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So for some past history, my best friend and I have the weirdest relationship ever. We "talked" for a while this summer but we kind of jumped into it as both of us had just gotten out of a relationship and it didn't work out. We didn't talk for about 2 months and just recently became friends again. Friday night, he came to visit me. (I'm about an hour away at University) and we hung out as friends the whole night. Once we started drinking things changed though. He didn't drink much but I was pretty drunk. We went back to my dorm and he asked if he could kiss me. We made out and messed around all night. (No sex) and he was really sweet about things and didn't try to pressure me. Then we cuddled the rest of the night, he kissed my forehead, we held hands, etc. When he left he hugged me and said he was glad he came to see me and for me to text him. I didn't and he texted me later but we never actually talked about what happened, just stuff that friends talk about. is this kinda behavior normal for a hookup or do you think he has feelings for me?

Im a 17 year old girl and about 3 weeks ago, I started using a new acne medication. The day after I started it, my lymph nodes started swelling up. I also had a sinus infection at the time so I thought it could be due to that. A few days later I had an awful allergic reaction to my medicine. I broke it in hives from head to toe, had a trip to the ER, it was just bad. Anyways, they put me on 5 days of Prednisone and my lymph nodes went back down. Then right after I stopped it, all of my lymph nodes swelled up for about a day and all of them went back down except the right occipital one on the back of my neck. It's been slowly shrinking, but it's still kind of tender and swollen after two weeks. Is this normal? What do you think is causing the swelling? Should I go to the doctor yet? I'm a worrier so of course my first thought was like lymphoma or something. I think it's a good sign that it's shrinking right? Any information you can give me to reassure me would be so helpful. Thank you. :)

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So about 5 weeks ago my boyfriend touched my bikini line, but didn't actually touch any further back or finger me or anything. He might have had precum on his hand but he didn't think so. I got my period four days later and it was on time and completely normal flow. I haven't had any symptoms of pregnancy. However, I've been bloated the last two days and a little crampy but no period yet. I didn't keep up with the days exactly but I think today is 29 days from when I last started. My periods are never an exact number of days. Usually 27-32. But it's kind of got me worried. So is it even possible to get pregnant from him touching my bikini line? Obviously I have a really guilty conscience so I don't plan on doing anything like that again for a long time. But I just need some reassurance to know I'm just stressing over nothing. Thank you.

So about 5 weeks ago my boyfriend touched my bikini line, but didn't actually touch any further back or finger me or anything. He might have had precum on his hand but he didn't think so. I got my period four days later and it was on time and completely normal flow. In the last week I've been having weird fluttering and twitching in my stomach. I haven't had any symptoms of pregnancy. I'm pretty sure it's just stress related because I've had eye and leg twitches too. But it's kind of got me worried. Obviously I have a really guilty conscience so I don't plan on doing anything like that again for a long time. But I just need some reassurance to know I'm just stressing over nothing. Thank you.

Well to start off, we've been together almost a year. We've never had any problems like this at all. Ever. He's seriously my best friend. We were best friends for a year before we started dating and he's always been there for me through everything. He's always been so good to me and always makes me feel like I'm the most important thing in his life. But a few nights ago a girl texted me and said he had been texting her a lot and calling her pretty and sent him a shirtless picture. This girl has a reputation for starting stuff, so I just asked him calmly about it and he immediately admitted to everything and started crying. He never touched her, or got dirty pictures, but they did flirt a LOT and he told me how much he regretted it now. I broke up with him. Since then, he's apologized so many times and told me he'll do whatever he has to to make me trust him again and swore on everything that he wouldn't ever do anything like that again. He said he did it because we had both been so busy with sports and hadn't gotten to spend a lot of time together and that girl was giving him a lot of attention and he kinda just let things go too far. He swears he never had any intentions of pursuing anything with her. I told him I'd like to talk for a while until I decide. So I guess my question is, how serious would you consider this to be? Would you take him back for this? I'd really like some advice. Thank you!

I love this girl's hair. Any suggestions would be helpful. Thanks! :)

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With a necklace like this, except black:

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And dark skinny jeans and black glittery Toms. And I'm going to curl my hair. And maybe do my makeup a little darker than usual. Does this sound cute? If not, any other suggestions?

This top:

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With a necklace like this, except black:

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And dark skinny jeans and black glittery Toms. And I'm going to curl my hair. And maybe do my makeup a little darker than usual. Does this sound cute? If not, any other suggestions?

So, I dated this guy for a year. First love and all that. We had our first kiss together. We were so in sync. But then my "friend" started texting him a lot and flirting and stuff. (While she had a boyfriend.) and he started to fall for her. So I broke up with him. For a while he couldn't make up his mind, so after about 4 months, I moved on to a new guy. He's so sweet, and treats me so well. But I can't help but miss my ex sometimes. My ex is now dating my "friend." He doesn't really text me anymore. He sends me forwards occasionally, and wishes me happy holidays. When we see each other in person, we talk. But it's awkward. But anyways, my question was.. Do guys think about their exes? Or do they just move on and forget old feelings? Is first love the same for them as it is for girls? And if you took the time to read this, thanks. I appreciate it.

So my boyfriend of a year dumped me and I was depressed over it for 6 months. I seriously never knew when i would finally get over it. But then I met this guy who made things better. It helped get my mind off my ex. I really liked him, but I hadn't had the guts to tell him yet. But then my best friend started talking to him (she didn't know I liked him, and it was while she had a boyfriend whom she had been dating for over a year) and cheated on her boyfriend with the guy I liked for about a month. So I stopped talking to him, in respect of our friendship. She ended up dumping her boyfriend for this guy, and they dated for 5 weeks (in which she made out with her ex four separate times) then she dumped him for her ex again. So I figured this was my chance. I told him I liked him, and he said he liked me too. I was really happy. But then I get on Myspace and I'm off her tops, she deleted me as her sister on Facebook, and posted statuses about how I backstabbed her. So I ended up lying and telling her I did it to make my ex jealous and I don't really like him. But I do like him. A lot. Ugh. I don't know what to do. I think she's being really selfish. But maybe it's just me. Please help? Thanks.

She totally backstabbed me. I know he isn't worth it if he can be stolen from me. But how should I act around them? I'll be with them all night tomorrow night. Thanks!

Okay, so I dated this guy for 11 months. He was my first boyfriend, first kiss, and definitely my first love. I gave everything to him. I told him things about myself that I'd never told anyone. I thought it was great, but then my "friend" started texting him all the time and flirting with him and stuff. And eventually he ended up liking her, so I told him we should take a break so he can sort out his feelings. She was one of my really close friends, and I honestly can't believe she did this to me. She's using him to get over her ex, who recently broke up with her. She even told me that she had no intentions of dating him. But when I tried to tell him that he told me to stop interfering. So I've stopped talking to him completely. I'm really close with his best friend, and he told me that the girl talked my ex into telling his mom I cheated on him and used him and all this horrible, untrue stuff. So now she thinks it's true and she hates me. Everything is so wrong. And I'm gonna have to see them together at the game together tomorrow night. I'm so hurt, I don't know how to act around them. She's a manipulating, backstabbing b*tch, but he can't see that. And I don't know what to do. I've tried to like other people but I can't. How do I get him back? It's so unfair that she did this to me. Please help. Any advice is very appreciated.

I'm sorry this is so long. But I really need advice. So he is my first love. I've never felt anything for anyone else like I do for him. We talked for 10 months, we had already said we loved each other. I was just afraid of telling my parents about having my first boyfriend. Stupid, I know. Then I finally got the guts to tell them. He was so amazingly sweet and caring and we were so happy. Or so I thought. We dated for three weeks and I had never been so happy. But then one night he told me he kinda liked this other girl. I was so hurt. We argued a lot and he ended up dumping me. For a few days we didn't talk, but then he called me crying saying how much he regretted it. And he had no feelings for her. So I forgave him and we started dating again. But then 4 days later he dumped me again saying he still liked her. I was crushed, again. And we decided to just be friends. But he flirts way more than a friend should and I know he still has feelings for me. But he also has feelings for her. I still love him and all this is killing me. The girl is one of my best friends, and she swears she doesn't like him. But she still texts him all the time. I don't know whether to keep trying or not. I don't want to give up. I know he still loves me somewhere deep inside him. I just need help. How can I make him mine again? And if you took the time to read this, thank you so much. It really means a lot.

I plugged my ipod into a Mac laptop to charge it, and now when I plug it into my Windows Vista, it won't connect. It doesn't show up in iTunes. I know it's been reformatted. But I have the music on my Windows laptop so I can put it back on there. My question is, how do I get it to show that it's connected? It shows in the "My Computer" part, but it won't show up in iTunes. Thanks!

Like the songs trying to figure out why a guy hurts you if he says he loves you. I can really relate to this one. Thanks. :)

So all my friends have cool album names and captions. Like one put each caption as "Because.." whatever it was. Like "Because we were hyper at 3 AM (:" And some other people did "Fact:" Like "Fact: I'm a dreamer" And they have cool album names like "Don't you know you're beautiful" and "A perfectly good ♥" Can you help me come up with something like that? Thanks so much if you can help me. :)

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I use my phone like an ipod. Haha. And I need songs.

I don't really like country or screamo.

Anything else is cool.

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So my friend has liked me for about 3 months. And i just recently realized that i like him too. So i told him, and we have been flirting and he's been so sweet to me. And he was thinking he might love me. Everything was perfect. Then tonight, He texts me and tells me had his first kiss. Which we had planned on having together. And it was with a girl he just met at a football game tonight! I can't believe this. I think im gonna puke. Im already crying. Ugghhh. What do i do!? He says he still likes me, but i dont know that I can trust him anymore. Please help me!