Chico

She and I have been together for 2 1/2 years in an exclusive lesbian relationship. I was her first everything. She's 22 and has been talking about me going off to college (perhaps to get rid of me?) and then she sprang this on me today. I'm not sure what to do, whether I should break up with her, be angry, or what. I told her that she needs to decide if experimenting is worth losing me; basically the grass is always greener on the other side (until you get there). And I think I should add that I have never been more in love with anyone in my life. I was ready to spend my life with her, and I'm afraid my heart's gonna break. What should I do?

My girlfriend and I have 3 vehicles, all in my name. We have a 2000 Jeep Chrokee 4WD (being paid off), a 1996 Saturn (being paid off), and a 1989 Firebird (paid in cash)

My dilemma is this--I don't really need three cars. I could use the money for a bike. Here's the deal with each car. The Jeep serves as a great vehicle living out here int he boonies. It also has a towing pkg and hitch and power everything. That's the car my girlfriend drives. I also have a Saturn sedan with manual tranny that I use to get to work. I bought it because the gas prices in California keep rising and my daily commute is 40 miles. It gets twice the MPG of the other vehicles, dent-resistant panels, and airbags. My last (and favorite) is the Firebird. I LOVE the F-body look, t-tops, and sound of her engine. I have spent a long time on her. It is completely customized with everything from new paint to a DVD player and Atari in her dashboard. She was a gift from my g/f. So which one should go?

I have notoriously bad ankles, and a month ago I completely tore a majority of the ligaments in my left foot and ankle. (Surgery isn't out of the question) Less than a month before that, I tore the ligaments on the inside of the other ankle. I can hardly walk and have noticed from being bedridden that I have been gaining weight, which is odd because my caloric intake is around 1000-1200 cal/day. I feel flabby and tired and my appetite is increasing. I don't know what to do, as I'm usually a very active person.

I can't do the exercises I'm used to (running, aerobics, water sports, freeweights) and I'm getting desperate. I've tried swimming and it is excruciating. I'm the kind of person who needs to be active, or I get fat. My clothes are actually getting tighter as we speak! Any help would be appreciated.

Anything else that will improve performance, horsepower, or fuel economy would be welcomed. I'm getting her back from the shop today.