mianjo413

how do you focus your mind to meditate without falling asleep, I feel that if I try to meditate then I will fall asleep, what is something that I can do to clear my head. I have been told that this can help to calm me, and I would like to try it, so where do I begin.

I am just wondering are athiest spiritual, I know they aren't religious, but I was wondering are they spiritual, please don't be offensive, it is a simple question, nothing mean intended

just want to say goodnight, I have had enough of Peta bit**, so I hope everyone has a good one, have fun on here tonight

just open P&S to retarded people, they keep asking the same questions over and over again. I'm just wondering if anyone knows if they had a reservation for today or not, because there is some weird stuff going on.

Please leave your funniest answer about these retarded people.

I am not talking about mentally handicapp people, so for all of you sensitive souls out there, don't get offended.

he is always doing things for me, he let me move back into his house, he gives me money, and he even cooks for me (because I have issues with cooking), I would really like to do something nice for him, what are some suggestions of what I can do to show him that I appreciate him?

Any good answers would be greatly appreciated, thanks.

what is the deal with these people who answer these questions and lie about the answers. Who are they trying to impress, some of these things about caring for others, come on, what is wrong with saying what you would really do in the situation or have done in the situation. Why do so many people get on here and try to make them sound like they are better people than what they really are. Don't come down on me because I speak truthfully about how I feel, I prefer to be honest in cyber life and in real life.

I am afraid of snakes and have been through my mid to late teens and all of my adult life. I am no longer afraid to see them on television ( unless they are striking something), I can see them in an aquarium, I can deal with people holding them, I am not afraid of them biting me, and I am not afraid of being poisoned by them, the smaller they are, the scarier they are, I don't know where this fear developed from, but it is interfering with my everyday life, I am afraid to walk in grass, sometimes I am even afraid to walk up to people's front doors. I begin to shake and cry violently whenever I see one out in the wild.

If you have gone through a strong phobia like this and have gotten through it, what are some of the things that you did to get through it?

It may not seem like a real problem to anyone, but I am so stressed out, I have been looking for a summer job because my regular job is cut off during the summer, which means I have no income coming in, I have my last final tomorrow, and have no money, my head is hurting so bad right now, because I can't relax, I have a thing for always having it together, but lately it feels as if everything is falling apart, I don't know if I would be considered as having OCD or if I am just extremely stressed, I have this money problem which is the main cause of my stress, but I need to relax, please help me with some suggestions of relaxation.

Please no childlike suggestions.

Why is it that so many people believe that sex before marriage is wrong? Everytime someone on here asks a question about sex, its always wait until you get married, if you don't want to get married are you supposed to never have sex. Am I crazy for feeling this way, or are all these other people crazy?

Maybe I should go over to the mental health section.

Where is a good place to meet guys that like thick girls? I enjoy being who I am and yet it is hard to find a guys that like me for me. I am not stuck up, but I have to say that I am not bad looking either. To most guys, my personality should be a dream, I am not clingy, and am not looking for the whole commitment thing. I am also not concerned with race. I am not desperate, but would like to at least hang out with someone of the opposite sex. Fellas what am I doing wrong, let me know. For the haters of the big girls, don't give me no mess about losing weight, I like the way I am. I am also not that young so don't ask about age. Give me some good answers please.

I just found out that someone with my name or used my name and my SS# has a warrant out for their arrest, I have not lost my card or anything, but because I was going for a job with the police department, they found out about it and told me. How do I clear my name of this, I have no idea where I began to get this cleared up, and I was wondering how much more is it going to cost me, besides all of the jobs that I have been turned down for because of a background check.

I am quite ticked off right now, so I apologize if this question sounds like it has a lot of attitude in it.

I am really hot right now and I am on my period, is there anything I can do to get some type of release. Please tell me it has been 2 weeks and I think I am going crazy?

I lost my virginity to this guy, and now it seems as if he is upset with me because I don't want to spend that much time with him. I actually do have a busy life and I don't regret meeting him or having sex with him, but I feel like he is too clingy. Is it weird for me to not have an emotional conection to him and want to move on to hanging out with someone else?

P.S. I am not that young, so please don't give me the answers that have to do with age.

For the past few days I have been feeling extremly nauseated, I lost my appetite and can only tolerate saltine crackers and water, my lower abdomin has been hurting, and my mood is horrible toward anyone who even slightly annoys me. Is it possible that PMS is becoming worse as I get older, or could it be something else?

I was wondering if anyones arms have ever had a tingling feeling or numbness in your arms during sex, is this something that is weird or is it normal?

I am 23, almost 24 and want to lose my virginity. I don't have a boyfriend and do not know how much longer I can hold out, I don't want to have sex with just anyone because I am quite sure I will get emotionally attached, and being by myself is just not much fun. What should I do to calm myself from this feeling because I am not going to get any younger and do not want to wait.