Kaye W

Its s NEW 13 Buick encore. It started to hum when turned on. My husband thought it was the base turned up(thats how it sounds) but its not. So it hums when it turns on AND when you let your foot off the gas and slow down. Scares me to death since we Just got in sept.

So my mil and step-fil are getting a divorce. Yep, step father in-law. They have been married 19 years and raised my hubby from a young age(9). His mothers first devorice with Fil was when he was 6.

Anyway. My husband doesn't want to see his step dad ever again. Even though step dad has always been there for him. I personally have no clue how to handle this situation. I feel like we should still see him after the divorce since he helped raise my husband, but I understand that he's not his dad. (Blood dad is still around of course)

Husband got home from a 10 hour shift today. As if those arent bad enough, the company is now making the employess work 12 hours. They will only get two 10 min breaks and one 30 min lunch. thats all they get for working 12 hours, in a welding shop with no AC. They really cant make them only have these few breaks and that short of lunch break? I thought legally they would have to have two 15 min breaks and one 1 hour lunch.

Anybody know for sure?

Other info.

He is an hourly employee

we live in oklahoma

Ok, my ob called me an was giving me meds for strep. Weirded me out a little since he's an "under the skirt" doctor. I asked how I got it and told cross contamination through fecal matter. How the hell did this happen? Did I sit on poop and not know it?? Honestly, I'm not a gross person and I look before I sit! Gah!

Also. Is this strep throat or a different kind. I'm just offaly confused

I'm 34 weeks pregnant. I can't walk around Walmart without sitting down. It bugs me. I feel useless. I'll give it that it's been well over 100 for the past few weeks, but can't even walk around Walmart without a break. (I refuse to use the electric cart seat thing)

So, is this normal?

I'm almost 34 weeks pregnant. Just moved (as in yesterday) into a new town and saw my new OB tomorrow. This evening I had some spotting, which I haven't bled any before. It was also only Small spots. I'm now feeling some pressure on my pelvis. I think I lost my mucus plug Friday, Ill know for sure tomorrow. Anyways, should I go to the hospital or not?

I'm 32 weeks +4 days and I'm getting an ultrasound done tomorrow. I'm also just barely 22 years old and downs doesn't run in either mine or my husbands families. In my family, many of them had normal babies when they were 40s+. No record of downs in my family nor husband. As you can probably tell I'm a little obsessive about this. No, I did not get the blood test. I wish I did. Anyways... Do I have any real reason to worry? I'm young and no history of it. I just want some peace of mind. Also, could they tell from a 4d u/s tomorrow?

I'm 32 weeks pregnant and having a constant cramping. It's been going on for an hour now. This is also the second time this has happend. Last time it lasted about 8 hours and sai I was dehydrated. Now I'm downing water and walking. Nothing. Still there hasn't changed. Anyone else been through this? Shoul I call my dr?

My sisters have offered to give me a baby shower as a gift.

Which is all handy dandy and very nice of them.

The problem.

They chose a date I wasnt confertable with.They told me I had to do it that date becuse one of them couldnt go if it was when I wanted it. The date they chose my sister-in-law (my husbands really, but I shes family too now) cant go and really wants to. As well as I would be 37 weeks and didnt want to take the chance of going into labor while there. Also, the place they want it at is over an hour away. I told them it needed to be in the town i live in because my dr is here and its near my due date. Well, they said no. It has to be in the other town and if something happens, those doctors are good enough. They are so angry with me and I them.

I told them I'll go ahead and do my own baby shower. I feel like this is ridiculous. Am I really being out of line for wanting a date Im confertable with and wanting to be my doctor while I'm 37 weeks? I feel terrrible really. I dont know what the right thing was.

After I brought myself to the big O. I had some blood afterword. I'm 32 weeks pregnant and I was wondering if I should be worried? It was much blood, but still there.

I'm in my third trimester. Back pain is just horrible at times. It'd hard to deal with sometimes. I just want to know if it really does go away.

I dont feel any love toward it. Him I really should say. I'm depressed. I know it. Depression runs in my family. If i could afford theropy, i would so already. Im stuck. Im too poor to afford the help i need. My husband just got out of college, its hard getting a job these days. Barely paying the bills now. I cant stop paying for something. So, to those who think i could save up or pryoritize my stuff. I HAVE. IM ***** *** POOR. I need to pay car payment, how would i get to the hospital? Cell bill, becasue what if i fall or have a miscarriage or go into labor? House bill, I kinda like having a place to live. Food, i have to feed myself. I dont have cable, I have free internet, my laptop was a gift. So, im not wasteing money. Im just poor right now. Thats what happens when you marry young and not out of college

So on to the problem.

Im super depressed. Ive been this way since about a month into the pregnancy. Im 26 weeks prego and i havent had any change. I WANT to love this baby. He deserves a mother to love him right. But i dont feel any love for him. Sure, i want him to be healthy, but thats it. If my husband didnt want a baby so much, i would have aborted him and waited until i was older. I love my husband so much, i couldnt do that. So, im stuck. Too poor for professional help. Cant take pills due to the fact i am pregnant and super depressed.

now to my question

Have any of you mothers gone through this? Will i suddenly love him when he is born? I want to so badly, i just dont now. I just want to know if this is at least somewhat normal if not common.

what can i do to help?

sorry for all the typos. its late and i dont care right now.

I have a happy marriage with my husband. There is no question about that. Of course no marriage doesn't have their ups and downs. And this is our new down. Which I dont know how to feel or whatever.

Ever since I got pregnant, he can't seem to stand any of my emotional break downs. I wasnt very emotional before we got married. It's hormones of course. But, when I break down crying, he can't stand it. He gets angry at me. It's like I can't cry and if I do, he gets angry and I cry more. I just want to know this is kinda normal. That a lot of husbands have trouble dealing with hormones.

I'm 24 weeks in plus a few days. I still have haven't felt my baby move or kick at all. I'm getting so worried. Now, I'm not the thinnest person in the world. Im by no means obese either. I am fat though. Size 16 pants.

So maybe it is because of my weight. But I feel like I should feel him. Even a tickle. Ive got nothin.

I'm 24 weeks pregnant today. My husband just graduated college and is looking for a job.

So. We got home late and he's tired from being at my parents. It stresses him which makes him grumpy. So anyways. He said he wanted to stay at his parents for a few weeks. Look for a job while he's there. They only live qn hour away. He thinks this would be good for our relationship. Should I be worried?

Pregnant? I'm sure you can, but with all the things you can and can't do, I'm not 100% sure.

Thanks!

How the heck do you shave your legs? Seriously! I'm having a difficult time. My belly is getting huge. And I have a good ways to go. I can't stand having hairy legs. Much less anywhere else. (you know what place. But I pretty much gave up there) Anyways.. Any tips?

these kids from a few houses down keep playing in my yard. Sure, it may not like sound like a big deal, but they keep stuff up my exhaust pipe (which can Kill you if you don't unclog it.) They come to my door and knock so they can scare off my pet. Im sorry, i was raised not to get into other peoples yards. anyways, they leave their bikes and toys in the street and my drive way. ITS RIDICULOUS.

Best part is they are black and I am DARN sure their parents will pull the race card if i talk to them. IT HAS NOTHING TO DEAL WITH THEIR RACE. They are just damn annoying kids. I don't like the fact i have to unclog my exhaust pipe every day. Maybe im just being an angry pregnant lady.. but .... grrr

any advice would be great

I'm 21 and this is my first pregnancy. I'm 20 weeks in and I have SOOO much lower back pain. To the point I can't walk as fast, laying on the bed hurts, sitting, standing, and everything else. I'm about to call the dr because it's becoming unbearable. Luckily my husband has been helping me more, but I can't have him doing everything for me.

So. Is this somewhat normal? I am also worried that this will bother me after the baby is born.

First, yes I did post just a few hours ago. Any-who...

Im extremely depressed. Not suicidal or self mutilation bad, but still depressed. I'm more sad then happy. I stress about everything. I was so stressed ( also had blood taken that day and lots of morning sickness) I passed out. Went to the hospital. They said I was fine but they never mentioned the baby. Even after I told them multiple times I'm pregnant. I'm so scared. My husband is frustrated because I don't know how to explain it. (have arguments but great marriage) I'm just so down, I don't know what to do. Im gunna call the dr Monday, but I'm worried my baby is suffering because of me. I just hope the baby is born normal.

Maybe I'm just being ridiculous. But some more advice would be great. Thank you