Grace C

I went on vacation for 3 weeks, so I gave it to a neighbor to look after. When they brought it back, they said he keeps hiding under rocks and won't come out unless you poke around in the rocks. He has never done this before, and I've had this fish for a fairly long time.

What's wrong with him? Is he sick? :|

He pretty much ditched me for this other girl. They are now going out.

He took my virginity, so that might explain why it took about 6 months for me to get over him.

And even now, I'm not even sure if I'm "over him" yet.

We started talking a month or so ago, and it was always on/off talking, and most of the time pretty awkward.

But for the past week or so, he has been IMing me everyday. I don't know what to make of that, and I don't really think it's much of a big deal.

Nonetheless, I still do want to know if this means anything?

I'm leaving for China this Saturday, and he suggested we hang out. Should I agree, or would that bring back unnecessary feelings?

Long story short, he ditched me for another girl.

They are now going out, but sometimes I catch him looking at me. Most likely he's just spacing out, but of course it's always that wishful thinking getting in the way.

We bitterly ignored each other for 4 months, but then recently we started talking again.

To be honest, he's a much better friend than lover.

Anyway, occasionally he vents to me about his girlfriend if they're having problems, and other things that bother him.

We don't text like we used to, but we wave to each other when we see each other, and he sometimes talks to me online. (I keep him deleted on my buddy list, because I know I'll be checking his status message 24/7 if I leave him on there.)

It's been 6 months since we ended. He took my virginity...is that why it's so difficult to get over him?

I try not to think about him and the other girl together, it's too painful for me.

But I really need to get over this guy. I already know he's definitely not worth hurting for.

Advice? :|

This guy and I had a "thing" about half a year ago. But I won't go into details.

Basically, it was all in secret because he was afraid of the drama if anyone found out about our relationship.

Well, in the end, after a lot of stupid promises of "I'll love you forever", he pretty much ditched me for another girl.

We bitterly ignored each other for about 4 months, during which he would sometimes stare at me, and sometimes I would stare at him. Which sort of dropped hints.

But then, he gets a girlfriend.

And we start talking again, and now we're fairly good friends.

The only problem is, I can't get over him still. It's been nearly half a year. I need help.

Help?

Last year in the summer, I cosplayed as Yuuki from Vampire Knight x] Not sure how I pulled it off...my hair was pretty long D: but it's even longer now.

In the spring, I'm going to another convention. So I want to do something else, but I'm not sure what else I can pull off...

Here are the pictures from over the summer:

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Here are some pictures that I use for my facebook profile x3 they're silly and edited, but it's still me.

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http://i162.photobucket.com/albums/t270/xXx_miracl...

http://i162.photobucket.com/albums/t270/xXx_miracl... <--- (this one was from some time ago, my bangs don't look like that anymore, but it just shows how I look with a ponytail.)

I'm trying to get over this guy that I honestly loved very much. We decided it would be better if we went separate ways, as we would always get into issues about trust.

Any good songs to motivate me to get over him, just a little bit quicker? :]

Which of the following is associated with mercantilism?

Globalization

economic nationalism

economic structuralism

economic internationalism

My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year now. November first is our anniversary.

A lot of things have happened between us in the past year.

I did many, many terrible things to him. I cheated on him within our first two months together, but he quickly forgave me as I confessed to him as soon as I got back.

He has a reputation for being a manwhore. I trusted him, only because he told me he wasn't like that anymore. My friends warned me, told me to quickly get away before I got hurt.

We fought a lot, but we always made up in the end, and nothing but our love for each other mattered anymore. Plus, all of those arguments were about nothing but stupid matters.

Lately, I've realized he has different views than I do. He told a girl that he dated in the past who moved away that: "The only reason I'm dating my girlfriend now is because she reminds me of you."

I took great offense by that, thinking he was just replacing that other girl with me, and I was not my own person. But all he could say, was that he didn't "mean it that way". Eventually, we just grew tired of arguing and made up.

Then, over this summer, I went to China. When I came back, he told me he missed me a lot, and we got together and hung out. Later that day, I found a message in his inbox. It was between him and this other girl, and he was talking to her, saying things like "You make my heart turn in a unique way that no one ever has" , and "Hopefully someday we might be together".

I considered this as cheating on me, and he said it was just flirting. He admitted he was wrong, and we moved on.

Just a couple of days ago, I found that he commented on that girl's picture, calling her "cute". Am I just overreacting? Or...?

Also, he doesn't tell me he loves me as much as he did before. We also fight a lot more often now, about trivial things.

What is happening? Is this just a "phase" in our relationship, or does he just not want to be with me anymore?

It's nearly our one year, november first. We fight so much more often now, he doesn't tell me he loves me as much as he did before, we both tend to get mad at each other for stupid reasons, neither one of us are willing to say sorry.

It was not always like this. I cry more often now, because of him. Before, he would notice. He would care. Now he doesn't.

He tells me he loves me. Does he really?

He cheated on me for another girl a few months ago. But because I believe in second chances, I gave him one. On facebook, I found he commented on her picture, telling her she was cute. Is this something to be worried about? Especially now that we're falling apart?

Why is he changing...I don't like this new him. Or maybe it's me that's changing and overreacting?

I don't want to leave him. And we promised each other forever.

Might there be a reasonable explanation why he acts differently now?

I got my new phone yesterday.. it's a Pantech Matrix C740 Black Green. Along with it, I got unlimited texting. I was able to send and receive texts yesterday immediately after I got my phone, and this morning. It stopped working right about when I was on the bus on the way home from school, so around 3:30. Now whenever I try to send a text, it says "sending failed to ___ saved to outbox." I then go to my outbox and try sending the messages again, but again the same message comes up. What's happening?