Aleigha

Ive got white/yellowy lumpy bits coming out like discharge. it doesnt smell. Ive had no itching or burning so i dont know if it is actually a yeast infection. What should i do, i dont want to tell anyone becuase its embarrasing to jsut be like ohh yeah ive got lumpy discharge , they'll laugh at me. :/ should i go to the pharmacy and get something over the counter? What can i get? Im from the U.K , we dont have monistat here

ive googled it and most sites say it looks like cottage cheese coming out of your vagina. Thats whats happening to me but i dont know how or why this is happening becuase i dont wear very tight clothing, i dont use heavy perfumed shower gels and soap to clean myself. I'm 21 and this has never happened before. Im too embarrassed to go to the doctor, what medication could i buy over the counter to sort myself out discretely?

Ive recently been seeing someone new and a few days ago we got a little intimate. We didnt have sex becuase i was on my period but still got topless and he had his pants off. After seeing the size of his penis i was totally shocked and intimidated. Hes a tall guy (6 foot 1) and quite muscley, but i dont know if the height of a person has anything to do with penis size. I expect it does as like a smallish guy would be inproportion with a small (ish) penis, and a larger guy would be in propertion too. Would this be correct or not?

Anyways he said he allways has trouble finding condoms that fit properly, he said it in a jokey way but i could tell it wasnt a joke.

Im really nervous to have sex with him becuase im very small framed, skinny, and have a vagina thats pretty tight. He comes off really confident which is why i think he's been with a lots more people than i have. Im not a virgin though ive been with 3 other partners in the past but only had sex with them each a few times. Thats probably why im tight as i dont masterbate alot either.

What are the possible outcomes of having sex with this guy? is it possible that the area between vagina and anus would rip/tear? And what can i do to make it comfortable?

( we are both 21 years of age)

Please serious answers only, yahoo isnt for being judgemental so dont waste your time with religious answers of woahhh god frowns upon sex before marriage etc becuase im not religious and do not give a poop.

i saw this video on You tube of a nurse pushing a pen in and out of its lid and the patient is thinking of what he wants to do to the nurse because she is sexy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ScELncFsEPs

( its a humorous video , nothing inappropriate i promise)

So i was wondering, what kinds of things could i do kind of like this to turn a boy on with out looking like i'm trying, to make them think wow! and to make them imagine what they would want to do to me etc....

not licking lolly pops because thats kind of child like.

Ok i know this is weird but whatever...

so ive liked this guy for over a year and he likes me back. Hes away for work at the moment and weve been texting for a few hours and hes just said he wishes he was with me and that he could give me a massage.

i said that would be nice

he said how would you like me to give you the massage?

I know he's probably trying to turn this convo into more of a sexual thing so what should i say to him?

2013 has become a very strange year for viral videos on the internet. People have been putting videos on youtube that abuse the rights of their nudity+ standards policy.

A few weeks ago a video of a girl eating her used tampon was uploaded to youtube and a few hours later if was removed by youtube.. but by the time it got taken down people had already seen it and uploaded it to facebook where anything goes. So this video went around facebook getting millions of views.

A few weeks later another video went viral of a woman "claiming to be high from drugs" making her dog have sex with her. This video was also removed from youtube but again shared on facebook before youtube took it down. Again millions of views there

Now people on my facebook are talking about " a girl fingering herself on camera". I have not seen the video and to be honest i dont want to because lots of people are saying that the girl int he video is only 14 years old. Am i correct in saying that a 14 year old girl masturbating on camera would be classed as child pornography? Even if she took the video herself would this still be classed as child porn?

2013 has become a very strange year for viral videos on the internet. People have been putting videos on youtube that abuse the rights of their nudity+ standards policy.

A few weeks ago a video of a girl eating her used tampon was uploaded to youtube and a few hours later if was removed by youtube.. but by the time it got taken down people had already seen it and uploaded it to facebook where anything goes. So this video went around facebook getting millions of views.

A few weeks later another video went viral of a woman "claiming to be high from drugs" making her dog have sex with her. This video was also removed from youtube but again shared on facebook before youtube took it down. Again millions of views there

Now people on my facebook are talking about " a girl fingering herself on camera". I have not seen the video and to be honest i dont want to because lots of people are saying that the girl int he video is only 14 years old. Am i correct in saying that a 14 year old girl masturbating on camera would be classed as child pornography? Even if she took the video herself would this still be classed as child porn?

My boyfriend and I do not have sex that often but when we do it tends be for long periods of time. 2-3 hours. When ever he pulls out for whatever reason i pee a little bit ( definately comes out of pee hole)

You might be thinking that this is female ejaculation ( clear liquid) but its definitely not its yellow, it looks like pee, it smells like pee, it must be pee.

I go to the toilet before we start having sex so i dont know why this happens, ive got an empty bladder. Why does this happen

Last week she asked me to come over which i agreed to but when she text me saying to bring condoms, i knew she wanted sex. I didnt want to dissapoint her because i'de been in a big football game that day and was tired from driving back 6 hours on a coach. So i texted her back saying i wasnt going to come over becuase i didnt want to disappoint her. Plus i had college to next day aswell. She text me back mad saying "If you didnt want to hang out with me you could of just said no in the first place" This was 4 days ago.

So i texted her the next say saying hi, which she ignored, then i texted her her the day after that saying sorry i didnt come over.

Am i in trouble? I know i blew her off but why's she ignoring me? It was only sex, why is she so mad, i thought girls dont want sex all the time like guys anyway so whats the big deal?

We've been together for 9 months by the way

im 22 and shes 21, we have been together for 9 months and she said she doesn't want to celebrate. Is she testing me? Should i still get her something? if so what do i get her?

She said she didnt want to do anything but im worried shes testing me and that she does want something. What should i buy her/ what should i do for her. Im a student so i dont have the money to buy her expensive jewellery or lavish gift :( but i still want it to be nice and thoughtful, what can i do? Im not poetic and i do play an instrument either so i cant write her a song :/ lmao the musicians got this one easy haha. any suggestions appreciated

we have been together for 9 months by the way

She said she didnt want to do anything but im worried shes testing me and that she does want something. What should i buy her/ what should i do for her. Im a student so i dont have the money to buy her expensive jewellery or lavish gift :( but i still want it to be nice and thoughtful, what can i do? Im not poetic and i do play an instrument either so i cant write her a song :/ lmao the musicians got this one easy haha. any suggestions appreciated

We've been together 9 months and last week she said she didnt want to go out, or celebrate or do anything for valentines day. Now that it's 2 days away i'm thinking did she really mean it? Because some girls are like that, they say things they dont mean to test you. Could she be testing me? I'll end up being so mad at myself if she got something for me and i don't give her anything back. What should i do?

She's a pretty straight forward person and isnt the type to give a hidden meaning behind something she says. But am i looking at this wrong? should i buy her something? and if so, what should i get

how do you set it so that the viewer needs a password to view your page

what song is this

my mum has schizophrenia and she's bi polar. About once a week she yells at me for not doing the washing up or not doing the laudry and she says that i should do all the housework because of her condition. ( she is mentally disabled not physically disabled) Then about once or twice a month she goes ballistic on me for something small. Like if my brother or sister left the house unlocked or forgot to tell her somthing , she takes it out on me. Im the youngest in the family , my brother has moved out and my sis lives with her boyfriend most of the time. I am down as her "named carer" and im suposed to look after her for a minimum of 35 hours a week. I get paid £30 a week into my bank account for this. I also get paid £60 a week carers allowance but my mum takes it off me and says that it is her money and she should have it becuse i live under her roof so it goes towards paying bills and buying food that i use. Im not fat i do not eat a lot and i only shower everyother day because im worried about bills. Ive never seen a bank statement of hers but she says the house bills are high and i dont see why she has any reason to lie about it. Earlier today my brother came to her house to pick up some letters that came to our house instead of his. He didnt tell my mum that he came over and when my mum came home from shopping she saw the letters where gone and asked me if my brother had been over here. i said i didnt know because i genuinely did not have a clue if he had been here today. So she rang his phone asking if he'd been over and he said yeah and that he texted my mobile to ask if i was in the house ( becuase he doesnt have a key) so i could him in. My phones been off all day becuase my mum lent my phone charger to her boyfriend yesterday and my phone runs out of charge kind quick so it died. I could hear her speaking calmly to him on the phone when she was askin if he had been over and then she came back to my room and ranted and raved calling my an idiot and that i was stupid becuase i didnt tell her he came over. How was i supposed to know he'd been here? She yelled at me "you are stupid you are stupid, why do i have such a stupid child a few swear words, you are stupid..you made me panic, this could of been avoided if you werent so stupid... i wish you were just an annoying person... because then you could just be annoying but stupid" Im really angry becuase she blames me for everything and its not my fault and then to justify it she'll be like " oh its my medication...its stress....im stressed from my illness etc.."

I have 9 gcse's 1 A level and 1 btec national certificate. i havnt been to uni and i dont have a real job, i say "real" because i dont feel being her carer is job becuase shes hardly around. The thing is she's apparantly "ill" yet she goes out every single day to see her boyfriend who buys her lavish dinners ( he is mega rich) he spoils her and buys her clothes, then she meets her friends. She doesnt drink alcohol often maybe once every 2 months she will have 7 units ( drunk for her)...What am i supposed to do? she acts like she hates me one minute and the next shes justifying her behaviour. i dont know how much longer i can take this. I didnt know what bi polar even was untill a few months ago when i took this responsibility. she gets me down and she has depression herself. Im too old to go to young carer suport groups im 20 years old, from the united kingdom, somebody help me. please.

Yesterday he reblogged a gif ( moving picture) of a girl with large boobs, with a low cut sweater on, and she take it off to reveal her large breasts in a sexy leopard print bra. It bothers me because i think its rude to be looking at stuff like that when you are in a relationship, as if he's not getting enough from me he has to go look a stuff like that behind my back ...

And whats worse is that he blogged it! - he could of just looked at the picture and left it at that.

i know this makes me sound jelous of a photo of a girl with big boobs ( the gif doesnt have her face in it tho )

It upsets me to think that he looks at other girls and probably masterbates to it too.

We have sex alot like considering we only see eachother on the weekends becuase of work, we have sex about 5 times a week.

Where am i going wrong for him to feel the need to look at other girls? and put it out there that he's looked at it too... was it a hint that he doesnt like my boobs? they arent very big and arent very perky, but its not all about looks at the end of day. what should i do ?

( we've been together 6 months by the way)

Ive known him for more than 2 years and we have been just friends all along but 6 months ago we fell for eachother after starting to hang out and spend time together own our own and not in a group situation. He seemed really nice and shy which is what i like becuase i think over confident people are cocky and get arogant.

But after 6 months of us being together he hasnt put on facebook that we are in a relationship and that makes me think that he's embarressed of me.

( i previously wrote a question about this which ill paste below)

Im confused where i stand with my boyfriend?

We have been together for just over 6 months now and he wont put on facebook that hes in a relationship. Im suspicious that he wont change it becuase he wants to appear single to other girls. I have only questioned this once which was 2 months ago. I casually asked " what have you put on your relationship status..ive put in a relationship".. he said "nothing i havnt changed it "... He's 21 and in university so he goes out partying and drinking alot with his friends. When i tell him that i love him,( on text and on facebook chat) he doesn't say it back which im really upset and angry about but i dont show him that it bothers me. I told him i love him to his face a few days ago and he just said "Aww you're cute" I dont want to come across as clingy by acting all over him becuase i know that puts boys off you, but we have known each other for over 2 years now, and last year we tryed things but they didnt work out becuase his best friend told him that he fancied me, and he didnt want to upset his best mate so we didnt get together. but now that was over a year ago, and we are together now, i dont see what the problem is. He hasnt told any of his friends that we are together. If we're watching tv together and his friends call asking what he's up to and if he wants to hang out, he says "oohh im watching tv" (doesnt mention hes with me though) and then he agrees to go out with them even though we made plans to stay in. Only his mum and dad know we are together. It makes me think that hes damn embarressed of me and trying to hide me! im a part time student nurse and part time model, Im quite intelligent, i dont have any bad habits, im slim i go running 3 times a week and do yoga, i keep myself looking clean,tidy,... What the hell am i doing wrong!?!?! someone please help me!

to which people responded with :

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WAKE UP and dump this lad.You are wasting your time and behaving so negative.You CANNOT base your relationship on what he does on fb !!!!!! get rid of him and start to use your brain with lads and your life.

Keep friends OUT of your private life and make decisions yourself.

You really need to wise up and get your life on track.

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He's so using you. It's completely and totally obvious. I would assume he's probably cheating on you as well.

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Hmmm ... he doesn't sound commited. It sounds like he only thinks of you as a friend.

Well, to be honest, what I would do to test that is to break up with him.

I would try that and see how he reacts, and if he does then you got him, you just need to get him to understand, and if he doesn't you just need to move on and find someone who actually wants to be with you and show you off.

I have decided that i do want to break up with him because he's distanced himself from me the past 2 weeks and he's blown me off for a date this week too. Part of me thinks he wants to break up with me too but wants me to call it off for fear of me being the type of girl who would cry like a baby after being dumped, ( which im totally not) he just hasnt been interested in me enough to find out the type of person i am.

So how can i end this relationship with out hurting his feelings?

is it something to do with iron in the blood being lost?

I live in an average city where theres just the typical things to do like go out dancing in night clubs, go see a movie, go bowling etc.... just average stuff. what can i do for my 21 st its a week before christmas.

please no one say go out dressed as sexy santa -.- for the love of pie this is not mean girls hahaha