Amy

I am 32 weeks pregnant and have a big problem. We weren't together very long before we conceived, but have known each other for some time. Now that I am pregnant, I can't stand him. I work a management job and make very good money and he works an hourly position and rarely works more than 40 hours a week. We live in the house that I bought and I'm constantly under more and more stress from work and don't feel like he pulls his weight. On top of it, I'm not sexually attracted to him anymore. He is quite heavy, and doesn't care to keep his appearance up. He uses foul language and is always mad that I don't want to snuggle up to him like I used to. He is 5 years younger than me, which is a lot when I am only 29. I am over the party/social scene and he still wants to do it. I already have 2 kids from before us, and feel like I am beyond that point in my life. He is also quite possessive and jealous, which I also find a turnoff when I am obviously extremely pregnant and not out picking people up. I don't want to give up on a relationship with a man I have a baby with, especially when I don't know if a lot of these feelings are just pregnancy hormones, but I am really becoming misrible. Please help!

This is an unusual weekend as my 4 year old is away, my 9 month old is home with myself and my husband. We don't get to go on dates much and don't have a sitter, but what can we do with our baby that is still fun for us. We get so wraped up with the kids we will probably just stare at each other.

I've tried taking couch privileges away and making him only sit on the floor, it seems he just can't help himself. He'll stay off for about 5 minutes, then he's right back up. I have a baby too, so I can't always be on top of it, but it's a new couch and he's driving us nuts, HELP.

My ex and I have been divorced since 2008. I now live in Tennessee and he is stationed with the Army in Tx. He occasionally comes to town to visit our 5year old and in the past, I have let him stay at my house, but I have since remarried and have a new baby and my husband is not comfortable with this. I feel bad making my ex get a hotel room as he has already paid for airfare, so I am torn. In this case, money really isn't an issue, he is a senior officer and makes plenty. For the most part, we get along well, but the occasional snide comment or unwelcome opinion often do make me feel badly. I want to do everything to make sure my son knows both parents love him and I don't want him growing up thinking we hate each other.