BlueEyedBrunette<33

Sorry I know this is long but please it would mean the world to me if you would just take two minutes to help me out.. I really need some advice.

For some reason recently, ever since summer started, I feel like all of my friends turned their backs on me. I just graduated high school and after four years I thought that I have made some pretty great friendships. I am a pretty shy person and at first it was kinda tough for me to open up to people and trust people because my very best best best friend from gradeschool basically "dumped" me as a friend and shut me out completely... so that was a really tough obstacle to overcome as a freshman. But I managed to overcome it and to branch out and I found some pretty great friends. Over my four years of high school though, some of those friendships kind of faded and we grew apart but I still had a good amount (or so I thought) of really close friends. However, this is kinda depressing to admit but I guess I'm just used to it, I dont think that I am able to say that I have ever had a true best friend and it really sucks. Anyway... about two weeks ago my family threw a graduation party for me and invited like all of my relatives and I invited a lot of my friends (like over 30 people from school). Not one person from my school showed up. Not even the people that I considered my best friends showed up (who told me they were really really gonna try to come)... I was humiliated. But more than anything I was disapointed because most of these people had me under the impression that they truly considered me a friend of theirs. And it just makes me so confused because its not like I was a loner or anything at school. I got invited places. I did stuff on weekends with people. I never would just like sit in class and talk to no one, I always had someone to talk to. I texted people. I thought I had friends. But when litterally not one person showed up to my party.. it just makes me think that something must be wrong with me. Ever since then my self confidence has been soo low and Ive been too embarrassed to talk to or text anyone...

Finally..Two days ago... I facebook messaged two of my "closest friends" and invited them over to my house and I told them to let me know when they're free so we could plan a time to hangout... and... neither of them got back to me yet. But I know they both saw the message because according to facebook they both opened the message. I really want to text them but after the whole party thing and stuff Im just like so paranoid... I feel like such a loser and I dont want to be that annyoing person who cant take a hint when people dont want to talk to you... Ughh What the heck is wrong with me? I never did anything to deserve this. I feel like I really tried to be the best friend that I could be to all of these people. Im soo sick of always being second to the people I put first. And Im just about ready to give up on all of the friends Ive made over the last couple years and just wait til college starts and make a fresh start because all of this stress and ignoring and depression Ive been going through is getting to be too much to handle. All I want is a friend to lean on and right now I feel like I literally have no one. I dont know what to do or why my "friends" have just decided to drop me ever since graduation. What should I do?? Should I bug them until they finally answer?? Should I just forget them all and start all over in college? Ughh please help I really am just sick and tired of feeling this way.. I just need a friend more than anything right now!!

So on my college apps i mentioned that i took the ACT test but since i didnt have my score at the time I didn't tell them my score... which ended up being a lousy 21. I did pretty well on my SATs and I feel that if I send them my ACT score which is not very good, it will make me look bad and they wont want to accept me. If I said on my apps that I took the ACTs do I have to send my scores? Would it be to my benifit to do that or not? Thanks for answering!!

Im changing my tumblr username thingy and I want it to be cute, original, clever, etc.

My first name is emily and my middle name is claire so here is what ive come up with so far.. tell me which you like the best or if you have any other ideas let me know.. THANKS!!!

emilyclairedontcare*

longhairemilyclaire

squareemilyclaire

emily-claire-affair*

emiyclairewithoutcare*

rareemilyclaire

I put * next to my favorites but which ones do you like? let me know! thanks!!

I really really like this boy at my school. He's goregeous, he's an amazing guitar player, he's smart, likes to read, he's a pretty good artist, and he is really really really nice and sweet and funny. He's basically my dream guy. I was sooo close to going to my junior prom with him... so, so close! My best friend was trying to fix us up and he said that if he was going to go he deffinately would have taken me but he didn't go because none of his friends were going.. which I understand, cuz I know I wouldn't want to go to a dance if none of my friends were there. Also he's super shy and quiet which is another reason why he probably didn't ask me. But even though we didn't go to prom together, I still have a feeling that he might like me cause I always catch him looking at me and sometimes he smiles at me when we pass in the halls. Anyways (sorry I kinda started to babble there), the main reason why I'm writing this is because school is over in three days. That means summer, and once summer starts that means I won't see this boy for about three months!! It just makes me really sad and depressed. I like him soo much, like I can't even explain it. Ive been wanting to talk to him for a reallyyyyyy long time now but I am just way too scared. I don't even know what I'm affraid of because he doesn't seem like the kind of guy that would just flat out reject a girl. Oh, and before you say "just keep in touch on facebook" he doesn't have a facbook anymore.. he deleted it a while ago because he never used it. But Ughh I'm just so frustated and sad and I don't know what to do?! Please give me some advice!! I don't want to give up on this guy because I've never felt like this about anyone before. I just feel like I've waited too long to make a move on him.. and it makes me so sad!!! Please give me some advice, I'll appreciate anything :)

Thanks for reading and putting up with all my babbling and venting :)

Hey guys so I know this looks long but it would only take like a second to answer and I would REALLY appreciate it because I really need some advice!! :)

I really really like this boy at my school. He's goregeous, he's an amazing guitar player, he's smart, likes to read, he's a pretty good artist, and he is really really really nice and sweet and funny. He's basically my dream guy. I was sooo close to going to my junior prom with him... so, so close! My best friend was trying to fix us up and he said that if he was going to go he deffinately would have taken me but he didn't go because none of his friends were going.. which I understand, cuz I know I wouldn't want to go to a dance if none of my friends were there. Also he's super shy and quiet which is another reason why he probably didn't ask me. But even though we didn't go to prom together, I still have a feeling that he might like me cause I always catch him looking at me and sometimes he smiles at me when we pass in the halls. Anyways (sorry I kinda started to babble there), the main reason why I'm writing this is because school is over in three days. That means summer, and once summer starts that means I won't see this boy for about three months!! It just makes me really sad and depressed. I like him soo much, like I can't even explain it. Ive been wanting to talk to him for a reallyyyyyy long time now but I am just way too scared. I don't even know what I'm affraid of because he doesn't seem like the kind of guy that would just flat out reject a girl. Oh, and before you say "just keep in touch on facebook" he doesn't have a facbook anymore.. he deleted it a while ago because he never used it. But Ughh I'm just so frustated and sad and I don't know what to do?! Please give me some advice!! I don't want to give up on this guy because I've never felt like this about anyone before. I just feel like I've waited too long to make a move on him.. and it makes me so sad!!! Please give me some advice, I'll appreciate anything :)

Thanks for reading and putting up with all my babbling and venting :)

Hey guys so I know this looks long but it would only take like a second to answer and I would REALLY appreciate it because I really need some advice!! :)

I really really like this boy at my school. He's goregeous, he's an amazing guitar player, he's smart, likes to read, he's a pretty good artist, and he is really really really nice and sweet and funny. He's basically my dream guy. I was sooo close to going to my junior prom with him... so, so close! My best friend was trying to fix us up and he said that if he was going to go he deffinately would have taken me but he didn't go because none of his friends were going.. which I understand, cuz I know I wouldn't want to go to a dance if none of my friends were there. Also he's super shy and quiet which is another reason why he probably didn't ask me. But even though we didn't go to prom together, I still have a feeling that he might like cause I always catch him looking at me and sometimes he smiles at me when we pass in the halls. Anyways (sorry I kinda started to babble there), the main reason why I'm writing this is because school is over in three days. That means summer, and once summer starts that means I won't see this boy for about three months!! It just makes me really sad and depressed. I like him soo much, like I can't even explain it. Ive been wanting to talk to him for a reallyyyyyy long time now but I am just way too scared. I don't even know what I'm affraid of because he doesn't seem like the kind of guy that would just flat out reject a girl. Ughh sdlaga;gih I'm just so frustated and sad and I don't know what to do?! Please give me some advice!! I don't want to give up on this guy because I've never felt like this about anyone before. I just feel like I've waited too long to make a move on him.. and it makes me sad!!! Please give me some advice, I'll appreciate anything :)

Thanks for reading and putting up with all my babling and venting :)

Okay so junior prom at my school is April 27th and they stop selling tickets on friday. That means I have like three days to get a date. Actually my best friend has been trying to set me up with the guy that I have a huge huge huge crush on. He is super duper shy (as am I) and we've like never talked before. Only once or twice. My friend said that he got excited when she told him I was interested in him and that he said he would definately take me to prom if he goes but he dosen't know if he is going to go because none of his friends are going. I really really wanna talk to him but I'm sooooo freaking shy and nervous about what he'll say. And plus whenever I talk to guys I always make a fool out of myself by stuttering and blushing and babbling nonsense. Gahh what do I do?! My friend said she's gonna talk to him again for me tomorrow. But I know I can't make this date happen through my friend. I know I have to talk to him myself, I just don't know if I have the courage to do it!! I don't even know what to say!! Please give me any advice that you have I appriciate it so much! I just really want to go to prom with this boy, i don't wanna end up being one of the loosers going to prom without a date :(

Thank you so much for reading and answering, you guys have no idea how much your advice will help me :)

Sorry i posted this question already but I accidentally put it in the wrong category . Anyway this question is mainly for guys but any girls out there feel free to give me your advice!!!! if you were walking down the hall at school and a girl (that you kind of know but dont really talk to) that passes you all the time in the halls randomly smiles at you one day; how would you react? would you be creeped out or flattered? would it make you happy or would it make you want to stay away from the girl?

Im asking because I am a girl, and whenever I crush on a guy that I see every day but don't really talk to I feel like it would be creepy to just randomly smile at him , let alone go up to him and talk to him. Do you think it would be weird to smile at a boy that I don't talk to? I really wanna get to know this guy and I dont know where to start! I feel like a simple smile would be a good place to start but I dont want him to think im some creppy stalker or something haha. what should I do??

So Boys, if you were walking down the hall at school and a girl (that you kind of know but dont really talk to) that passes you all the time in the halls randomly smiles at you one day; how would you react? would you be creeped out or flattered? would it make you happy or would it make you want to stay away from the girl?

Im asking because I am a girl, and whenever I crush on a guy that I see every day but don't really talk to I feel like it would be creepy to just randomly smile at him , let alone go up to him and talk to him. Do you think it would be weird to smile at a boy that I don't talk to? I really wanna get to know this guy and I dont know where to start! I feel like a simple smile would be a good place to start but I dont want him to think im some creppy stalker or something haha. what should I do??

So Boys, if you were walking down the hall at school and a girl (that you kind of know but dont really talk to) that passes you all the time in the halls randomly smiles at you one day; how would you react? would you be creeped out or flattered? would it make you happy or would it make you want to stay away from the girl?

Im asking because I am a girl, and whenever I crush on a guy that I see every day but don't really talk to I feel like it would be creepy to just randomly smile at him , let alone go up to him and talk to him. Do you think it would be weird to smile at a boy that I don't talk to? I really wanna get to know this guy and I dont know where to start! I feel like a simple smile would be a good place to start but I dont want him to think im some creppy stalker or something haha. what should I do??

So Boys, if you were walking down the hall at school and a girl (that you kind of know but dont really talk to) that passes you all the time in the halls randomly smiles at you one day; how would you react? would you be creeped out or flattered? would it make you happy or would it make you want to stay away from the girl?

Im asking because I am a girl, and whenever I crush on a guy that I see every day but don't really talk to I feel like it would be creepy to just randomly smile at him , let alone go up to him and talk to him. Do you think it would be weird to smile at a boy that I don't talk to? I really wanna get to know this guy and I dont know where to start! I feel like a simple smile would be a good place to start but I dont want him to think im some creppy stalker or something haha. what should I do??

Okay so I know this looks long but please just humor me. it would mean SO much to me if you would answer and give me some advice... thanks!

So there is this boy in my grade (im a junior in highschool at the moment 16 years old) that I have been crushing on from afar since the beginning of the school year. He's adorable and nice, he's into art like I am and is a really really reallyy good guitar player (which just makes him 10xhotter) He's in my homeroom and has the same lunch period as me and I pass him a couple times in the halls thoughout the day.

The only problem is he is extremely quiet and shy, as am i (when it comes to talking to guys). I've only talked to him like once or twice my whole life, like im not even friends with him on facebook. But Im pretty sure that he knows who I am. we make eye contact alot and sometimes I try to smile at him. Also, sometimes I catch him staring at me...I dont know what it is about him that makes me like him so much but i just cant stop thinking about him and daydreaming about what would happen if i actually got the courage to talk to him. Ugh im just too freaking shy at talking to guys.. it sucks!! what should I do? Do i even stand a chance with him?

I told my friends that I like him and they said that they would try and help me talk to him and try and fix us up but they have yet to help me in any way... its so frustrating! And it doesn't help that he is really shy and quiet too.. i feel like he might like me too but he's just too shy to make a move!!

Please give me some advice on what I should do! it depresses me to think that this might never be more than a crush... I've never had a boyfriend before and I really want one! And even though I don't know this guy too well, I think that he and I would be a good match for each other. we're both shy, and we both like music and art! And he just seems like a really sincere, genuine guy and I really want to get to know him!!! My shyness just gets in the way :(

Okay so I know this looks long but please just humor me. it would mean SO much to me if you would answer and give me some advice... thanks!

So there is this boy in my grade (im a junior in highschool at the moment 16 years old) that I have been crushing on from afar since the beginning of the school year. He's adorable and nice, he's into art like I am and is a really really reallyy good guitar player (which just makes him 10xhotter) He's in my homeroom and has the same lunch period as me and I pass him a couple times in the halls thoughout the day.

The only problem is he is extremely quiet and shy, as am i (when it comes to talking to guys). I've only talked to him like once or twice my whole life, like im not even friends with him on facebook. But Im pretty sure that he knows who I am. we make eye contact alot and sometimes I try to smile at him. Also, sometimes I catch him staring at me...I dont know what it is about him that makes me like him so much but i just cant stop thinking about him and daydreaming about what would happen if i actually got the courage to talk to him. Ugh im just too freaking shy at talking to guys.. it sucks!! what should I do? Do i even stand a chance with him?

I told my friends that I like him and they said that they would try and help me talk to him and try and fix us up but they have yet to help me in any way... its so frustrating! And it doesn't help that he is really shy and quiet too.. i feel like he might like me too but he's just too shy to make a move!!

Please give me some advice on what I should do! it depresses me to think that this might never be more than a crush... I've never had a boyfriend before and I really want one! And even though I don't know this guy too well, I think that he and I would be a good match for each other. we're both shy, and we both like music and art! And he just seems like a really sincere, genuine guy and I really want to get to know him!!! My shyness just gets in the way :(

I know this looks long but I would reallllyyyy appriciate it if you would please just help me and give me some advice :)

So lately I've been crushing on this guy at school. (i'm a junior in highschool by the way. 16 years old. never had a boyfriend. and I'm really shy when it comes to talking to boys) Anyway I've started to like this guy. He's really cute but REALLY REALLY SHY... kinda like me when it comes to talking to boys. I don't know what it is about him but for some reason I just cannot get him off of my mind. The only problem is I've only talked to him like once in my life, like i'm not even friends with him on facebook yet. I'm pretty sure he knows he knows who I am though, and I think he might feel the same way about me because I always catch him looking at me and when we make eye contact sometimes he blushes and looks away really fast. I reallyy want to talk to him but I don't know what to talk to him about. I don't have any classes with him but he is in my homeroom and lunch.

Do you think it's weird that I'm crushing on this guy that I barely even know? Sometimes I feel like its useless liking someone that I don't really know, but I can't really help it. There's just something about him. I don't know if it's his cuteness or his timidness or his amazing ability to play guitar (yeah i forgot to mention he is a REALLY good guitar player which I think is super hot!) that makes me like him but he just seems like a really sweet, genuine, nice guy and I want to get to know him but i don't know how!!! And I don't want to scare him away or freak him out by just randomly talking to him because he's so shy. Also, I haven't told my friends that i like him because i don't know how they would react because this guy isn't the most popular guy. I just have this feelin ginside of me that this guy is special, that he's not like other guys and I reallyyy want to talk to him i just don't know how or when or where or what to say hahaha

So what should I do?? I'll take any advice that I can get!!! Thanks so much!! sorry this was kinda long but i really do appriciate the advice :)

I posted this question yesterday and earlier today but i didnt get as many responses as I would have like so please if you read this can ya answer? Thanks :)

So lately I've been crushing on this guy at school. (i'm a junior in highschool by the way. 16 years old. never had a boyfriend. and I'm really shy when it comes to talking to boys) Anyway I've started to like this guy. He's really cute but REALLY REALLY SHY... kinda like me when it comes to talking to boys. I don't know what it is about him but for some reason I just cannot get him off of my mind. The only problem is I've only talked to him like once in my life, like i'm not even friends with him on facebook yet. I'm pretty sure he knows he knows who I am though, and I think he might feel the same way about me because I always catch him looking at me and when we make eye contact sometimes he blushes and looks away really fast. I reallyy want to talk to him but I don't know what to talk to him about. I don't have any classes with him but he is in my homeroom and lunch.

Do you think it's weird that I'm crushing on this guy that I barely even know? Sometimes I feel like its useless liking someone that I don't really know, but I can't really help it. There's just something about him. I don't know if it's his cuteness or his timidness or his amazing ability to play guitar (yeah i forgot to mention he is a REALLY good guitar player which I think is super hot!) that makes me like him but he just seems like a really sweet, genuine, nice guy and I want to get to know him but i don't know how!!! And I don't want to scare him away or freak him out by just randomly talking to him because he's so shy. Also, I haven't told my friends that i like him because i don't know how they would react because this guy isn't the most popular guy.

So what should I do?? I'll take any advice I can get!!! Thanks so much

So lately I've been crushing on this guy at school. (i'm a junior in highschool by the way. 16 years old. never had a boyfriend. and I'm really shy when it comes to talking to boys) Anyway I've started to like this guy. He's really cute but REALLY REALLY SHY... kinda like me when it comes to talking to boys. I don't know what it is about him but for some reason I just cannot get him off of my mind. The only problem is I've only talked to him like once in my life, like i'm not even friends with him on facebook yet. I'm pretty sure he knows he knows who I am though, and I think he might feel the same way about me because I always catch him looking at me and when we make eye contact sometimes he blushes and looks away really fast. I reallyy want to talk to him but I don't know what to talk to him about. I don't have any classes with him but he is in my homeroom and lunch.

Do you think it's weird that I'm crushing on this guy that I barely even know? Sometimes I feel like its useless liking someone that I don't really know, but I can't really help it. There's just something about him. I don't know if it's his cuteness or his timidness or his amazing ability to play guitar (yeah i forgot to mention he is a REALLY good guitar player which I think is super hot!) that makes me like him but he just seems like a really sweet, genuine, nice guy and I want to get to know him but i don't know how!!! And I don't want to scare him away or freak him out by just randomly talking to him because he's so shy. Also, I haven't told my friends that i like him because i don't know how they would react because this guy isn't the most popular guy.

So what should I do?? I'll take any advice I can get!!! Thanks so much

So lately I've been crushing on this guy at school. (i'm a junior in highschool by the way. 16 years old. never had a boyfriend. and I'm really shy when it comes to talking to boys) Anyway I've started to like this guy. He's really cute but REALLY REALLY SHY... kinda like me when it comes to talking to boys. I don't know what it is about him but for some reason I just cannot get him off of my mind. The only problem is I've only talked to him like once in my life, like i'm not even friends with him on facebook yet. I'm pretty sure he knows he knows who I am though, and I think he might feel the same way about me because I always catch him looking at me and when we make eye contact sometimes he blushes and looks away really fast. I reallyy want to talk to him but I don't know what to talk to him about. I don't have any classes with him but he is in my homeroom and lunch.

Do you think it's weird that I'm crushing on this guy that I barely even know? Sometimes I feel like its useless liking someone that I don't really know, but I can't really help it. There's just something about him. I don't know if it's his cuteness or his timidness or his amazing ability to play guitar (yeah i forgot to mention he is a REALLY good guitar player which I think is super hot!) that makes me like him but he just seems like a really sweet, genuine, nice guy and I want to get to know him but i don't know how!!! And I don't want to scare him away or freak him out by just randomly talking to him because he's so shy. Also, I haven't told my friends that i like him because i don't know how they would react because this guy isn't the most popular guy.

So what should I do?? I'll take any advice I can get!!! Thanks so much

So I was supposed to get my period like two weeks ago.. I've been getting my period pretty regularly since I was twelve and I'm 15 (turning 16 on Sunday!) so why would it be late all of a sudden?? I know for a fact the I wouldn't be prego. Because Ive never even kissed a boy or had a bf, let alone have you know what! I don't think I'm under any stress cuz school hasn't even started. I have gained like 5 pounds since the beginning of summer.. Could that have anything to do with it? What should I do? Why is my period late?? I'm kinda worried!!

Okay so today I went turned on my computer for the first time after three days of not using it... I went on YouTube and this website flvtomp3.com that my friends said they use to download free music from YouTube so u thought I'd try it. And the website said it was under construction so I exited out of it and just went to YouTube. After a couple minutes I got the blue screen of death and my screen went black and I quickly turned my comp. Off and tried to restart it. All that happens when I turn it on is this HP screen comes up like it always does and then it's just black. It doesnt go any further than that. I am freaking out and so is my whole family.. I'm so scared that we lost all of our information!! I ran a couple tests and it said that the memory was fine and that the SMART hardwire was fine but it said that the primary battery failed?? I'm just freaking out because my whole family relies on this computer right now... What does all of this mean and what should I do?? Do you think my whole computer us ruined??

me and my friend are going to see Harry Potter on monday. Do you think if we just go and buy tickets there it would be sold out? should we buy tickets in advance or just chance it? Usually Id just chance it but Ive heard that this movie is really popular and i could just see it being sold out when we go to by tickets that day.. what do u think??