Extremely sad

So, been dating this great guy for a few months. Things haven't been ideal lately, as we've had a lack of good communication. When I asked him to meet up and see each other. He replied with this:

"You know it wouldn't be good for either one of us"......Can someone please tell me what this means. Is he done with me?

My 5 year old Chihuahua/Yorkie mix has recently been having trouble w/ her hind legs. She often limps on 3 legs during these 3-5 day occurences. I try to massage the leg, stretch it out, and add heat/cold.......but it doesn't seem to work it out any sooner? Does anyone know of anything I can do or any homeopathic remedies for her ailment?

My vet told me during her first visit(when she was a puppy) that her breed was prone to hip and joint problems, but for her age and healthy lifestyle(she eats organic food, gets plenty of rest and exercise, and gets all her shots/vaccines) she shouldn't be experiencing this kind of pain at such a young age, right?

Anyone who has experienced this and found some resolution....your input would be very helpful, as i'm quite desperate.

Thanks ;-)

Ok, so I need HONEST answers from any type of guy out there.

I met this guy on my birthday 2 months ago. We have mutual friends, and they thought we'd be great for eachother. He just got out of a 3 year relationship and was upfront about it. We had great chemistry, connection, and loved spending time together because we had so much fun. Things progressed after a month and it seemed like he was just as into me as I was into him.

I found out he was still talking to his ex shortly after he started being strangely distant with me. He SWORE that he was trying to end things with her without hurting her. It put a lot of problems into something that was so new, caused a lot of mistrust and arguments. We both decided we'd just be friends, so when he's completely over his baggage we could pick up where we left off. Well, she found out that he was talking to me, and now he is mean to me, tells me we can't even talk anymore, and tells me to lose his number?

WHAT IS GOING ON?

....or is it

Looks

Sexual Attraction

Something you can't explain

Personality

Easy Communication

Love

Lust

Admiration

Wealth

Success

etc....

After 7 months of being single after a breakup.... I finally met someone I have a great connection with, chemistry, and a mutual attraction. We have a lot in common, have fun together, and want all the same things.

I'm just confused why, seeing we have everything it takes for a great relationship/friendship/potential hubby material, that he drops the "I need to work on things with my ex" because we didn't have full closure? Am I a total moron to not understand why he'd need closure when he's got something great right in front of him. Men are strange to say the least!

Just read article that because so many businesses are going into bankruptcy they no longer are allowing customers to use their own gift cards. Isn't this robbery? Sharper image was one big company mentioned. Can you imagine if you purchased gift cards for Christmas and nobody could use them... This is infuriating to me. The companies should return the money to the people who bought them then. Nothing like getting something for free!

What punishment do you think the companies who do this should face?

Seriously.... I'm a pretty cool chic with a big heart and I literally had 0 matches on a database with over 20 million profiles I'm guessing? Funniest answer wins the prize..... don't worry, it's not me.

I've been suffering from migranes since childhood, but the past 3 months I've noticed that they are becoming more frequent. I used to get 2-4 a month. I've been getting that many in one week on the average. I'm wondering if I should seek out treatment as in being a gineau pig for some clinical trials. I've tried meds and they don't work for me, so maybe this would be a good way to get some new insight on what triggers these horrible things that seem to be ruining my life lately?

Or is it best just to keep the information you know to yourself and let them find out on their own?

Did you have a definite dream career, job, or goal as a child? Was it a pipe dream or did you really always know what you wanted to do? Did it come true, and you are doing exactly what you've always wanted since childhood?

I always wanted to be a teacher when I was growing up, but after going to college and despising the two speach classes I had to take I realized speaking in front of a group of people was the last thing I would ever want to do. Childhood dreams shattered, but new dreams forming.

When the all mighty dollar, company greed, and the obsession with the next best thing dominates our society I guess you'd have to be living in an amish community to appreciate the simple pleasures and what matters in life.

At least make me laugh and breathe heavy into the phone, fart, or say something in a funny voice instead of not leaving a message or just sitting there. Only my family and girlfriends have my number, so I know it's you!!!!!!!!!!

Let it rip.

I'm going through this recently. I was SO in love and still loved him after we broke up and he was with someone else. But now, 4.5 months later, and I'm out of my coma and see all the things people would tell me while I was with him.

Ex: he looks like a rat, literally. His snide look irritates the crap out of me. His over confidence is a pathetic attempt to hide his insecurity. He was emotionally devoid on every level..... this is pretty sad for someone his age. All the things I found sweet, endearing, and downright adorable make me want to puke now.

I've only been in love twice. The first guy was someone I dated right out of high school until I was 26, so when he broke up with me to pursue the relationship he was already carrying on behind my back there were no feelings of love. It was pure hatred from that moment on. So, this second love is a little different for me. I guess the disgust took a little longer to kick in this time!!

Scenario: You get dumped by someone you love, they find someone else before they give you the ax, you spend months feeling sad and missing what you had and pray they will realize the same...... eventually they do and you're at the point that you would tell them "too bad so sad m***** f*****, you should've realized what you had and I see now I'm better off without you."

Anyone else have this experience? How long did it take for them to wake up and realize they had a good thing.... Years, months, weeks? During your epiphany did you finally see that you deserved someone better?

I'm in the process of selling everything i own...... Huge tv armoire, bedroom set, dining room table & chairs, computer desk, poker table, and washer & dryer just so I don't have to move anything. In the past 14 years I've moved 14 times?? I don't know why I have considering how much I hate to pack up everything. I'm just selling EVERYTHING except my dog, her stuff, my clothes, toiletries, and food. I refuse to move this heavy furniture one more time.... Especially to an upper flat!!! I HATE MOVING...UGGGGGG

This will be my first Valentine's Day spent without him. He's now with someone else. I am with nobody, and I like it that way; But, what can I do that day to not make me think about him being with her, having sex with her, blah blah blah??

It just nausiates me daily anyways thinking about that, but I can imagine it will consume me on V-day. I'm truly sickened by the thought of it.