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i have been dating this guy for three months now.we love each other very much .. lol i know after three months we love each other .. sounds crazy. before i met him i would have thought the exact same but its possible. anyways so he is divorced and has a kid that is 5. I hate that that's how i'm describing him but for the purpose of the question i think it fits. i'm in my early twenties and have never been married and have no children of my own and he is 26 . he got married at 19 and has been divorced for almost two years now. It basically ended cause she was very controlling and also ended up cheating on him. and i guess my QUESTION is: how do i deal with the fact that he has shared all those experiences before? i guess in a way i dont understand how certain things between us could ever be special since he s already been there and done that ... there are no "firsts" for us .

he wants me to meet his child soon and to do that i have to meet the ex first and im terrified and intimidated . i dont know how to handle it. ive told him i have no desire to meet his ex. the last hing i need floating around in my head is a mental image of them together. i've talked to him about it and he says " it was just a relationship .. you have been with others too and lived together .. there is no difference " and i say" no there is a difference .. you were obviously in love with her enough to marry and have a child.. even though i have practically lived with a man before .. i did not marry him"

i have excepted the fact that he has a kid but since she has been living on the other side of the country it has never been something that has really come up much but now she and her mom are going to be moving three hours away and the child will be staying with him some weekends

so now its just kinda interrupting the way we have been doing things in the relationship for the past months and i'm not sure how it will play out

i guess i just don't want to be forgotten about and i don't want our relationship to go to poop

lol i'm sorry i'm sure this sounds like a bunch of jumbled up thoughts

but thank you for reading and any advice will help greatly

i am thinking about moving to Tokyo and was wanting to know what it would be like for an american over there

also what it would be like working in the healthcare industry in japan

and if you currently live there what amount of money do you budget for yourself every month for living costs and extras .. translate into u.s. currency if possible

and any info on visa s for working in japan would be appreciated

do you think there will ever be some peace ?if so what do you think could be a solution ?

there were 3,100 people killed in juarez last yr alone . do you believe there will be more this yr or less

This agency was located in dallas ,Tx however its no longer there

any info would be much appreciated

tell me what you know

for the baby boomer generation it was very common to get married young however, now there tends to be controversy surrounding this concept

so what do you believe?

i just bought a new laptop about a month ago and it is protected by McAfee

but for some reason this program called security shield keeps popping up and saying my computer is infected by 14 viruses and wants me to pay for them to clean up my computer

i'm pretty sure its just advertising and that i dont really have any viruses seeing as i ran a mcafee scan

so how can i get rid of these pop ups and how did they start in the beginning and is it a scam for sure? any info will help alot thanks so much

how much would you charge a hr to babysit a newborn and a two yr old?

so ive met this new guy i really like him,but he has a child

the child doesnt live with him or anything she lives in a different state but im not sure how to explain it to people especially my parents they are very judgmental

i never thought in a million years i would date someone with a kid

so im trying to get use to it

i would like my parents to aprove but i just dont see that happening

they would never ask that question but i feel like even by withholding the info that im doing something wrong .. i mean its not something you can hide forever

they even look down on the fact that he s in the military

i swear they want me to find a nice dr or something

any ideas?

so ive met this new guy i really like him,but he has a child

the child doesnt live with him or anything she lives in a different state but im not sure how to explain it to people especially my parents they are very judgmental

i never thought in a million years i would date someone with a kid

so im trying to get use to it

i would like my parents to aprove but i just dont see that happening

they would never ask that question but i feel like even by withholding the info that im doing something wrong .. i mean its not something you can hide forever

they even look down on the fact that he s in the military

i swear they want me to find a nice dr or something

any ideas?

so i was dating this guy for about 8 months and the last couple months we were long distance

anyways he basically just gave up he said he loved me and cared about me and then he just said he couldnt do it anymore

i guess i just feel used and i have alot of built up hatred and i want to make his hurt i hate this feeling its not who i am

anyways i recently just met this guy we have been talking for about two weeks now and we really click he is very sweet i told him bout how i ' ve been hurt and he understands and is willing to take things as slow as i want

he sent me a dozen roses and chocolate and a teddy bear for no reasoin just because he wanted to show me he likes me and cares

he s so sweet but im still afraid of getting hurt i havent even kissed the guy

cause im so terrified

i guess i just want to know some ideas on how to get over my ex and get rid of the hatred and how to feel good enough and open up to this new guy cause i dont want him to slip away i want to be able to trust and forget the past

so i was dating this guy for about 8 months and the last couple months we were long distance

anyways he basically just gave up he said he loved me and cared about me and then he just said he couldnt do it anymore

i guess i just feel used and i have alot of built up hatered

anyways i recently just met this guy we have been talking for about two weeks now and we really click he is very sweet

he sent me a dozen roses and chocolate and a teddy bear for no reasoin just because

he s so sweet but im still afraid of getting hurt i havent even kissed the guy

cause im so terrified

i guess i just want to know some ideas on how to get over my ex and get rid of the hatred and how to feel good enough and open up to this new guy cause i dont want him to slip away i want to be able to trust and forget the past

He Says He's not mad just upset?

So i;ve been talking to this guy for a little while and we hung out friday night and apparently i asked him some question that upset him and now he is acting a little od around me he said the question was a little too prying he s really shy and sensitive and i ve apologized numerous times

he is still texting me but i know he s still upset

what should i do ?

i know he s always saying he really bored at work and has been wanting me to come up there so i was thinking about going up there tomorrow night and bringing him something to eat

i asked him if he would let me make it up to him and he said idk

i think he is just still upset how do i get him to come around

open to all suggestions

He Says He's not mad just upset?

So i;ve been talking to this guy for a little while and we hung out friday night and apparently i asked him some question that upset him and now he is acting a little od around me he said the question was a little too prying he s really shy and sensitive and i ve apologized numerous times

he is still texting me but i know he s still upset

what should i do ?

i know he s always saying he really bored at work and has been wanting me to come up there so i was thinking about going up there tomorrow night and bringing him something to eat

i asked him if he would let me make it up to him and he said idk

i think he is just still upset how do i get him to come around

open to all suggestions

So i;ve been talking to this guy for a little while and we hung out friday night and apparently i asked him some question that upset him and now he is acting a little od around me he said the question was a little too prying he s really shy and sensitive and i ve apologised numerous times

he is still texting me but i know he s still upset

what should i do ?

i know he s always saying he really bored at work so i was thinking about going up there tomorrow night and bringing him something to eat

open to all suggestions

i want to be able to reset my wireless routing number easily

how can i do this

Help!!! i cant decide

so my bf and i have been together for 6 months long distance

its been pretty hard ,anyways i have had this feeling that he has cheated

i dont think he has another gf but i do think he has slipped up so its kinda been bothering me

i have also made a mistake

i ended up getting caught up with this guy who was treating me sooo sweet

we kinda messed around

and now i am wondering if i should tell my bf

im kinda in a place right now where i dont want to know what he did and im not sure that he would want to know either

i think he would forgive me but i kinda just want to avoid causing him pain and i would also rather not know

breaking up isnt a option i am really copnsidering right now

looking for advice

serious answers please

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i am going to visit him in a week or two

if i do decide to tell him should i wait to tell him in person

so my bf and i have been together for 6 months long distance

its been pretty hard ,anyways i have had this feeling that he has cheated

i dont think he has another gf but i do think he has slipped up so its kinda been bothering me

i have also made a mistake

i ended up getting caught up with this guy who was treating me sooo sweet

we kinda messed around

and now i am wondering if i should tell my bf

im kinda in a place right now where i dont want to know what he did and im not sure that he would want to know either

i think he would forgive me but i kinda just want to avoid causing him pain and i would also rather not know

breaking up isnt a option i am really copnsidering right now

looking for advice

serious answers please