Sheena L

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years now. For the past year, we've been extremely serious...like in love or something, living together, etc. But the thing that worries me is that he has never performed oral sex on me before. I do him with no problem, but he always wants it. Before, I didnt mind (it was never something that was my fav ne way) but that doesnt mean that i dont want it! In the past, he's told me that it was never something that he'd done because of some traumatizing event that occurred when he tried the 1st time, lol. ne way, but im starting to like want him to do it..but since its been so long and he's never done it, i dont even know how to approach him with the idea, as it would be uncomfortable or awkward!.....what do you think? what should I do? I would feel bad to go elsewhere, but hey, im human......

Im of a differet race, but im totally attracted to african americans! is that bad?? sometimes it seems as if people are against it =/

Im updating my resume, and I have job history from 2002. I was wondering how long should previous job history remain on your resume before its no longer valuable?

Lately, like for the past couple of days, I've been feeling this EXTREME sproadic twitching in my lower abdomen. It doesn't hurt or anything, but just becoming extremely annoying because of the randomness. When I place my hands there, I can't feel anything. Im not saying that Im not prego, but even if I was, it'd be too early for me to be feeling fetal movements. Anyone else ever feel this sporadic twitching?

Someone told me that I shouldn't worry about the debts on my credit report that I got a couple of years ago. I know they say that after a couple of years (say like 7-10 years maybe) the debt will just automatically disappear. Is this true? If so, doesn't it still somehow effect your credit score in the long run? I really would prefer an answer from someone who is seasoned in the credit field, as I am trying to figure out if I really should pay these debts or not. Thanks

What is the difference in paying off a charge on your credit to a creditor when they offer you to "settle" or "pay in full"? I know there is a difference that'll reflect something on your credit report, otherwise who would "pay in full"? I just don't know what the difference is. Please help!