bumblecustard

I had a few issues with mine and my boyfriends work collegues 2 year ago. I didnt believe what there company stood for, I found them sexist, ageist and prone to lie. They even tried to blackmail me once, and succeed whichmade me feel ashamed of myself for a while.

I am over it now and I no longer work for them however myself and my boyfriend still have friends who work for this company. Whenever I'm around our friends and they talk baout the company (often talk about them in a good light) I get very angry! I have to walk out the room when the company is mensioned to avoid pointless arguments. People are there for the money and believe there lies no matter what I say.

I know I have to leave it in the past but whenever anything is mensioned I just want to argue. How do I get over this past issue and stay cool when conversation is made?

Im 20 years old and I am a writer I have an apprenticeship with an experienced writer and seem to spend all of my time working. I have to put the hours in as I am very passionate and determined to do well in my career. All of my old friends have left for uni and I'm finding myself spending more time alone. I have a boyfriend but he is the only person I really spend time with. I need to make new friends and would love to have a normal social life. I'd really love to go to a music festival this year as ai haven't havnt been to one before, however I cant think of anyone to go with. Any tips on being more social?

Im 20 years old and I am a writer I have an apprenticeship with an experienced writer and seem to spend all of my time working. I have to put the hours in as I am very passionate and determined to do well in my career. All of my old friends have left for uni and I'm finding myself spending more time alone. I have a boyfriend but he is the only person I really spend time with. I need to make new friends and would love to have a normal social life. I'd really love to go to a music festival this year as ai haven't havnt been to one before, however I cant think of anyone to go with. Any tips on being more social?

Hi just wondering if anyone can comfort me in making me feel like I wasn't stuck up in this situation. I went to a after wedding party a few days ago, whilst there a conversation with a group of people led to one of the men swearing a lot, he was much older than me (im 21 he was 40) its not that I was bothered by the swearing but every time he done it he kept looking at me and apologizing 'Im sorry, you seem like such a lady'. I said to my friend (bearing in mind I was tipsy) 'I feel like I cant fit in here' and then was told that im acting so stuck up! I dont feel like im used to being in situations where people are loud and rude etc, I dont wish to be stuck up person. Bearing in mind later on in this party some people started to take cocaine openly. It was obvious that the crowd wasn't very 'the type you'd feel comfortable with'. but my friend told me that I didn't join in with the conversations or act friendly enough there. I guess I really didn't know what to think of people so judged them it was hard to socialize there as I had nothing in common with anyone. Just wondering does this sound stuck up and what would people do in this situation?

I have lots of symptons what is wrong with me?

Since the summer now ive been feeling sickly with what would seem as a stomach bug symptoms such as flatulence, stomach pains, my stomach making noises and grumbling.

It got worse and I developed diarrhea and sometimes I couldn't sleep at night due to the stomach pains.

I went to the doctor several times but only was told that there unsure what I have and simple declared it as IBS. I was given several tablets but they never worked.

My immune system isn't so good these past few months, Ive been ill with flu, tonsillitis and many colds - sore throats, coughs etc

Another problem is that I have is cramps. In my legs and mainly my feet. I struggle to exercises sometimes because of this. I often get foot cramp at awkward times and have to go to public loos etc to stretch my feet out. I suffer from not being bale to handle foot as well as I used to, flatulence is embarrassing and I don't want to be kept awake at nights with this.

Ive tried the doctors but only get told that there unsure what's wrong? Ive tried keeping a food diary but bad outbreaks are so random to make sense of. I seem to allways be ill every other week.

Id be veryg ratefull for any ideas or help! thank you.

Bee

Since the summer now ive been feeling sickly with what would seem as a stomach bug symptoms such as flatulence, stomach pains, my stomach making noises and grumbling.

It got worse and I developed diarrhea and sometimes I couldn't sleep at night due to the stomach pains.

I went to the doctor several times but only was told that there unsure what I have and simple declared it as IBS. I was given several tablets but they never worked.

My immune system isn't so good these past few months, Ive been ill with flu, tonsillitis and many colds - sore throats, coughs etc

Another problem is that I have is cramps. In my legs and mainly my feet. I struggle to exercises sometimes because of this. I often get foot cramp at awkward times and have to go to public loos etc to stretch my feet out. I suffer from not being bale to handle foot as well as I used to, flatulence is embarrassing and I don't want to be kept awake at nights with this.

Ive tried the doctors but only get told that there unsure what's wrong? Ive tried keeping a food diary but bad outbreaks are so random to make sense of. I seem to allways be ill every other week.

Id be veryg ratefull for any ideas or help! thank you.

Bee

question says it all really - We met at a party thinking of going out - fears over the age gap - what do you think???

Me and my best friend have been close for 6 years. We share a lot in common although our personalitys are diffrent - I am a quite person and she is very loud yet more insucure than me.

She is alo an angry and more aggressive person yet we have all ways got along.

However today she asked me to do her favour and find out if she had an art lesson later on today. I went to my lesson and when I came out I rang her to find out of she still wanted me to go as she may of already found out. She hadn't and me and my other friend (who needed to know also) went to ask.

When I found out that her lesson wasn't on I sent her a text:

IM NOT GOING TO ART

However this might of been mis-read as meaning I wasn't going to find out for her. Which is hard to understand as I also go to the same lesson. All is well 45 minutes later I get 3 texts all saying the same thing:

DONT TALK TO ME NO MORE YOU SELFISH LITTLE *****

I was unsure what that was all about but no doubt she will expect me to apologize.

Ive been asked to bring in a copy of my passport, my NI number and bank details however I am unsure about what is required by the term bank details for a new job - and where I could find these.

Hope this makes sense thanks a bunch. X

Im 17 and know im not fat so this isn't a weight issue. I'm 5ft4 and weigh about 8 and a half stone and I'm very athletic. The problem isn't the weight it's the fact I keep bloating up when I eat, my stomach bloats out a lot. It's been like this for a few weeks and I've noticed that my jeans don't fit probably anymore and rub agianst me which is painful. I don't believe I've particularly gained weight but it's just the bloating I'm confused about since this has never happend before. Any ideas and help welcome. thanks.

Im 17 and know im not fat so this isn't a weight issue. I'm 5ft4 and weigh about 8 and a half stone and I'm very athletic. The problem isn't the weight it's the fact I keep bloating up when I eat, my stomach bloats out a lot. It's been like this for a few weeks and I've noticed that my jeans don't fit probably anymore and rub agianst me which is painful. I don't believe I've particularly gained weight but it's just the bloating I'm confused about since this has never happend before. Any ideas and help welcome. thanks.

Im 17 and female. I am very popular with lads as I'm quite tom boyish in the sense that I love to play games and mess around like lads do. I get on with them alot so much that I'm considerd everyones best friend - but not anyones girl friend. Im just not found attractive to lads! I have no issues with my looks Im quit good looking (trying to not sound big headed but looks arn't a problem). I dress quit laid back (jeans etc and I'm into martial arts and weaponary).

How do I attract lads more? Is it all in dressing more sexy? I don't really want to have to change my personality. How do u attract people?

I've witnessed serveral things (or coincidences) that's started to make me think that there might be one (or some sort of spirtiualness that's more than we can see in this world). However I don't want to be religious in the sense that I have a specific religion - there's so many and half of the stuff in religions I don't believe in. So what do I do and how do people choose religion?

I'm 17 and my older brother has decided that he is going to live my dreams before me. He's gave up on his goals and is now wanting to do all the things I so badly want to do. Except he's older than me so he's more likely to get funding and have more connections. I'm not jealous or bitter but I've been doing this for years and just don't want him to make it before me. Is it right for me to feel this way or should I just let him take everything???

I've decided that i'd like to learn how to play the sax but I'm unsure exactly how much I should expect to pay for one. How much would it be to buy a new a Alto Saxophone? thanks for the help the internet keeps giving so many diffrent price ranges.

Hi does anybody know of a program I can download or any way I can copy the file from my dvd and then copy that file on to another DVD? The DVDs are of my own films and I don't know how to make serveral copys of the film. hope that all makes sense. thanks.

Hi I've got a martial art tournament next month which I'm looking forward - I'll be taking part in formations, throwing techniques/locks and staf spinning. The only problem is I really want to do the sparring as well and due to the fact I'm 16 now I could easily be up against 30 year old men! I'm not very strong and really don't fancy coming back with black eyes (sure there's gloves and head padding but that could easily happen still).

Has anybody got any tips/ training ideas that could be useful in 2 months time??? thanks for the help. Bumble

My friend really fancys me but even though I've told him where just mates and he says he knows that - he's still trying to get with me - he invited me to bowling the other day, I thought loads of other people where going to turn up but it ended up just me and him. Also he's decided he wants to have the same ambitions as me so he's copying me now aswell. This is really anoying (he even spent his birthday money on a dance mat? perhaps trying to get me to come to his tomorrow since he knows I wnated one?) Since he won't listen to me would it be to harsh if I just ignore him now - he is a good mates but I keep getting the messages that he's trying to make it more than that. What would you do???

My friend has invited me to a party tomorrow and I said yes. At first I just thought that it's because where mates that he asked me to go instead of someone else But now I realise that it's because he fancys me and just wants to show off one of his girl mates in front of his cousin there (it's his cousin's 18th birthday). It sounds silly but I just don't want him to think I said yes for any other reason than where just mates. Is it right for me to go?

I just want to know - I do about an hour a day that keeps me fit but I have found the higher the belt rank you go the more you need to do in order to learn everything and remember it.

bumble (brown belt)