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So my boyfriend is a couple years older than me (I'm 18 and he's 23) and we've been going out for 2 and a bit months. I don't know if this is normal or not...

So we were at a party and I was just in normal party clothes like my friend and we were just having a couple drinks and dancing and stuff. My boyfriend (call him Tom), came up to me and took my drink away and was like 'you can't handle your drinks babe', and I was like okay whatever, later I had another drink and I wasn't drunk but just on a high. He later came up to me when I was dancing and like pushed me away with him (he's a lot bigger than me). He kept saying that I was being disobeying him by having a drink when he said not to. I got really pissed off and said not to treat me like a kid and when I tried to walk away he grabbed my wrist, pulled me back and backed me up to the wall and said to watch how I spoke to him. He wouldn't let me go and made me go home with him but when I said I didn't want to get in the car and he was like saying all these things about me being young and not knowing anything. He treats me like a kid because i'm younger than him and his friends and uses it to his advantage. But later when we were home he pushed me up to the wall and wouldn't let me leave. I have some bruising on my wrist from him and I don't know whether he was just being overprotective or starting to be abusive. He lost it at me the other day for texting a guy friend of mine. Since he's so much bigger I don't know what to do to stand up for myself and stop him being so dominant over me.

So we started dating a couple months ago but i'm starting to feel it's getting more serious. I've never had a serious relationship so I'm not sure about this and considering i'm 18 and he's 22 i'm just not sure. I feel like he's becoming more controlling of me since i've just moved cities and am getting to know people and he started saying to me "no you're not going there" and like "your mine" and just stuff like that. The other day we were at a party and I got pissed at him and I was just ignoring him and he kept like annoying me and trying to grab me and stuff. Eventually he made me get in his car and go back to his place by cornering me into the car and he said I couldn't leave until we sorted things out. He's alot bigger than me too so I feel quite intimidated when we fight and he's started to hold my arms and pull me back and stuff when I try to get away from him. Is this bad? I don't know how to break up with him

So I have a school dance coming up soon and I can't find any dresses at any shops where I live. I've gone on online stores like Princess Polly, NastyGal, Show Pony, Market HQ and all that but I still can't find anything I like but they sell the style I'm looking for. I'm looking for a tight-ish, colour full mini style dress. Please help!

She's turning 20 and she's really into clothes and fashion, I don't have time to order anything online and all the shops don't really have anything, I want to get her something cool and unique...