TRUSTME

That person is under my care with restrictions.

One day he came home drunk (not suppose to be near liquor, one of his many restrictions) so I called the cops because I didn't want to loose my bail money.

Cops said it was fine as long as he is home and not causing problems. But if he continues that i can go to court and not be his surety anymore.They wrote down information then left.

So my question is: I am suppose to apear in front of the judge under oath. Can they find out about this incident? Will they not give me back my bail money after all is done because of that one incident? He have been good ever since and have been appearing in court.

And the seconde question is: Who gets the money at the end? The reason I ask this is because I paid the bail, certified check, but when i went to pay the courts, the receipt they gave me back didn't say my name on it, but the accused name. And on the bail papers it said it would be returned to the accused! But i paid it not him!

I have no kids and am not sure if I ever want any,and my fiancee is ok with whatever I decide. The problem is that he already has kids from a previous marriage.He is a great father,and was a great husband but the wife screwed up the relationship.He takes care of his previous family and also takes care of me.He isn't a deadbeat father at all. He is great,everything I could ever dream of,I know that this is the man of my life,my soul-mate.The only problem is that I have always been terrified of children - it's like a phobia with me....and he has a hole bunch of them with the ex. He says that it's my choice if I want to be involved or not in their lives when the time comes. I don't see how I can't be in their lives if they are a part of him. Can anyone give me some advise. All I can come up with is to take it day by day.