The Great

Okay so I've always had shy bladder, haven't been to a urinal in years. Once I'm behind closed doors I'm fine. The last few weeks I've been travelling europe and when I've gone into a club I've noticed that they only have urinals for men. This has caused me to leave places early or go outside and find a public toilet. Does anyone else experience this and do they have any tips to help?? I'm still in Europe for a few more months, so also how often is it that clubs/bars only have urinals for men and not cubicals?

So my cousins cousin is down from canada (i live in Australia) and we decided to take her out. So the night went on normally, and then all of a sudden after a few drinks we were kissing. We were both flirting with each other up until this point so I saw it coming. So my question is, is it weird? I'll try and explain how we are 'connected'.

I'll use fake names:

My Mum is sisters with Mary. Mary got married to a man named John. John is brothers with Matthew. Matthew had a daughter- which is the girl that I kissed

There's no blood relation, so is it still weird or incestual? I just wanna know if I should go for it, because I think I actually like her

So I met this girl, we kissed and everything; then the next week we went on a date and it seemed to go pretty well (we were the last ones out of the restaurant), and we kissed again. My only problem is that I am always the one that starts of the chain of text messages. I asked her if she wanted to catch up sometime this week, and she said later on in the week would be better because she was a bit busy with uni and work. I then told her to let me know how her weeks goes, and then maybe we could organise to do something. Do I just wait for her to text me now to let me know when she's free? It's been a few days now and I don't wanna seem annoying if I text her first again. How do I know if she's actually keen?? Girls are so hard to read!!

Saw a waitress at a restaurant that I thought was cute, so I asked my friend who was also a waitress from there what her name was. She said she would put a good word in for me. Down the track (2 months later) my friend messages me to tell me this girl has stalked me on facebook and is keen, only reason she didn't want to give me her number was that she had no credit and didn't want to be rude and not reply. Is that just an excuse to get out of it? So two days ago my friend said she would add me on facebook instead but hasn't yet...should I just add her? And then what should I say? lol

Going out for my 20th birthday and thought I'de hit up brunswick st. Anyone know the best place along there for a Saturday night? If not, any other good, cheapish places in melbourne cbd?

I'm going to vietnam and thailand on july 3rd and have booked to get my vaccinations on the 3rd of may. Is that enough time before I go away or should I be getting them earlier?

I am making an almond and carrot cake and the syrup ontop of it is suppossed to be amaretto syrup but I don't have that at home. I don't have time to go to the shops so is their any other syrup or topping I can use instead of it? Something easier to put together and I don't want any substitutes like almond extract cause i don't have that either...something most people would have in their pantry :)

I have a pair of vans and I want to purchase some new converse shoes http://www.eastbay.com/product/model:22921/sku:433...

I am a US size 7 in vans and wanted to know whether I should get a smaller size in the converse because I hear that their shoe sizes are bigger? Should I get a 6.5 or 6 or just stick with a 7?

I met this girl at uni this year and we have become pretty good mates...but am really attracted to her but don't know whether she likes me back. I want to make it obvious to her that I do like her, but not too obvious that would just make it awkward. 'm not sure if she likes me back, but she has done a few things that give me the sign that maybe she does like me...such as when we were in the library she moved closer to have a look at what i was doing on my laptop and she leant her head against my shoulder for a few seconds. She also rang me before a lecture to wait for her so she could sit next to me. There are a few other small things but don't know if I'm just over thinking it. So how do I get her to notice that I like her? I won't probably see her for a few weeks now because we are on uni break, so what should I do???

So it's my first year at uni and I have met this girl that I was really attracted to her the first time I met her. I have a few classes with her so I hang around her a bit, she's probably the person I have made the closest friendship with at uni so far. We talk a fair bit and I seem to make her laugh a lot when we're around each other. We have each others number because we had to do a group assignment together, so we have texted each other a couple of times.

The other day she called me before one of our lectures to say she could see me, and she said she wanted to sit next to me so she wasn't by herself. Also the other day she text me before another lecture saying 'save me a seat'. Just two days ago we went to the city together in our 2 hour break and we went and ate lunch at the park. We were first sitting in the shade and then she moved into the sun and said 'its actually really nice over hear'...I didn't really know if that was a hint to say come over and sit with me here? And the last thing was that when we were in our last lecture she was poking me when telling me something...don't know if that is a sign or anything?

So these are just a few small things that we have done together, but I don't know if I'm just looking into it too much or whether I have a chance with her? Does it seem to you like she is attracted to me or is maybe interested in me? Or am I just thinking way too much into it? What should I do?

Thanks!!!

I have recently finished year 12 and have applied for a paramedicine course in the city. I am really keen to do it but only recently one of my mums friends was talking to her about Paramedics and she was saying how this girl that she knows does it and she is changing to something else because she says they get abused alot? Now my mum doesn't really want me to do it cause she worried, but I am still really keen to do it. She was saying how you could do pediatric transport which is similar to paramedics but working with children. As a paramedic do you get abused a lot? What is it like as a job? If any of you's have time could you give me a run down of what it is like to be a paramedic? Positives and negatives?

Thanks

I got the wii concole about a year ago and up until now the controller has stopped working. The blue light is on, some of the buttons seem to work but the sensore isn't working. I've tried to make sure the sensor is plugged in but its not. Any help?

I was sort of seeing this girl a few months ago for about 3 months and we really liked each other, then one day out of the blue she said she didn't like me like that anymore. I was shatterred and it has been nearly three months since then now and I still cannot get over her, I still think about her! What makes it even worse is that she is going out with a guy that I reeally don't like and never have, I don't know him but he's one of those people that thinks he is gods greatest gift. It is so frustrating. I don't know how to get over her, any ideas? Or what I should do?

I have to apply for my courses next year and I am stuck between choosing whether I want to go into paramedicine or teaching. They both really appeal to me but I can't make up my mind. Every time I think I have chosen one I change my mind again.

What would you recommend? How do I know whcih one is better?

We broke up a few week back...well she broke it off with me and i was absolutely shattered. I've gotten over it now but I sorta wanna stay friends with her. How do I start a convo on facebook or something? or is it too awkward?

I'm sure most people have seen Moulin Rouge on DVD and it is absolutely amazing! My favourite musical on DVD by a long margin! But does anyone know why they have never made it into a stage musical? It would be so god if they did!

I wasn't really going out with this girl, but we were sort of seeing each other. We both liked each other a lot, but she just didn't want to have the titles of boyfriend and girlfriend, i knew she liked me though because she would send messages to me saying how she loved me so much! Just recently she got her appendix taken out and then a few days later her grandpa passed away. I texted her to let her know that I was a here for her and I visited her when she was in hospital. She was happy to see me then because she was hugging me on the bed at the hospital. Through that week i would text her daily just to see how she was going and she would text back letting me know how she was. Then her grandpa passed away and i told her that I was there if she needed to talk. She was really thankful. During the next week i sent her messages aksing how she was going, I was doing this because I cared for her. She wouldn't get back to me and I was worrying that something was up, then a few days later she sent one to me saying ' i just want to be left alone', so i thought that was fine because she had been through so much. I left her alone for a couple of day and a few days later I text her again to see how she was but she didn't get back to me, then i text her the next day but again she wouldn't get back to me. I then sent her a message on facebook a week later just saying that I hope she is okay and if she could send a message back just so I know that she was fine. That day she sent me a message over facebook saying 'i just want to be friends, and you have to stop contacting me so much'. This killed me, I asked her if I had done anything and I said why couldn't she have told me earlier, I probably shouldn't have said that though because I know she had a lot going on...stupid of me! She then sent a message back saying 'because ive been preoccupied. god! im sorry i didnt tell you earlier but geez give me a break man. no you havent done anything wrong ive just realised i didnt see you that way'. This hurt me so much, she sounded annoyed with me and I didn't really want that. I sent a message saying I hope she wasn't annoyed with me and that I would love to still be friends. But she didn't get back to me again, all I really wanted was to properly talk about it and not just find out over a facebook message. It really hurts now, I really liked her and now I have to try and get over her. She has been ignoring me always now and i still have not had a proper conversation with her about what happened. What do I do? I was also good friends with her sister and her bestfriend and I don't want to lose them as mates too. How do i approach this? I am finding it so hard seeing as she was the perfect girl and I loved her so much...and still do. And how do I get over her when I'm finding it so hard?

Recently my girlfriends grandfather passed away and I don't really know what to do. I have texted her telling her i am sorry for their loss and that I am there to support her. Before I asked if I could call but she said she wasn't really in the mood, but I know that would be because she is having a tough time. Should I send a sympathy card to their family? Should I call her?

We both like each other and have for a couple of months now. We seem to be seeing each other but we are not officially boyfriend and girlfriend yet. She will sometimes ask me 'are we just friends' and i would ask her why she is asking that and she says 'because i see you more than that'. But when I ask her if she wants to be boyfriend and girlfriend she says she is not sure because she doesn't like the title. We seem to acting like a couple would, like seeing each other often and we wouldn't hook up with anyone else while we are like this. I just get confused sometimes, because i want her to be my girlfriend but I'm not sure if she wants to. She wants to be 'seeing me' because she always says she wants me to be hers and she wants her to be mine. The only thing I can think of is that she thinks about the age difference, I am 18 and she is 15 turning 16. Sometimes I think its because she feels uncomfortable because of this (even though she is happy around me and all her friends know about me) or because of her parents, but I have met her family and they seem to really like me. What do I do? Should I keep it how we are now?