Awadia

I weigh about 145-150 pounds, and i am 5'3 and 14 years old; i will be 15 this year in November. i am going to high school, but i feel a bit insecure about my weight. i have 3 months until high school, and i want to be at least 120 or less. is that possible? and how?

SO SORRY THIS IS LONG. ITS JUST MIDDLE SCHOOL DRAMA. So me nd this girl, Kaci met each other in November of last year through another friend at school. We started talking and then we became best friends. Suddenly, this girl named Shelsy comes in to our class and apparently Shelsy is Kaci's other best friend. I didn't really know Shelsy, but she was kind of a whore. She had a reputation for flirting with guys during a relationship. She's also bi (nothing wrong with that tho)

And so Shelsy sat in the back of the class while Kaci and I sat in the front. Kaci then moved to the back with her. I had other friends, Shelby and Ana, and so I hung out with them. Mostly Ana cuz I have every class with her. So me nd Kaci grew more distant nd I felt bad the day she left me. She didn't talk to me often nd I was really sad. I talked to her just once a week nd hugged her in the hallways, but it just wasn't the same. Ana and Shelby noticed and ask me what's wrong and I told them. The comforted me nd they were my new best friends. Well, Ana was my best friend, much closer than Shelby. Shelby was moved to another class and me nd Ana were always friends :)

I was her best friend nd she was mine. You would always see us together. Sometimes I tried to talk to Kaci but she just cut me out of her life. So I forgot about her.

....then Shelby came back to our class and told me Kaci said that I "favor people & favor ana" like "she chooses favorite" Kaci told other people she didnt like me or Ana because I left her. But thats not true because she left me for Shelsy. What should I do?

I'm a girl & I was wondering WHY I can't date at all. Im 100% sure I won't have sex because I love my religion really much :)

It's just i have had a lot of crushes (guys I like) but I'm not allowed to date them or talk to them. I feel so lonely whenever I see other people date nd they're soooooo happy and loving to each other..

I hate how I feel left out so much!! :(

And I want to know why Allah/God would give us hormones & feelings if we're aren't allowed to date/love a person we have feelings for..Muslims should get love nd fall in love like any other person. I'm sorry for being a bit immature but I just want to know. Please be serious with your answer. Nothing like,"That's a stupid question" or "your religion sucks!!" or "stop being Muslim." God Bless.

Ok, so I'm Muslim & so is my friend, Sarah. So Sarah liked this guy named Sam, and me nd my other friend, Ana (not a muslim)would text her about Sam every now nd then. Well, the thing is, Ana would use MY phone to text her about him (I have no problem with that) nd I would give Sarah advice. Well, Ana texted her about Sam becoming her boyfriend nd going swimming with Sam. (since me nd Sarah are muslim, we're not allowed to date or hang out with guys at pools) Well, her parents read the text messages, & figured out about it..& so her dad told her to tell me to stop talking about sam or he will tell my dad. I felt so bad. I know in Islam that's wrong, but us Muslims have feelings and fall in love like other people do..): I feel soooooo bad because now Sarahs parents have lost trust in her and now she doesn't like Sam. I feel that us Muslims should fall in love like any other people. God gave us hormones nd feelings, so why can't we love?? I won't even have sex or what ever. I just wanna love somebody or just hang out with a guy. If Islam is protecting us from unprotected sex, then what's wrong about dating? I really won't have sex! Can't I even date?? Please, give me reasonable answers..nothing like "your religion sucks!!" or anything about it. God Bless.

It's about my relationship with this guy in my grade level. I'm going to be specific this time: It's "Confused about this guy?" and its on my account. I would appreciate it if you do so. :) thank you.

SORRY THIS IS SOO LONG D; BUT I NEED YOUR HELP . So this guy, S, has been really sweet to me in 7th grade when I first moved to a new school. He was super nice and he'd answer anything for me (when a teacher asks). But then I told my friends that he's pretty sweet and nice, and they were gonna tell him that I said, "S likes me." like WTF, right? I'm not their friends anymore, but before they could tell him I told him, "My friends, N and K are going to tell you something. But don't believe them." he said, "okay." I wouldn't really say S was my friend, but he was kind of like that. His friends would say that S likes me and wanted to talk to me, because of the way he would act towards me. And then he was talking about asking out a girl who was taller than him (I was) but I was kinda sure that he wasn't talking about me tho, so I didn't say anything to anyone. Then when my so called "friends" told him, he totally believed them!! :( I felt bad and it seemed like he hated me and I actually thought we were going to be friends. And it was awkward ever since. Okay, so at the beginning of the year of 8th grade, S was in my home room class and it was awkward. I noticed he stared at me so weirdly, and I felt terrible. He ignored me when ever I spoke. After a couple of months, my birthday came in November, and when me and my new friend, L, entered the room, she yelled out it was my birthday. We were the only ones in the room so far w/ S. Then out of the blue, across the room, S said, "Happy Birthday" and said my name :) but he didn't look at me. I said thank you quietly and L told him I said thank you cuz he didn't hear. He didn't say anything after that. Then my friend was like, "Oh, you like him. I know you do, right?" right in front of him, and I'm pretty sure he heard...l: but she was just kidding.

So today, we had a family meeting in school where we brought our family to talk about bullying. And he really avoided me the whole time.Why does he do this,what should I do?