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Thinking about buying a 2003 nissan pathfinder. It is the LE with 137000 miles. Dealer wants $6900 and says because of what he has in the car, the price is in stone. Looks ok, a few scratches and leather seats are split. Havn't driven yet, he's fixing the brakes. Any ideas, comments. Good deal/bad. what to check for. Thanks

I haven't really dated since my wife left, but went out with this really nice lady friday night. Planned a nice casual night at Red Robin. Things were going pretty good. When we were ready to leave she asked where we were going now. I had just planned for dinner, but we went to a movie anyway. Then she asked if I wanted to do something Saturday, that she wanted me to meet her family, sisters, niece's and that she would love to fix me dinner. She's nice, but the warp factor 7 honestly has kinda scared me from calling her back. I just wanted a dinner and some nice conversation, not pick out the silverware pattern. I know I at least should call her back, but not sure what to say at this time?

My wife left 5 years ago after she had several affairs. My two sons live with me. I've never told them some of the horrible things that she had done, because she IS their mother. Recently they started to spend a lot of time with their mother and pretty much just sleep here. When I try and do anything with them, they just say they are busy. But, they have plenty of time to do things with their mom. Am I wrong to feel hurt as I have been the one who was always there for them. I've thought of telling them the truth about their mom. But, that doesn't seem right either. I don't have any other family and love my sons so much, but they just don't seem to have any need for me anymore. Should I just leave as is or tell them how I feel?

I've been using Steam all week. Now today, even though steam is running it says to start the Steam service when I try and launch game. It has a 1200 on the bottom of message. Anyone know what this is. Very frustrating and steam support sucks!

I dated this girl in H.S and I totally fell for her. She broke up with me because I was stupid (no I didn't cheat). But, she ended up getting married, had kids. I did too, but now I'm divorced. I always wondered what happened to her. So through the wonder of the net, I found out where she lives and her phone#(and she's married and has a daughter). I just want to call her and see how she is doing(honestly). But, I don't know if she would totally freak out. It's been a long time. Especially what do you girls think. Would she even talk too me.

When to prune. I just bought a juniper bonsai tree and repotted it. Can I go ahead and start prunning/shaping it or should I wait awhile for it to take root. Thanks

I met this really nice girl at the coffee shop at work about a month ago. She seemed like she was interested. But when she left I realized that stupid me didn't get her name. But, then I figured I would see her again. Well, havn't seen her since but would really like to ask her out. Here's the thing. I know she has to work on the second floor in our building. Would it freak her out if I went to her floor and walked around until I found her. I don't want to come off like a stalker or anything, but don't know if I will meet her by chance again in the coffee shop. what do yas think?

I've known this girl for almost 2 years. I knew from the first time I saw her that I loved her, but she was engaged to a really good friend so I didn 't tell her. We were just friends. But, I think she kinda knew my true feelings. We havn't seen each other for awhile. I found out that about a month ago her and my friend broke up. Even though I think she would only want to be friends I feel that I should be honest with her and tell her how I feel. Is this like bogus or should I tell her? This has been on my heart for a long time.

Okay , LIK this has been asked to death, but be as honest as pos. What really attracts girls to certain guys. I have ben like ignored by avg looking girls, then totally hit on by young hot ones. It really doesn't even make sense to me. What is it(maybe not even looks) that wen u first meet someone that makes u think like wow!

A girl I know said she wanted to get together and talk. We did that weekend I thought we had a very good talk. Really deep. She said that she wanted to be really good friends and get together like every week. I like her and sadi that would be great. That was about three weeks ago. I know she is pretty busy. I texted her a couple of times and asked if we could get together, but she just says she is busy and hasn't tried to contact me at all. I know we are just friends, but really wanted this friendship. I want to call her and ask if she still wants to be friendsor is something up, but my guy friends say not to worry about it. Should I call her, or since we were just friends just wait to see if she contacts me. I guess I just would like to know where we stand though.

I'm 50 years old and I met "L" last year. She hangs out with some friends. We've always talked a lot amd she is this amazing person. But, because of her age(22). I knew that we could only be friends. Last week she asked if we could go out and talk. We went to Olive Garden , then spent the afternoon at the park. We talked about everything and I totally trust her which I havn't trusted a woman for a long time. She wants to be close friends, but I know that I'm falling for her. Is this totally wrong, should I break off our friendship, just suck it up and never let her know how I feel and be friends. I've alwasy tried to do what is right, but I reall care for this woman. If friends is all that we can be, then so be it, but i would be hard

Girls, I really need your help. I was married for 20 years. I've been divorced for 2. The problem is now , I really dont know how to approach women. I'm an average looking guy, am in great shape, good job, nice car. I'm friendly, but it seems that I just don't know how to get the conversation started, but not seem to eager or desparate. And dont say to just be myself. That's hasn't worked so far. Thanks!!

A friend of my son's band comes over to visit a lot. She's very attractive and also very much younger than me. When she comes over she would always give me a hug. I thought it was a kind of a father/daughter kind of hug. But, lately I've wondered if it's more. Last weekend I went to a club my sons band was playig at. When I came in the door she gave me a hug, then later on she came over and put her head on my shoulder and put her hands around me, then when I left she gave me another really tight hug. I don't want to embarass her or myself by saying something, nor can I just ignore her. Is this something more than I think or does she just need fatherky attention. Thanks

My senior year in HS I met and dated a girl that I met at work. I fell hopelessly, madly and wholly in love with her. I believe that she loved me also. But, then I did something stupid and she broke up with me. I tried to say I was sorry, but she refused to even talk with me. I couldn't get over her so I went in the Army to try and forget her. Later I got married(now divorced), but she was always in the back of my mind. I moved back to my home town. Through the internet I think I found out where she lives and her phone number. should I try and call her? It's been so long I'm not sure she would even remember me. She also married, but I'm not sure she still is? I would just like to know how her life turned out. But, I'm not sure if she would even talk too me. What should I do?

When I was in my 20's I dated so many hot women and really could have married a few of them. I don't think that I've changed all that much(except older). I'm still the nice, average looks, hot car guy that I was back then. But, now that I'm divorced, 50 it just seems that there just aren't any women out there that just want to date and have a good time, be friends and grow into a relationship. Is love just for the young? Or is it just me?

My uncle had talked me into going out with his girlfriends daughter. When I called her she seemed okay so I asked her if she would like to go out for the usual dinner and a movie. she said sure. But, when I picked her up, she had a completely different attutude. You could tell she didn't want to go out with me. I should have just said I had just come down with the asian flu or something and left. But being the nice guy that I am I stayed. She wouldn't even walk beside me. when I asked where she wanted to eat, she said she had already eaten (ouch!). so I grabbed a quick hot dog and we went to the movie. she didn't say 5 words in the car, slouched as far away as she could in the movie and then almost ran for the exit. By this time I was getting a little mad so we didn't say a word all the way home. I got out to walk her to the door, but she said no thanks and ran for the door slamming it. I had tried to be nice the whole evening, but she was totally hostile. I could have killed my uncle

There is this girl at work who is only in our office a couple of days a week. When she is there I've caught her smiling at me a couple of times. So I went over to talk with her. She didn't really act interested so I figured what the hey! But then she keeps smiling at me. She doesn't seem like the type to play games. How can tell if she wants to go out w/o actually asking her out?

My ex, ripped my heart out and chewed it up in little pieces. In the last year and a half I've been trying to make a decision. Which is worse. To live as a lone star in the universe within the vaccum of space or take the chance and love again and maybe have my heart ripped to pieces again. It may seem like an easy answer(of course to take chances). But, I'm not sure I can take another person breaking my heart.