Neyem

Hello,

I am a senior in college and I am getting ready to make a big change in my life. I am graduating and moving out of my mom s house after living with her 23 years (my age). I m moving to LA all the way across the country; I live on the east coast. I ve been getting resumes together for jobs and I ll be staying with a family friend for a few months until I get on my feet. It s just a big change. I m graduating and getting out into the real job world while moving across the country at the same time. I m just scared of making a mistake or having trouble finding a job, not making social connections, and having the same problems I have now just in a different place. I do not want to move and come crying back to my mom on the east coast. I want to move and have a better life where I am going. I m second guessing because I m scared. Any one make a change similar to mine? How did you feel? Were you happier? Did you regret it? Did you have any kids who have moved far from you to start a life? Please tell me your experiences and what you suggest , thank you

Hello, I've known this guy for a few years and we have been on and off. We hung out again after a few months of not seeing each other. I went to his house, we sat and talked and drank some martini's that he made. We had a great convo, kissed a bit, then I had to go home. When he walked me to my car he kept saying how we have to do this again. Then gave me a kiss and I went home. Two weeks passed after that night and I heard nothing from him. I decided to text him and asked him why I hadn't heard from him after a good night. He said he's busy and doesn't have time for a relationship which I was not even asking about. He always does this when we hang out. Has such a great time, talks for hours, wants to know about what's going on in my life and all that. But rarely texts if we don't see each other. We've been going back and forth like this for years, although when I first first met him he asked to be my man but I turned it down. But it has been off and on, hot and cold for a long time. What does he mean? What is going on through his head? I don't get it. Express interest, then don't.

This guy I've know for some years. On and off relationship. We hung out the other night had a great time and sex. He even asked me if I only came over for sex and stopped in the middle of it like I used him for it. Which I kind of did because I was horny, but I also like this guy a lot and he's already told me he is not ready for a relationship so I figured I'd get some sex out of him. So about a few days after our sexual hangout, I text him just asking about some interview he was saying that he had. I only text him so he wouldn't feel like I used him for sex if he still felt that way. He told me that he was at the interview and would tell me about it later. I said okay and good luck. It has been 2-3 days, I haven't gotten an update and/or text from him. What does that mean? Does he not like me? Playing games? What is it? I want to cut him off and get him out of my life because I like him and he definitely acts like he likes me, but it's on and off. It is getting on my nerves. I wish he would ask to see me in person again so I can end it in front of him. Trying to figure out what is going through his mind is driving me crazy. And it is rude to not respond to a text that's why I hate texting. What do you all think?

My brother knows this girl. They met about two years ago and have talked on and off since then. Sometimes they go months without talking. When they first met they went on dates and talked often and he even asked her to be his girlfriend once, but she rejected him because she was not ready. Here they are now and they still talk on and off and have sex every once in a blue moon. He says that she seems really into him, but only seems to text when she wants to see him, but not all the time. And almost every time they see each other at his house, they have sex. But he barely texts her either. Recently, he said she told him that she liked him, but he told her he wasn't ready for a relationship. Although, when they do see each other, they have nice chit chats before and after sex, but then he says she is quick to leave afterwards. Lastly, he says that after the sex she may go days and/or even weeks without contacting him but my brother does not contact her either; at least within that time frame. He says he's asked her if she uses him for sex, but she denies. They have a strange relationship. I think they like each other, but they both send each other kind of mixed signals and that may be why he sometimes feels she uses him for sex. I don't know what to tell him because he's asked me this so that is why I am asking you all. It is not my business, but I want to point my brother in the right direction and he's asked. What do you all think?

I have a slight problem. There's this guy who is sweet and nice to me. He's fun to talk to as well. He would be a great boyfriend if I gave him the chance. Unfortunately, there are two problems:1. he goes to college in another state and I don't care for long distance relationships 2.he's not attractive and I wouldn't want to kiss him back. I feel guilty, but should I force myself to like him when I don't? I know people say you should go by personality and not looks, but I want my man to look good too. Is that wrong? My mom keeps pressuring me to like him and he is a nice guy. I don't know. Feedback please, thanks

Geez, this is ridiculous. I've been single for about 2 years now and I'm sick of it. I've been on a zillion dates and every guy seems to only want sex. They play slick and take me out once or twice then try to get me to their houses. I don't want that. I've tried going to make sure that I don't just make the assumption that it's only about sex, unless that's all I want, but it rarely is. Guys seem to just try any girl now a days. I'm not easy, not clingy, not ugly, not trashy, not dependent, not boring, not sitting around doing nothing with my life, I am classy, and I'm definitely fun to be around. I'm also sexy, but still dress with class. As soon as a guy realizes I'm not trying to have sex with him too soon, I don't hear from him anymore. And it's not like they are useless guys. I am selective with the phone numbers I take. It's like all these guys want is sex. What the hell? Does commitment not exist anymore? Is it just the unattractive guys? Men, I need your help especially. What is going on?

I am so sick of running into useless men. I am very attractive and men look and talk to me everywhere I go. I'm strong, independent, and single. Everytime a guy talks to me, he will try to get to know me at first.Then when he gets to know a little about me, he can tell by my vibe that I am not going to have sex with him anytime soon. Then i never hear from them again. Each guy does this. It seems like I'm attracting these same guys each time. Why don't these guys want to stay and get to actually know me? Why is it that if I'm not giving it up after a few dates men say to themselves "forget her let me find something a little easy"? I want a boyfriend, but I am not attracting the guys who actually want commitment or at least just don't want it with me. And I'm not just settling for any guy either. I want what I want (not trying to sound demanding).

P.S. I don't look/dress slutty or anything. I have a classy beauty and a lot of guys say I'm intimidating because I am 5'9''. Sumwhat tall. And I'm a freshman in college, but a lot of people think I'm older than I actually am. People usually think I'm around 22-24 years old. Maybe they take advantage of my age? Idk.

I've just sent my SAT scores to the school of my choice on June 4th and this college wants my scores by July 1st. Do you think the college will recieve my scores on time? And how long will it take? And does College Board notify you when the school recieves them? I'm trying to let the school recieve my SAT scores first before I send my transcript because my SAT scores are stronger than my GPA.

I applied for Auburn University and I am nervous as to whether they decide to accept me or not. During freshman and sophomore year of high school, Auburn used to send me pamplets about considering applying for their school. They soon stopped, but I believe my name is still in their system. My grades aren't as good as they were back then, but they are still acceptable. Do you think that it makes me a better candidate for their school if my name is already in their system?

P.S. I don't know how Auburn got my name in their system. They just started sending me things.

I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago and ever since then I have regretted it. We hung out all through the summer and he seems to be a really cool person. Now we are just friends and I want to be more than friends again. But i have already done some bribery to get him back. I gave him some money cuz he needed it for something. It wasn't a lot though. I wish I didn't. What should I do to get him to chase me and want to be more than friends with me again.

P.S. I don't know if he still likes me like that or not. he sends a bunch of mixed signals, so idk where he stands. And I don't want to tell him how I feel. I've tried showing it. It's his turn.

In August of last year, me and my friend were both C cups. She and I have have both been C cups for the longest all through the school year and we would even go bra shopping together. In April she turned 18 and since then, her breasts just suddenly got bigger and now she's a D cup. Even she was shocked. She still thinks they're growing too. And it's weird because I thought breasts would stop by then, but hers just started sprouting out and growing a whole cup size in only a couple of months. Why did this happen and will it happen to me?

P.S. I'm 17 and I will be 18 in October of this year. And my friend is definitely not pregnant. And hasn't gained weight.

This is long, but please try to read it. I met this guy on a double date I went on with my friend. The guy my friend was on a date with brought his friend for me. When I met his friend we connected greatly. We had great conversation and he talked so much of how beautiful I was and how much he liked me, etc. I felt that he liked me then I thought that it was just a game to getin my pants. Me and him did hang out and cuddle up and kiss a little and stuff but I did NOT have sex with him. And he said that he liked a challenge while trying to get me to sleep with him. He kept coming up with lines that guys use, but I called him out about them and told him he seemed phony. But he didn't care. He still tried to convince me and by the end of the night he did. I felt he actually liked me. He kept saying it in front of everybody. Five days later, he finally texts me. I respond, then he doesn't. It's been a week and I still haven't heard from him when he claimed to like me so much and how he'd be lucky to be with me. I haven't text or called him since. I do feel like he played me, but how because I never gave him the sex he wanted so........what da hell was/is going through his mind? What was he trying to do? I thought guys like to chase girls that weren't easy.

Guys when you go on a date with a female and you and her have a great time and you brag about it and everything, what would be your reason not to call her back after a great date? My friend and I went on a double date and the guy she was with really seemed to like her. He kept starring at her, and telling her how beautiful she was, and he just seemed like he was really into her. So I witnessed his liking her. But my friend told me that he never called after that date and I don't know why either. The bad news is that she forgot to get his number, so she can't call him either. Why did he do this?

I'm 17 years old and I'm having trouble looking for my first job. A lot of companies are looking for people with previous employment history and I don't have that because what ever job I do get, will be my first. I feel that this is the reason for my troubles in finding a job. Should I lie or what because I'm a little clueless? I mean how did teens that already have jobs find their first jobs without having any prior working experience? Help plaeseThank You

I recently got a new boyfriend and we've been dating for a month but his facebook page still says that he's single. It kind of bothers me as to whether he really likes me or not. I know this sounds a lil stupid but i mean what would you do it's been a month. Why do you think he did this? And no smart comments

I just met a guy and we just became girlfriend and boyfriend, but I need to know how to make it a long term relationship. My past relationships have only lasted for like a couple weeks or maybe two months, but I actually want someone that will stick around. And i'm not borig or anything I just think I attract the wrong guys and hopefully he's not like them. Please help

I've been having a loss of appetite and have had feelings of throwing up, but I'm not throwing up. What may be the problem. And i'm not anorexic.

Okay guys I messed up. I met this guy and we went way too fast. We became a couple after only knowing each other for a couple weeks and already had sex. And I usually don't give it up that easily. Now I feel like he might leave me because of it or just simply try to play so he can get more sex. He still calls and texts me so that's good, but he cuts the conversation off first. I made a mistake and want him to chase me like he was before. Kind of like flipping the script. So i was wondering if me not responding to his calls or texts for a couple of days will help get him to chase me again. Kind of make him wonder or worry about my feelings for him. What do you think?

P.S. No rude/smart answers please.

My little sister is 17 and she wants to know what she is allowed to do at this age. Like can she date a certain age, can she get a license without having a permit, and things like that. Cuz i dont know

I am cute, i am pretty, i have a nice body,i'm funny,i'm sweet, etc. Guys stare at me all the time when i'm in public, but they never really come and actually talk to me and try to get my number. And if they do ask for my number, they never ask "do you want to be with me?" and eventually we just stop talking. And it's not like i'm boring or weird or anthing on the phone so I dont think that's the reason. But i do know that some guys say i look like i have a boyfriend. How do you look like you have a man? Someone help.

P.S. The last time I had a real boyfriend, as in the relationship lasted and we actually went on dates, was like a year and a half ago.