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I used to basically live on fast food. 2 weeks ago I started a vegetarian diet with lots of veggies and only organic non-processed foods. No bread, no sugar (just honey), no caffeine, no fried food. Strictly healthy. And I drink nearly a gallon of water a day with added organic lemon juice for its health benefits.

I recently started getting worse acne than ever and breaking out in bumpy red rash patches :( any advice as to why or what to do to help would be greatly appreciated!!

I have smoked weed about 3 times in the last couple months. The most recent time being only 3 days ago:/

I'm applying for a job and have a drug test early next week.

I'm a 115 pound, 5'7 female. I guess I'm pretty thin if that effects the possible results. Have hardly been able to eat anything in 2 weeks due to passing of my boyfriend.

I'm going to drinking a TON of water and have some cranberry pills I started taking extra of today.

Do you think I can pass? What are my chances? If not, any advice? And please don't say to not smoke. I quit for a few months and only do occasionally now. I know I shouldn't but I'm a recovered addict of some bad drugs and weed is super safe and helps my anxiety. I'm still trying to not smoke anymore though..

Thanks!

I'm 20 and my boyfriend of 26 passed away less than 2 weeks ago. He passed out in the bathroom (he was a recovering addict and was on fentanyl during that time) and landed with something up against his neck, couldn't get enough circulation or oxygen and died. I don't know what to do anymore. I was very depressed when I met him and 2 days into dating I was so happy and had no depression for the first time in years. He was my soulmate. I'm so shy and he's so crazy and outgoing. He was so happy and energetic and spontaneous and goofy that there was absolutely NO way anyone could be sad around him. He tried so hard to help me, knowing before we started dating that I struggled with depression and anxiety. We were so perfect together. Never had a single fight. Always so happy. I thanked God everyday for him and begged him to let us last forever and then he died. I thought my life finally fell into place. I don't know what to do anymore with my life. He was all of my plans. I FINALLY found my place. We wanted to get married and move to Portland with his band. Then have 3 kids. I'm so sad. All I feel is this constant feeling of dread and hopelessness. I don't know what to do. Nothing makes me genuinely happy like he did. I really really just want to die more than anything but I can't do that to my family. Especially after seeing how this effected his family. I just have to desire to do anything anymore.

He 23 and I'm 19. Well, he isn't my boyfriend yet, but we really like each other and he's asked me to go on dates and I feel like he's about to ask me out (according to a mutual friend).

I'm afraid my past is going to ruin future relationships (it was the cause of my last breakup). It's hard for me to be open with other people and to get close to a guy after my ex abused me; yelling, breakind down doors, call me a whore for having guy friends, call my ugly and make me believe I wasn't good enough for anyone else to ever want me. He said he was with me bc he pitied me. THEN the physical abuse started. I've been punched, knocked to the ground kicked and spit on. I've been locked in a closet and dragged by my hair down the stairs. I've had vodka bottles thrown at me. I've had allot of bruises, black eyes and broken ribs. He even got really drunk and forced me to have sex with him. It really changed me. It gave me trust issues and made me really scared to be in a relationship.

How do I tell this guy that likes me about it? Should I just warn him? I'm mean, he needs to know what he's getting himself into. It's going to be something that takes a long time to work out with a good guy.

What should I do?

I said "I have the worst luck ever" hoping he'd say "what happened?", but Instead, he said "Ha nah it took me awhile when I went down". What does that mean?

My friend Jon has been wanting to talk to me about something. I am totally in love with him.

Our mutual friend Erin told me that he wants to tell me (and our other friends when he gets to it) that he is gay and seeing this guy. This was definitely a shock to me, considering how much I like him. Erin was the first one he told, and she knew he was about to tell me and didn't want me to react badly when he told me (knowing how much I like him). He, however, doesn't know I like him.

I'll be supportive of him when he tells me. I have absolutely nothing against it. It's just going to be hard to know the right words to say when he tells me; whether or not I like him.

I just needed some advice on exactly what to tell him. It would be greatly appreciated. I can't think of what to say to him due to how I feel about him. I'm afraid IM not going to know what to say and just start crying. This realt hurts me allot to know he doesn't like me back. Please help me figure out what I would/should say if I weren't in love with him...

Thanks

I am a 19 year old female. I weigh 127 and my height is 5'6.

What will I make donating plasma? My friend goes twice a week and makes allot, but he's a big, tall guy.

Is donating blood the same? Or different price?

I'm in a small house with a few friends who don't smoke. The bathroom is right by the bedroom we are in.

If I put a wet towel under the door and turn the shower on and spray perfum and use a sploof (toilet paper roll with dryer sheets stuffed inside that you blow the smoke through)

Do you think my roommates will know?

And please no lectures about marijuana to me, I'm a hardworking full time employee and full time college student with a 4.0 who smokes on average 6 times a week probably. I would never do anything I felt wasn't right or went against what I believe. I feel this is a great, natural cure for stress, anxiety and many others things. Not to mention, I prefer this above drinking as it is much safer in my experience.

Thanks!

I really just wish I could travel around the world volunteering, but sadly, that only take away come. I couldnf live like that forever; bringing in zero income. What can I do that's similar to what I explained, but as a career?

So I was at a friends house and we were all standing around this table listening to music and watching a few others playing a video game.

I stared to feel likes needed to go sit down but for some reason I guess I thought I'd be fine and stayed there.

By the time I knew I really had to sit it was too late. My vision stared to get dark and fuzzy around the edges and at the same time my hearing started to go away and turn into the staticky ringing noise.

At this time I can't even attempt to do anything but hold onto the table in standing by. I motion my good friend over and tell her I need to sit down. But when she tries to help walk me to sit, my vision disappears completely even though my eyes where open looking at my friend.

The only sense I had was touch; I couldnt hear or see. All I remember after that was feeling like someone tackled me, then getting up off the floor about 5-10 seconds later (still very disoriented).

I didn't start to feel any better when I was sitting until someone gave me their bottle of water. It was weird how much it helped, like as i took the first sip my hearing and vision improved and came all the way back with about 10 drinks.

It turns out as I was walking to sit down I totally blacked out, fell and hit my head on the counter. Luckily, my friend who tried walking me said she blocked me from hitting my head on the kitchen counter. Despite this I still think I hit my head. I had a headache that night and still have one the next day. Any advice?

We've been dating two weeks and so far we've had our first kiss (which I wasn't expecting to have tongue) and we have even made out now.

I don't know why, but I feel really guilty for doing anything with him (kissing/touching). I just feel like a terrible, dirty, disgusting person after making out with him, like I did something wrong. I have no idea why I'm this way, but now I realize that I've felt this way with past boyfriends. So if anyone can help me and tell me possibly why I might be this way that'd be awesome because this could ruin our relationship (and any relationship I ever have).

But yeah, for now I think I just need to tell him somehow that we should slow down the relationship, but how? How can I do that without making him feel like I don't like kissing him or making him feel like I don't like him as much anymore?

So I've been good friends with this guy for about a year now. I know he likes me; I'm not conceded or anything, he has told people who have told me. And he teases me and flirts with me allot.

We know each other from work and some of our coworkers say we seem like a couple, or we should date. The thing is, I just can't make myself see him that way back, no matter how hard it try. He's a good guy but I just see him as a friend, and a really good friend at that. We are pretty close and I'd consider him one of my best friends. When he teases/flirts with me, I try to not act rude while trying not to send any "I like you back" type signals at the same time and it's hard.

I don't want to hurt him, but I don't want to give him any of the wrong ideas either.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? I can't handle hurting him! But he's getting more and more obvious with his showing he likes me. I think he may be about to ask me out and I can't hurt him. I don't ever want to lose our friendship, is it possible??

Please help me.

Any advice is greatly appreciated!!!!!!

Ok so a few weeks ago I thought I had caught a stomach bug. But the pain seemed weird to me. Like it didn't feel like a stomach bug, but just more like a sharp pain in one spot (at the bottom of my ribs, right near the center) and in waves of pain that get more and more intense. I don't know how, but pepto bismol medicine seems to ease the pain slightly (does not help very much though, it just makes the severe pain become bearable).

And after that day ended I thought I was over this "bug", but occasionally very few days I get the same severe, sharp, throbbing pain coming from the same spot between my ribs (like 2.5 inches about my belly button), sometimes bearable, sometimes not.

It's been three weeks and I still get that same pain. Today I have it and it was so bad I just laid in agony on my bed for about 15 mins nearly crying as the throbbing pain got worse, trying to work up the courage to fight the pain, get up and go get the medicine out of my car. It helps slightly. But definitely not enough to be comfortable:(

What could this be? Thanks

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So this girl finally breaks up with her abusive boyfriend. A couple weeks later she is texting his roommate (who is also both I their friends) who says it's safe for her to come get her stuff; that her ex isn't at the house. When she gets there, she realizes that her friend tricked her. It turns out her "friend" was on we ex's side and told her that her ex wouldn't be home just so her ex could see her like he'd been wanting to.

What should happen next? People minds may jump to rape... But that's not really what I had in mind. The more details the better :) and by the way this isn't for a school paper or a book I'm wanting to publish or anything like that

My dog Shasta is a standard poodle. She sounds prissy but she's actually a 60 pound duck hunting dog. She's been in my family for about 6 years and all that time she's been my moms dog. She doesn't hate me, but it's obvious she would never pick me over my mother. I can barely get her to come to me without food in my hand.

But now all of a sudden the last two days she will just sit by my side and WILL NOT LEAVE ME. (For example Shasta always freaks when my mom leave the house, like she's got to go with her and she's always so excited to leave with my mom. But the other day my mom was getting ready to leave and called her and jingled her leash and she just stubbornly sat by me and wouldn't budge. Almost like she was protecting me) no matter who in my family calls her, she chooses to stay by me.

As I'm typing this she won't leave my side. My moms even called her. It's really really bizarre, especially if you know Shasta; she never does anything like this. But like I said, the last couple days she walks behind wherever I go and when I sit she sits right next to me (sometimes if I sit in the floor, practically on top of me) almost as if she's protecting me. It's so unlike her.

Could she sense that something's wrong with me? What are possible reasons for her becoming super attached to me like this the last two days (out of the 6 years we've had her)???

Thanks

Ok so I am 18 and dated a physically abusive 21 year old guy for over a year. Before I ended things with him for good, a 20 year old guy I work with found out from a mutual coworker friend of ours. He got my number from that friend and texted me asking if I was alright and we talked in person later also. He said allot of really nice things (like "you're to special to be treated like that. You're way too good for him"), while also seeming really angry (by calling my boyfriend things I can't say here and saying things like "when you break up with him let me come with you incase he touches you. If he ever lays a hand on you again I will end his life" etc).

He always asks how I'm doing at work. He seems go have allot more to do with me here recently and talks to me allot more. He teases me, like he will poke me in the side and sing along to the radio with me and throw little things a me, etc. In the end he helped me break up with my (now ex!) abusive boyfriend:)

He would get upset when I texted my (now ex) boyfriend.

In the end, he seems to care about me allot, he talks to me allot more than he ever has. He helped me end an over a year long abusive relationship, and seems really protective(only problem he's way out of my league)

Other guys found out and were obviously upset, but not as upset acting as he was.

Is this something any guy would do for any girl? Would he try and get THAT involved? Or do you think it's possible he likes me and that's why he's so protective? Thank you!

Ok so I am 18 and dated a physically abusive 21 year old guy for over a year. Before I ended things with him for good, a 20 year old guy I work with found out from a mutual coworker friend of ours. He got my number from that friend and texted me asking if I was alright and we talked in person later also. He said allot of really nice things (like "you're to special to be treated like that. You're way too good for him"), while also seeming really angry (by calling my boyfriend things I can't say here and saying things like "when you break up with him let me come with you incase he touches you. If he ever lays a hand on you again I will end his life" etc).

He always asks how I'm doing at work. He seems go have allot more to do with me here recently and talks to me allot more. He teases me, like he will poke me in the side and sing along to the radio with me and throw little things a me, etc. In the end he helped me break up with my (now ex!) abusive boyfriend:)

He would get upset when I texted my (now ex) boyfriend.

In the end, he seems to care about me allot, he talks to me allot more than he ever has. He helped me end an over a year long abusive relationship, and seems really protective.

Other guys found out and were obviously upset, but not as upset acting as he was.

Is this something any guy would do for any girl? Would he try and get THAT involved? Or do you think it's possible he likes me and that's why he's so protective? Thank you!

Ok so I am 18 and dated a physically abusive 21 year old guy off and on for a little over a year. Before I ended things with him for good, a 20 year old guy I work with found out from a mutual coworker friend of ours. He got my number from that friend and texted me asking if I was alright and we talked in person later also. He said allot of really nice, comforting things (like "you're to special to be treated like that. You're way too good for him"), while also seeming really angry (by calling my boyfriend things I can't say here and saying things like "when you break up with him let me come with you incase he touches you. If he ever lays a hand on you again I will end his life" etc).

He always asks how I'm doing at work. He seems go have allot more to do with me here recently and talks to me allot more. He teases me, like he will poke me in the side and sing along to the radio with me and throw little things a me, etc. In the end he helped me break up with my (now ex!) abusive boyfriend:)

He would get upset when I texted my (now ex) boyfriend.

In the end, he seems to care about me allot, he talks to me allot more than he ever has. He helped me end an over a year long abusive relationship, and seems really protective.

Other guys found out and were obviously upset, but not as upset acting as he was.

Is this something any guy would do for any girl? Would he try and get THAT involved? Or do you think it's possible he likes me and that's why he's so protective? Thank you!