ѫ Breathe Deep the Darkness ѫ

I have a good family life, good friends, and a great girlfriend. And yet, I continually feel like there is "something" missing from my life. I don't enjoy the activities I used to, and I just feel lethargic and apathetic about the things going on around me. What is wrong?

I have been with my girlfriend for about two months now, and I'm having some issues. It seems like when we have sex with a condom I lose my erection quite a good portion of the time, which basically kills the mood and ends the possibility of sex. This doesn't happen *every* time, but it does happen at least what seems to be the majority of times we have sex with a condom.

The last few times we have had sex were without a condom (she is on birth control and we waited until she wasn't ovulating) and everything worked fine. I maintained a strong erection and got her to climax, even coming back for seconds and thirds. However, when we tried to have sex again yesterday (using a condom) I was unable to keep my erection.

Does anyone have any advice I can follow on this? Has anyone else had this problem and found a solution?

I met this girl my second day of college, and I thought she was great. I was just getting over my last relationship ending and she seemed to be everything I needed; smart, kind, funny, and beautiful. She and I and some new friends from on campus have been hanging out a lot for the last couple days, in which I've seen her laughing at my jokes and looking at me and smiling for what seems like no reason. So I told her last night (the day after I met her) that I really like her (over text, oops!). She didn't respond to the message itself at first, instead making some other comments which I think may have been related to the message, but when I prompted her about what she thought of it, she said she thought we should talk about it. We were with our friends, so we are hopefully going to talk later today. My roommate also knows her and he told me that she is too nice of a girl to lead someone on, and would tell me immediately if she was not interested. I can't help but agree with him, because that does seem like something she wouldn't do to someone.

Does anyone here have any advice for me?

I have a decent range but I can't go very high unless I sing in falsetto. Is there a way to increase my regular range (non falsetto) so that I can hit those higher notes with a little more power?

Don't you love it when all of Obama's little sheep on here thumbs down your answers?

Really, what is the reason? Most black people I know say they are going to vote for him because "he's a brother."

when it's clear that they suck?

I mean like, rock frontman singing. That's what I do, so I'm curious.

After all that bragging they did, I thought it was so hilarious that the American swimming team beat them in the relay.

And I really want to move on with my life. I think I'm doing better but I find myself often thinking about her and missing her, and it can be rather painful. I'm going to college (which is about 90 miles from where we live) but not for a few more weeks. I love her very much and I always will, but I want to find something to do that can help me take my mind off of her. Does anyone have any suggestions?

I have lots, but my all time favorite is tied between Detroit Rock City and Love Gun.

Me too.

And felt really horrible for it later, seeing that it hurt the people you care for most?

Kind of like right now for me?

Star a question without answering it?

wth is going on?

My weekend was fantastic, especially today.