Dan

Hey, so my problem starts around 3 years ago when I got into my first proper relationship, which lasted 3 months. I would say I wasn't far off being the 'perfect boyfriend' as it were; I was laid back, had no problem with her doing anything, it was her life after all, appreciated the time we spent together and gave her space whenever she needed it, but was still there for her no matter what. The relationship was great to be honest, we only had one minor argument. Until I found out that she had cheated on me, twice with someone who was supposed to be one of my best friends at the time.

We broke up and I was scared, and got into another relationship shortly after (roughly two weeks), mainly I guess because I didn't want to be alone. That lasted for a year, but she ended up cheating on me as well, despite the fact we had a good relationship, although this may have been my fault due to being over curious, asking who she was going out with, where she was going, what time she was getting back etc. all the time, I understand that must have drove her mad :| That completely destroyed what was left of my ability to trust people.

I am in another relationship now, we've been together nearly 8 months and to be honest it feels different from both the relationships before, I feel more in love if you get what I mean. I now live with her and her family. Only thing is, I really really want to change a few things about myself, and I know people say you should never change for anyone, but bear with me. Basically, I am quite un-trusting, I get worried when she goes out with her friends, I get kind of anxious when she talks to guys I don't know on facebook or something.. and she practically always has some new guys talking to her saying how pretty she is and how lucky I am etc. It gets me really worried. I am pretty sure she would never cheat on me or be unfaithful, and I really WANT to trust her because she has rarely ever let me down trust wise. It affects our relationship sometimes because I am one of those people that can't keep things bottled up, I have to speak what's on my mind.

Another thing is, I am always showing my love for her in one way or another but often feel like it isn't returned as I'd like it to be. That's also probably just me though because I am one of those people that likes to be complimented often, I like to know how people feel about me and be reminded of it.

I don't want to be like this so much now and really want some advice if anyone can offer any serious and helpful advice.

Just want to add as well, I had quite a difficult upbringing, I won't go into details but basically I have had a lot of people that I have put my trust in let me down. A few family members, various temporary foster carers and 'friends'. I'm 18 by the way in case it matters. Please just help me out, give me some tips on how to be a better boyfriend... I want this to work :(

So I'm sat here thinking... Torn between 2 girls, 1 I've been in love with for the last 3 years, one I've been in a relationship with for the laat 6 months. Want some emotional music while I'm lying in bed feeling like an idiot who can't help his feelings.. Been listenibg to Someone Like You by Adele & Runaway by Devlin. Something along those lines?

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Would be appreciated, thank you.

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I get paid in a couple of weeks, because I have a new job so they're still sorting out my paper work, which is convenient as it's our 6 month anniversary the week after. I want to take Chloe out and have a nice evening together, as it is a milestone for us, even though it may only seem small to you older people :)

Thing is though, I take her to the cinema quite a bit, and was thinking I'd like to take her somewhere more original and more romantic, only I couldn't think of where to go.. that's why I thought I would ask here. I'm only 17 by the way, she's 16, but we do love doing adult things together, such as a nice meal together or something of the sort, so fire away with your suggestions. Thank you in advance :) x

Also, for the 9 week Basic Training in Cornwall (HMS Raleigh) do I have to pay anything? I don't mind paying, just wondering :)

Hey I was wondering if there is a way to wipe everything off my computer and have it back to how it was when I first got it? I have loads of stuff on my computer I don't use, it's really slow etc. Thanks.

Reason I don't want to wipe it completely is because I don't want to ahve to buy the OS again. I'm on Vista by the way.

Hello, anyone know of any software similar to garageband that I can make my own music on that will work on windows, that is free? Thanks.

Hey, I want to buy an engagement ring for my girlfriend. What would I expect to pay? What would I be looking for in it as well? Would I just buy a band or one with a diamond/stone in it? I'm only 17 so I don't have a great deal of money, but I can save and my job should get me enough hopefully, with enough left to pay bills and stuff, if not my mom will give me a bit (that sounds gay).

Advice would be appreciated :) please don't say stuff like I'm too young, just helpful advice please :)

Thank you

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If they do still sell them anywhere could you give me a link please? I'm not paying £200 for a 16GB touch when I could get one with 10 times the memory for roughly the same price... Thanks.

Hello everyone, I really could do with some help. Basically there is this girl that I like a lot who I met maybe a month or so back. Her parents didn't know about me until a few days ago when her brother noticed our conversation on MSN and because she has a boyfriend, he was questioning her and told her parents about me. Then she was in the car the next day with a couple of friends and her parents and they were talking about me. She has a very.. loud friend who can't keep anything quiet and she said something about me doing weed (I haven't done it for a while by the way). Emily's (the girl I like) parents obviously weren't best pleased about this and now Emily isn't allowed to see me again as they say that what they have heard so far about me, they don't like. So basically she will get in big trouble if she sees me again. Anyway, what I was thinking was to wait until one day when Emily is out and her parents are in and go to see them so that they could see that I'm not actually a bad person and that I am genuine and a good person for her to hang around with as well as smooth a few things over. I'd consider myself pretty good at this sort of thing, and it would show that I care enough about her to try and sort things out. My question is; do you think that this is a good approach or are there any other methods that you could suggest that would be more suitable?

I posted this question earlier as well, but it was like at 2AM so not many people would have seen it and I really could do with some advice, it's stressing me out!

Thank you :)

Hello everyone, I really could do with some help. Basically there is this girl that I like a lot who I met maybe a month or so back. Her parents didn't know about me until a few days ago when her brother noticed our conversation on MSN and because she has a boyfriend, he was questioning her and told her parents about me. Then she was in the car the next day with a couple of friends and her parents and they were talking about me. She has a very.. loud friend who can't keep anything quiet and she said something about me doing weed (I haven't done it for a while by the way). Emily's (the girl I like) parents obviously weren't best pleased about this and now Emily isn't allowed to see me again as they say that what they have heard so far about me, they don't like. So basically she will get in big trouble if she sees me again. Anyway, what I was thinking was to wait until one day when Emily is out and her parents are in and go to see them so that they could see that I'm not actually a bad person and that I am genuine and a good person for her to hang around with as well as smooth a few things over. I'd consider myself pretty good at this sort of thing, and it would show that I care enough about her to try and sort things out. My question is; do you think that this is a good approach or are there any other methods that you could suggest that would be more suitable?

Thank you :)

Hi, I'm new to Ebay and a couple of my things just sold. I was wondering how I go about delivery to the buyer. If I print the label like they suggest (tell?) you're meant to do, will it have the persons address ready printed or will I need to get that off the buyer? Also, could I just send it using a normal envelope and stamp seeing as I already have those? And about telling them payment details, do I need to include my paypal email address in the additional comments section or will that already show up?

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