc.) Any ideas would be very appreciated.

My Husband is 15 years older than me. I have grown alot (maturity wise) since our relationship, but it still doesn't seemed to be enough. I love him so much but he drives me crazy. He wants me to communicate more, ok i do that and then he says I'm harboring. He wants me to be less selfish, ok I do that and he doesn't even notice. No matter what I do its never enough. He always turns it around on me. Little stuff gets blown out of proportion and everything is my fault. I'm not over exaggerating, literally everything. there is not one single thing in our entire relationship he will admit being wrong for. therefore 'we don't need therapy, I do'. He is to the point of ending our marriage. I don't want that. I love him so much and I am trying so hard, but I cant ever make him happy. what can I do, besides getting a divorce.

In my first marriage I was miserable. My husband was really controlling, I was never aloud out of the house, I couldn't go see my family. I have always been a really high-spirited person but he wore me down to nothing, well I was in the military at the time and I had to go away for 3 weeks for training. I got completely drunk every night and ended up having an affair. When I came home I moved out and asked for a divorce, not because I wanted to be with this other guy but because I hated myself for what I did. I almost ended my life but I found a great friend who went through the same thing except he was the one cheated on. He saved my life. He is now my husband. We are really happy and I love him so much but the past still eats away at me. What can I do? I have seen Therapist and psychiatrists. Nothing helps. Any advice?