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  • What to do about a boyfriend who clearly doesn't care?

    It all started in October, when I found out I was pregnant. Me and my boyfriend decided together that at 20, we weren't ready for a child and the best thing to do was have an abortion. It all went downhill from there. At the hospital on the day, he was really aggressive with me and annoyed when I was being snappy (in the middle of contractions).

    After the abortion, I got extremely depressed and became a bit of a recluse, not wanting to trouble people with the fact that I was an emotional mess. That's when he started throwing things at me like; "you're cheating on me, you're not thinking what this abortion is doing to me, you didn't even ask me if I wanted it, you killed my baby".

    I managed to get through those months, mainly due to the fact that I was living a haze and I couldn't really remember much of it. Whenever I came home from University however, he had less and less time for me, blaming it on the fact that I hadn't had time for him after my abortion. On New Years Eve, I found out that he was planning on leaving me for another girl but in his words he was being a nice guy in telling me that this was how he felt rather than just doing it. I also found out he was talking to this girl around the time I had my abortion and called me paranoid when I asked him about it. We managed to get through it and I didn't see him an awful lot in January due to the fact I had exams at University. Then in February he blew me off constantly to go drinking, hang with his work mates - he even missed Valentine's Day.

    Now we're in March and he still doesn't seem to show that he cares - he goes out drinking every weekend even though he knows I'm back, and refuses to blow off his friends on particular nights because letting them down is clearly far worse than letting me down. I don't know what to do. I just feel completely walked all over. We've been together 4 years, it shouldn't be like this at this point.

    2 AntwortenSingles & Datingvor 8 Jahren
  • What do you think of this and what should I do? {Relationship Advice}?

    I've been going out with my recent boyfriend for 2 months now, and I do really think that we could be going somewhere [He's 22 and I'm 19].

    Everything was going swimmingly until we hit 2 major things.

    Firstly, his mum seems to hate me. Basically she doesn't think I put enough into the relationship, just because I haven't been able to use my car very much recently (my parents are going through a sticky divorce). Also, she thinks I'm taking her son for a ride basically, based on his ex girlfriends and on the fact that she hasn't met my parents yet. Another thing that she's upset at me about is that I missed going to a family members funeral on their side, which I said I would attend and I ended up missing it because my mum tried to commit suicide. She doesn't know about the suicide attempt, but she's basically told my boyfriend that I'm not welcome in the house anymore.

    Then there's his ex-girlfriend. She's constantly ringing him and asking him to give her lifts left, right and centre. The fact that he still texts her and likes winding her up, makes me a bit wary also. Then there's the fact that he checks her twitter all the time because it "provides him with entertainment".

    If anyone could give me advice or any suggestions with how I should deal with these it would be much appreciated. It's been buzzing about my mind for too long.

    2 AntwortenSingles & Datingvor 9 Jahren
  • Can you suggest any good RomComs?

    Today, I'm feeling pretty low - with a virus that I've had for a week.

    Seeing as I can't attend college, I've worked my way through practically every film in my house (which is quite a feat if I do say so myself).

    I'm in the mood for a RomCom atm, so I was wondering - could you suggest some really good romcoms?

    thanks :)

    4 AntwortenMoviesvor 1 Jahrzehnt
  • I really need some help. Money problems.?

    Well...

    I really want to get my Grandad a puppy.

    He has little money as he was a miner when he worked, and he wants one of these puppies more than anything.

    Problem is - they're 600 pound.

    I really want to get him one because he has been incredibly lonely since my Nan died, but I don't have that much money.

    I can save 30 a week but thats it, coz that is all I earn.

    I can't get a job due to my college hours.

    Any ideas?

    Thank you in advance!

    5 AntwortenPersonal Financevor 1 Jahrzehnt
  • Scariest Horror Movie?

    I'm quite tired of films that are said to be scary on the box, and end up being a let down when I actually watch it

    Shrooms is a great example of this...Scariest thing you'll see? I beg to differ.

    So if you would be so kind, please list scary films you have seen that you would recommend. Gore is good, tension is great...basically - anything that will scare the hell outta me :)

    Ta muchly.

    4 AntwortenMoviesvor 1 Jahrzehnt
  • Any story ideas? Running low on creativeness :(?

    Hey :)

    I write a lot of stories, and normally produce around 20 a year - for either viewers on writing site, or for people I know.

    The problem is...my creativeness is running a bit low at the moment (due to exam stress), and I need to get a story out for the people on the website.

    So I was wondering...do you have an idea of what you would like to see in a story?

    If so, could you leave a general outline?

    Best one - 10 points, for definite.

    Thanks :)

    9 AntwortenBooks & Authorsvor 1 Jahrzehnt
  • 5 songs that you would suggest I listen to?

    Best 5 - 10 points =D

    6 AntwortenOther - Musicvor 1 Jahrzehnt
  • Are my parents being fair? Help!?

    Basically - i get told off for everything possible, here's a rough list of 5 things i have been told off for in the past week:

    1 - For not pulling my weight in cleaning all of the house, even though I'm at college 5 days a week.

    2 - Having my TV on a just say audible volume

    3 - Seeing my boyfriend

    4 - Leaving my homework on the table when I went to the toilet

    5 - Listening to music with swears

    Their reactions to these problems would be, accordingly:

    1 - Confiscating my homework until I've done the work.

    2 - Removing the TV from my room.

    3 - Grounding me

    4 - Throwing my work on the floor, before yelling at me for making a mess

    5 - Threaten to take my ipod/laptop etc off me.

    Is this really fair?

    Or is this normal?

    Help?

    11 AntwortenFamilyvor 1 Jahrzehnt
  • Why is my relationship like this? What should I do?

    My boyfriend is very possessive and doesn't like me to not see him.

    He's constantly wanting to have sex with me, and leaves little space for much else.

    He always believes he is right, and sometimes gets really angry if I question him.

    We've been together 18months.

    I have no idea what to do anymore.

    7 AntwortenSingles & Datingvor 1 Jahrzehnt